Xiao Li, the protagonist of this issue
"Yes, you will support me when I am 38."
"Why do you want to work? I am lying at home eating and playing, and it is also a regular life. "
Then it was Aunt Liang's son who said this sentence. She is 38 years old.
For him now, only eating, drinking and having fun is the most important thing.
But at this time, he is the golden age of making money to support his family.
No matter how his parents persuade him, Xiao Li always sticks to his attitude!
Aunt Liang
When we first entered the society, we always thought that.
"When can I lie down and make a salted fish, and money will fall from the sky?"
But it is unrealistic to think about this idea now.
But in Baoding, Hebei, this man named Xiao Li has "done it"
When the reporter went to interview, the man was not surprised at all, even very calm.
But my mother is very sad.
According to Xiao Li's mother:
"For the sake of my son, my wife and I are very anxious. Don't you think he will be finished if he goes on like this? "
As soon as the voice fell, Xiao Li immediately interrupted her mother's rhetoric.
Aunt Liang told reporters.
When mom is complaining.
Xiao Li freely said:
"People are born as advanced animals, just to enjoy. Only by enjoying can we know the true meaning of life."
Let alone a reporter, even we ordinary people are a little confused when we hear it.
Under Xiao Li's narrative, Xiao Li also made it clear that this is not nothing.
This is just an experience of life. What you experience at work is human suffering.
I have to say that going to work is really human nature, but think about where there is money if you don't go to work.
Aunt Liang quarreled with her son Xiao Li.
Then let's get down to business.
In front of reporters, Xiao Li speaks easily.
Yes, speaking is better than singing, so has Xiao Li thought about it?
Over the years, he has been eating his parents' hard-earned money as a giant baby.
When the reporter mentioned this matter, Xiao Li expressed disapproval and even some excitement.
After the reporter learned about it many times, he realized that Xiao Li had long been hiding something.
But even if there is a big secret, why did it become like this?
And what caused Xiao Li to change?
During the conversation, Xiao Li began to be an iron rice bowl in the enterprise. How did he lose his job?
What happened here is exactly where Xiao Li's defense line collapsed in his heart!
Xiao Li
It turns out that Xiao Li didn't start this "giant baby" life at an early age.
In 2007, Xiao Li just graduated from junior high school.
The students in the class are all preparing for high school.
But Xiao Li didn't want to read any more, and even preached to his parents many times:
"I don't want to study now. I want to earn money and go to work! "
In desperation, his mother agreed to his idea.
Xiao Li, with a low education, came to Beijing and started a hard and long life in the north alone.
Because at that time, Xiao Li was very active, loved learning and had a sweet mouth.
So I was also very popular when I was working in Beijing.
After several years of hard work, Xiao Li finally got mixed up.
Introduced by an acquaintance, Xiao Li successfully joined a state-owned enterprise.
Just three months after joining the company, Xiao Li's salary has reached 5000.
At that time, he was so happy
So in the village, Xiao Li's parents also feel that their faces are very dignified.
Everyone will show off how powerful their son is.
With a great job, parents are also anxious about their children's marriage.
Without Xiao Li's knowledge, in fact, parents had already asked around the matchmaker with photos.
Mother tells
Then Xiao Li didn't want to get married at first, after all, her career had just stabilized.
But parents and Xiao Li have the opposite idea.
Because in the eyes of parents, it will be better to start a career after marriage.
Unable to resist her mother's education, Xiao Li had to take a few days off and choose to go home.
Xiao Li, who came home, kissed him back and forth four times.
Finally, with the help of my mother, I matched a girl.
At that time, Xiao Li earned 5000 yuan a month, which was already a very petty job.
The woman was also very satisfied with Xiao Li, so they began to fall in love.
The picture comes from the internet.
Although she is in love, Xiao Li is in Beijing and doesn't meet more than twice a month.
To this end, the woman also has a lot of dissatisfaction.
So after many conversations, both parents also hope to return to Baoding for development.
Because of this, the relationship between the two will be stronger.
When Xiao Li's mother, Aunt Liang, told Xiao Li the idea.
Xiao Li is very reluctant, because there will be a good development in Beijing, not to mention that many people are eyeing that position now.
If Xiao Li resigns, there will be the next batch of people to make up for it.
It's really hard to find such a good job then.
Xiao Li tells
When Xiao Li told her mother what she thought, her mother didn't agree.
To this end, Xiao Li also had a big fight with her mother.
So at the repeated request of the mother and the woman's parents, Xiao Li had to resign.
Xiao Li, who returned to Baoding, also hit a wall many times when looking for a job.
Because of his junior high school diploma, many units refused.
After searching for a month, a company finally wanted it, but the income was only 1 100 yuan.
Xiao Li was depressed for a long time.
Because 5000 yuan is far from 1 100 yuan.
After half a year of contact, Xiao Li also put forward the idea of getting married.
But when it comes to the bride price of the old father-in-law's family, there are many difficulties.
