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Event review. A young man in Shandong originally had a happy family. A demolition made him see his wife's family clearly. It is reported that the house of the young man's hometown was demolished, and the demolition amount was 6.5438+0.5 million.
The young man told his wife about it, and the wife told her mother-in-law. It is said that people want face, trees want skin, and mother-in-law has the cheek to let her son-in-law buy a house for her son with130 thousand.
The young man flatly refused and told his wife that the demolition money was his parents' money and had nothing to do with him. He had no obligation to buy a house for his brother-in-law.
The wife felt that the young man put her off with words, indicating that his parents' money was the young man's money, and his parents could not have used up so much money. The wife also used methods such as throwing dung and threatening divorce to force the young man to submit.
The young man was upset by his wife's behavior, borrowed10 million from his parents, and divorced his wife. My wife was dumbfounded this time. This is stealing chickens and not eating rice.
The young man really shouldn't pay for his brother-in-law to buy a house. He has no obligation or responsibility. Everyone has their own ideas. The brother-in-law is a man. Isn't he ashamed to look at his sister like this?
The young man also said that the money belongs to his parents, and how to distribute it is up to his parents. When the house is demolished, the old couple still have to buy a house. They are all old people, and their mother-in-law is too selfish.
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Preference for boys is too harmful. As the saying goes, raise children to prevent old age. But the old man is really lying in the hospital bed, and it is often his daughter who can serve him. Daughter is the intimate little cotton-padded jacket of parents. She usually thinks about her parents and cares about them.
Some parents can't catch up with their sons, no matter how hard their daughters try. Parents always let their daughters humble their sons, and the palms of their hands are full of meat. Why do you want to wronged them?
The boy's mother-in-law won a suite for her son at the expense of her daughter's happiness. Is the son's house more important, or the daughter's future happiness more important? Great, my daughter divorced because of selfishness.
Treating your daughter as a cash cow and forcing your son-in-law to take130 thousand is the rhythm of selling your daughter. This matter is placed on the mother-in-law, and the daughter-in-law wants to give the money to her brother to buy a house alive. How does she feel?
A man should also have a bottom line and know how to be measured. Even if the mother-in-law dotes on her son, the son-in-law has no reason to cater to her. Because the son is so different.
The mother-in-law put her daughter in the crevice and let her choose between herself and her husband. When a daughter supports her husband, she loses the support of her family. When she chooses to stand on the side of her family, she loses her husband's love.
In fact, the ultimate victim of this incident was the young man's wife. She had a happy family and loved her husband, but under the guidance of her mother, she was rejected by her husband and her family broke up.
The idea of son preference is too harmful. As a parent, a bowl of water is flat, which has a great influence on children in the future. Why does the daughter give way to her son who is also a woman, and why does the mother not understand this pain?
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Marry a virtuous man. If you don't marry a good husband, you will ruin three generations, choose a husband and ruin your life.
A woman has many identities in her life, including daughter, wife and mother. A good wife can help her husband share his troubles and work together for happiness. Parents are children's first teachers, and a good mother can educate children to take the right path.
The young man's wife, influenced by his mother's preference for sons, is likely to continue his mother's old path in the future. The unfair treatment of daughters is like a vicious circle, which goes on and on.
A family's education will be reflected in children. Children are parents' mirrors, which can reflect parents' morality and upbringing. A good mother should not only take good care of her children, but also let them learn to be human.
The mother-in-law had the cheek to ask her son-in-law for money to buy a house for her son. If the son-in-law doesn't give it, let the daughter divorce. No matter from which angle, I don't see a good mother role model.
As the saying goes, a good wife is at home, away from sudden misfortune. When the young man's parents get rich from demolition, his husband's family will miss the demolition money, and the family will have no peace. Even if the young man does not divorce, there will be bad blood in the future.
It's really hard for a young man to be kidnapped by his mother-in-law. The young man is willing to divorce his wife with/kloc-0.0 million. Maybe the wife just wanted to scare the boy, but this time it came true.
Marriage is not a joke, and divorce is not a mantra. If it really comes true one day, it means that the other person's heart is really dead. Marriage is like being a man, you should know the bottom line and the limits.
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In short, the young man has no obligation to buy a house for his brother-in-law, and the demolition money is the money of the young man's parents. How to spend it is up to parents, and mother-in-law has no right to allocate it.
The mother-in-law's behavior is surprising, not only losing her identity, but also hurting her daughter's happiness. I wonder if she will reflect on herself.