Almost everyone will encounter all kinds of emotional problems.
What do you need when your mood is in trouble? Of course, you need someone to listen to you, and the most important thing is someone to help you solve your problems.
People who fall into emotional quagmire such as "lovelorn", "divorce" and "third party intervening" are just like people who fall into a swamp. If someone reaches out a "helping hand" to them in time, they will be as convinced as grasping at straws.
There is really such an organization in the market that "saves" people with emotional problems, called "online emotional rescue".
This kind of online conversation is staged almost every day between the "psychological counselor" and "emotional master" of this institution and the customers they serve.
The customer tells his emotional problem, and the "emotional master" tells him the solution. The customer did it, but it didn't work, even worse than before.
The "emotional master" defends himself without beating his chest: "This is the effect now, which proves that he has you in his heart. Now the separation is still in the primary stage. Although it is only in the primary stage, it has also played a very important role. "
I'm afraid he doesn't even know what the "emotional master" said, but the customer has paid the money and is in emotional despair. He can only listen to the "emotional master" and never look back after hitting the south wall.
What is even more ridiculous is that this institution dares to promise "2 1 day to repair feelings".
No matter what kind of emotional state the customer is in, even if the customer has started a new relationship, this institution dares to clap its chest and say, "We can help you with this!" " "
Outsiders can clearly understand: how is this possible? Feelings are what you want, and people are reluctant to start new feelings. No matter how strong your repair ability is, it's useless.
It is difficult for people in it to be so rational and sober. Under the traction of the organization, they will seemingly take actions to save their feelings step by step, but in fact they will upgrade their services step by step and invest money one after another.
In the process of contact with customers, this organization has shown omnipotence.
The agency said that if a customer's partner has started a new relationship, they also have a technical department, which can see each other's WeChat backstage and call records, and can also add each other's WeChat friends through intrusion to give them psychological guidance.
In the hearts of customers who place orders, it only takes a few thousand yuan to tens of thousands of yuan to save a relationship. At that time, customers would not have thought that this cost-effective "sale" was actually an organized and planned scam.
First, how does the "emotional master" save the failed emotion? In March of 20021year, Ms. Lin was lovelorn and couldn't get up. She is still unwilling to accept the fact of lovelorn in her heart and wants to save her boyfriend.
By chance, Ms. Lin saw an organization dedicated to "emotional recovery". The organization's advertising slogan is "Let love have no regrets", which deeply touched Ms. Lin.
Ms. Lin immediately contacted this institution, and a psychological tutor was responsible for docking with Ms. Lin.
The psychological tutor not only showed Ms. Lin the successful case records of previous clients, but also showed Ms. Lin the pennant presented by clients to the organization.
The counselor told Ms. Lin: "We have many situations like yours here, which are easy to recover." Create a psychological hint for Ms. Lin that "solving your problem is a piece of cake for us"
Ms. Lin was very excited about this, but she still inquired about the qualification of the institution on the Internet with a cautious attitude. She saw many successful cases of other clients in the circle of friends of psychological counselors, and also read many messages from clients.
Ms. Lin just accepted the service and paid a fee of 3888 yuan.
The service cost of 3888 yuan includes customizing a plan for Ms. Lin to save her ex-boyfriend.
The psychological tutor warned Ms. Lin, "Don't have any contact with your ex-boyfriend. If your ex-boyfriend contacts you, be sure to tell me what to contact. "
Ms. Lin asked how to contact her ex-boyfriend, and the psychological tutor said it must be done under her guidance.
In the next 20 days, Ms. Lin did not have any contact with her ex-boyfriend according to the guidance of her psychological tutor.
Ms. Lin trusted the organization very much and sent all the chat records with her ex-boyfriend to her psychological tutor.
The counselor also gave Ms. Lin some feedback that sounded reasonable, such as "marriage and feelings need to be run together."
These words are what Ms. Lin, who is in a lovelorn state, wants to hear most. She seems to regard her psychological tutor as a bosom friend.
However, Ms. Lin's core problem has not been solved. She didn't wait for her ex-boyfriend to change her mind, but waited for the information that her ex-boyfriend had a new girlfriend.
Ms. Lin collapsed and immediately told the psychological counselor the news.
The counselor said flatly, "Oh, if they confirm the relationship, your case will be complicated. You need to buy the service of 13888 yuan again to quickly achieve the effect of saving emotions. "
Ms. Lin paid 13888 yuan to upgrade her service out of the urgency of saving her ex-boyfriend and her trust in her psychological tutor.
After the service upgrade, Ms. Lin was pulled into a consulting service group called "professional team".
The professional team synthesized all kinds of information and got the first step to solve the problem-separation.
How to separate? It is to find a virtual boyfriend for the current girlfriend of Ms. Lin's ex-boyfriend and promote the separation of Ms. Lin's ex-boyfriend and the current lady.