Xiao Li is also a frank person, carrying a few bottles of good wine to propose marriage.
But it never occurred to me.
The woman's family said that it would definitely cost a lot of money, and even the children would take the woman's surname in the future.
At that time, Xiao Li drank a little too much and was not very clear-headed.
"Are you dreaming? Are you too deceiving? "
The old father-in-law was shocked when he heard Xiao Li say this.
But even so, the attitude of the old father-in-law is still very firmly said:
"Marrying my girl is a dead rule."
Xiao Li told reporters calmly.
The more Xiao Li listens, the more depressed and excited he is.
Because in the early days, Xiao Li quit her high-paying job for her.
Nowadays, not only is the bride price high, but even children are not allowed to take their surnames.
Xiao Li held back at first, but as the father-in-law became more and more unreasonable.
Xiao Li also drank several glasses of white wine in succession.
After drinking a few kilograms of liquor, Xiao Li's consciousness gradually began to blur.
At this moment, Xiao Li couldn't hold back. He immediately picked up the barber knife on the table and stabbed the old man four times in the stomach.
My mother and girlfriend are scared to death.
Only after the police arrived did Xiao Li realize that he had committed a crime.
Fortunately, the scissors were not sharp after the appraisal results came out.
After many discussions between Xiao Li's mother and the woman's family, no serious personal injury was caused.
Xiao Li was finally sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment.
It may also be because of this that Xiao Li seems to be a different person after he got out of prison.
Even when my mother visited the prison, Xiao Li always cried bitterly:
"I am too impulsive, why should I be so impulsive!"
But after all, there is no regret medicine in the world. Even if he is awake now, it is too late.
The picture comes from the internet.
During his release from prison, Xiao Li also discussed with his mother many times that he did not want to work locally.
So Xiao Li went to Beijing again, but this time Xiao Li was not so lucky.
Xiao Li had a criminal record.
Rejected by the company many times, Xiao Li's mood once fell to a low point.
After two years of hard work, Xiao Li went to work from the starting site and sat down on the foreman step by step.
Xiao Li, who is getting better, met his beloved.
At that time, Xiao Li could drive 5500 a month.
During the period of falling in love with this girl, it may be because of complementary personalities.
The two also got married smoothly.
Xiao Li told reporters about the process of her love.
Half a year after marriage, the girl went out many times and didn't go home.
Even Xiao Li didn't answer the phone.
Even in a quarrel, I can easily uncover the scar of Xiao Li's imprisonment.
One weekend, Xiao Li wanted to buy a bag for his wife to make her happy.
But I never thought about it.
The wife thinks the bag is too cheap, so she just throws it on the ground.
Not only that, Xiao Li often finds that his wife loves dressing up now.
There are even many beautiful clothes at home, and I heard from my neighbors:
"When I saw Xiao Li's wife, I was sent back by a man driving a luxury car last time."
In this way, in many quarrels, Xiao Li chose to end her two-year marriage.
At that time, Xiao Li's mood had reached a low point and he didn't think much.
Didn't even claim the couple's property.
A year later, Xiao Li pulled herself together again and quit her job in Beijing because she got married.
Nowadays, with the continuous development of the times, Xiao Li will always be looked down upon because of his low education.
Later, I was introduced by a friend.
Xiao Li chose to work in a construction site. Although he is very tired, his income is considerable.
After working for three months, it was reported that the boss had run away.
Xiao Li also opened his heart in front of the camera and said:
"All this has put too much pressure on me. I feel like a loser, frustrated in love and unable to play with my destiny in the workplace. I'm just a walking corpse. I can only eat at home and wait for death. "
Xiao Li repeatedly said that he had done the right thing.
From Xiao Li's story, we can see that he is mentally unhealthy.
Maybe he was ill because of many setbacks. ..
Xiao Li, after returning to work in the local area, often because of low salary.
Being attacked by the language of the blind date has caused serious psychological trauma.
Until 20 17, Xiao Li stayed at home and didn't go anywhere.
Even if his parents give him a job, he will be furious.
In an interview with reporters, Xiao Li also said:
"I think I was wasting my life before, and now I have lived the real me. Life is not chicken, duck and fish, eat, drink and be merry! "
Just when the reporter asked him about his future life source.
Xiao Li also said that there are two houses in the village, the area is not small, and the other one is 400 square meters.
There are still some antiques at home. Sell it all.
I'll sell one then, and it won't be enough for me to eat for a lifetime?
Xiao Li's mother gets angry every time she hears the news of selling the house.
Due to the repeated persuasion of the reporter and mother, Xiao Li is still stubborn.
No way, the reporter had to take Xiao Li to the psychological counseling room.
Under the guidance of the tutor many times, Xiao Li gradually got to know himself.
Xiao Li gradually let go.
After that, we also hope Xiao can repent and turn over a new leaf, and gradually come out so that Aunt Liang and the old couple can live a happy old age.