Zhu Shanshan in "settling down" encounters "hidden rules": how should women protect themselves outside?

This TV series has been talked about at the fastest speed since the broadcast of Anjia. Especially the character "Zhu Shanshan" in the play is becoming more and more topical.

In the new plot, in order to pay the bill, Zhu Shanshan wears a white uniform and talks with the customer about the details of buying a house at nine o'clock. Simple, she didn't realize it was a trap and almost met the hidden rules in the workplace. Fortunately, a group of people, such as Wang Zijian, arrived in time, which did not cause great disaster and successfully lifted the crisis.

Netizens have different opinions about Zhu Shanshan's behavior.

Some people say that Zhu Shanshan is well protected by her colleagues. She didn't pay the bill for two years, and she didn't know that the world was sinister, let alone how to become a qualified salesman.

Some netizens also said that Zhu Shanshan's purpose is not simple, and she has always held the idea of falling in love with customers. When she saw luxury cars, rich people and so-called rich people, her mind was full of desires and her thoughts were simple and beautiful. It's not entirely for buying a house that a pervert will take advantage.

No matter what netizens think about the role of Zhu Shanshan, it is common for women to encounter sexual harassment and crisis in the workplace. One of the problems that women should consider is how to protect themselves when they are working hard outside.

It has been reported that a bank executive harassed female subordinates and claimed: "Either go to bed or get laid off!" Faced with such a naked threat, female subordinates are helpless, but their arms can't twist their thighs after all. A foreigner with no background has dignity and resigned in a fit of pique!

Numerous "sexual harassment" incidents emerge one after another and abound. "Sexual harassment" is extremely common in this society. It touches almost 40%-60% of working women, and only a few are gay. However, relevant data show: "After the harassment, only 34.4% people complained to the company's human resources department, less than one-fifth of the cases led to lawsuits or reported to the police, and as many as 54.4% harassers chose to yield or ban."

A friend of Liu Shuang said that she had encountered such a thing. Two years ago, there was a male leader in the last company. He is handsome and handsome, and he is the kind of man whose appearance and talent are exposed. Such a man is born with an aura that people want to be close to. Like most girls, Liu Shuang was attracted by the male leader. But it is also limited to appreciation.

However, somehow, after several contacts, Liu Shuang found that the other person seemed different from himself. Since he asked himself to help book the plane ticket, the contact between the two people has become more and more. After we get to know each other, we not only invite him to dinner together, but also often invite ourselves to the movies.

Once I don't understand, twice I don't understand When I went out alone for the third time, Liu Shuang realized that the other party had ulterior motives. Sure enough, this relationship lasted for half a year, and the leaders put forward more excessive demands. After watching the movie, he hopes to go to Liu Shuang's house for coffee.

Liu Shuang is not stupid. He soon realized that something was wrong. Much as she appreciates each other, she never appreciates such contact. His frivolous behavior is obvious.

She tried many methods, but none of them could match her direct leadership. So in a fit of pique, Liu Shuang chose to resign. She knew that if she didn't resign, she would be the last person to get hurt.

So is Zhao Na. Zhao Na looks very sweet. In the background of all the fat people in the company, Zhao Na can almost be called "China". But even with the best pay, Zhao Na chose to resign. The reason is that the company leader asked her to drink with a group of big men at night.

Not to mention that Zhao Na doesn't like drinking, the present situation of nine men and one woman alone makes Zhao Na feel that his leader is up to no good at all.

On the wine table, these men played dirty tricks more than once. As an unmarried woman, Zhao Nashi couldn't listen anymore and wanted to leave, but the leader actually threatened her quietly. If she gets cold feet in this wine game, the bonus at the end of the year will be penniless!

Zhao Na felt wronged by such threats, but she still bowed her head and asked for money. The bonus at the end of the year can be worth the salary in the first half of the year, and she can't do without it. Finally, at two o'clock in the morning, the restaurant ended. Zhao Na pretended to be half awake and half drunk, and staggered to take the medicine home. At the same time, Zhao Na is also very clear that the leader has been robbed by alcohol, chest and thighs!

In this way, her stomach turned upside down and she felt sick. She just wants to go home and wash.

Living in this world, adults don't have much willfulness. Zhao Na bravely faced such a leader in the company, and he got a bonus until the end of the year. She decided to resign when she came back the next year, leaving nothing for the company before she resigned, let alone showing any goodwill to this respectable leader. It's just plain, but it's lovely to learn to grow through patience.

I once read an article about her real experience, and she said, "I remember that I also encountered very blatant verbal flirting and harassment. The other party is the vice president of the company. Repeated warnings were invalid, so I had to hide from drinking and crying ... "

Indeed, for ordinary employees, faced with workplace harassment, we have no confidence to resist, only endless helplessness and pain.

How women protect themselves in the workplace is a serious topic. Judging from numerous harassment incidents, people usually bully the weak and fear the hard. Sometimes, the more we swallow our pride, the more arrogant the other person is, and the more severe the harassment is. If you act tough from the beginning, the other party will think more, and it will not be so easy to do it in order to save face and not tear your face.

When encountering this kind of thing, first leave enough face for the other party, while expressing resistance, let the other party have a buffer time, and then avoid personal contact and stay at a respectful distance from sb.

However, if the other person is persistent and has obvious behavior consciousness, that is, he won't let you go, then don't cherish this job, take up the weapon of law and defend your dignity! Of course, in this process, you must not be stupid. When you need to use the law, it means that you must have evidence. Find a good friend to accompany you and find a way to record every record and voucher that the other party has secretly plotted against you. While ensuring the quality of work, report to the company's top management that you will solve the harassment through legal channels!

Many people think that sexual harassment in the workplace is something far away from them, or they always feel lucky and can guess the boss's favor. In fact, you can see from those provocative words that luck, fate and promotion are not so easy to come by! Many intimate relationships in the workplace are just profitable or coveted.

Women, whether in marriage or in the workplace, should do their best to protect themselves from harm! Don't be like Zhu Shanshan, who has no experience in the workplace at all, and live himself into a "stupid white sweet"! After all, there are not so many "Wang Zijian" in this world who can stand up for you!