How to achieve this step? The professional team said that it is necessary to use technical means to obtain information such as the chat records of Ms. Lin's ex-boyfriend, and then add the current girlfriend of Ms. Lin's ex-boyfriend as a friend, as a virtual "third party", destroying the relationship between the two and prompting them to break up.
Ms. Lin felt that this plan was very inappropriate and refused.
The professional team quickly came up with the second plan, which is intervention. That is, the professional team communicated with Ms. Lin's ex-boyfriend and urged her to change her mind.
Ms. Lin felt that she could accept this plan and agreed.
However, the 20-day service period passed in a hurry, and Ms. Lin's ex-boyfriend showed no signs of changing her mind.
Ms. Lin euphemistically tested her ex-boyfriend. The ex-boyfriend said that no one came to talk to him about him and Ms. Lin at all.
Ms. Lin's heart has been reborn. She asked the agency to produce their chat records with her ex-boyfriend.
The agency refused on the grounds of "protecting personal privacy". The so-called "emotional recovery" seems to have gone away.
Similar to Ms. Lin, there is Mr. Wen.
After Mr. Wen broke up with his ex-girlfriend, he was blacked out by his ex-girlfriend and could not be contacted. When Mr. Wen had no recourse, he saw the advertisement of the organization, which said, "When love is' sick', we happen to be professionals."
Teacher Wen was moved by the agency's advertising language and expected goal, and bought the most basic service, instead of blindly following the agency's advice, she just followed the agency's guidance.
Not long after, the psychological tutor told Mr. Wen that his ex-girlfriend had a new boyfriend and asked him to buy an upgrade service to save his feelings.
Just as Teacher Wen hesitated, the psychological tutor made up his mind: "That man is far away from you, and he is having an affair outside. If your ex-girlfriend follows him, it will be miserable. "
Mr. Wen still loves his ex-girlfriend, fearing that his ex-girlfriend will be cheated, and immediately spent 18888 yuan to buy the upgrade service.
After paying the money, the psychological tutor gave Mr. Awen a "reassurance". She said that the organization will arrange someone to intervene in the relationship between Mr. Wen's ex-girlfriend and her current boyfriend as a "third party" and wait for an opportunity to break them up.
He also said to Mr. Wen, "You don't have to worry about this, just go to your class."
Mr. Wen also did this out of trust in the organization.
But not long after, the psychological tutor went to see Mr. Wen again and told him that your ex-girlfriend had some psychological problems and needed professional guidance, and you also needed to improve your service.
At that time, Mr. Wen was carried away by love Because I was too worried that my ex-girlfriend didn't even think about it, I paid 15000 to buy the upgrade service of "enlightening my ex-girlfriend".
What Mr. Wen never expected was that after paying the money, the psychological tutor made a 180-degree turn to him, and he didn't talk back or answer the words, as if "going up in smoke".
Mr. Wen angrily demanded a refund, but the travel agency said it was impossible. Because "The Third Party Involved" spent a lot of actor fees, travel expenses, clothing expenses and so on. The money can't be refunded.
In the end, this institution completely ignored Teacher Wen.
In order to save their love, Ms. Lin and Mr. Wen paid a lot of energy cost, time cost, opportunity cost and money because they listened to the "deception" of this "emotional recovery" institution, and finally they lost more than they gained.
Second, "saving love" is actually a scam. Ms. Lin and Mr. Wen are not alone.
Since 20 18, this organization has attracted a large number of customers under the guise of "saving love" and "saving marriage".
The police suffered from insufficient evidence and never filed a case.
This kind of thing is rarely reported, and even if you know that you have been cheated, you will generally not report it.
However, according to the clues provided by a few informants, the police launched an investigation into this institution.
After investigation, the police learned that this institution is mainly composed of four departments: customer service department, analysis department, consulting department and logistics department.
The main responsibility of the customer service department is to drain, attract frustrated groups, and actively add customer service WeChat to communicate with them.
Through the information obtained by the customer service department, this organization can obtain customer information with emotional recovery needs.
As long as the customer service department confirms that the customer needs emotional recovery, it will push the customer information to the analysis department, and the personnel in the analysis department are psychological instructors.
After establishing communication channels with visitors, psychological counselors will first get a general understanding of the basic situation of visitors, such as occupation and income.
On the surface, the psychological counselor will tell the client that according to the difficulty of emotional recovery, the fee will range from 2888 yuan to 4888 yuan.
In fact, how much money is charged depends on the customer's income.
Originally, it was a service to save emotions, but in the early communication with customers, psychological counselors had to ask customers about their income.
If the customer shows hesitation, the psychological tutor will "force the order" and "scare the story" with the customer, which will aggravate the urgent psychology of the customer to save their feelings.
In the process of communicating with customers in the early stage, psychological counselors will give very positive false promises. Tell customers that as long as you cooperate with our organization, 100% feelings can be recovered.
I will also communicate with customers on WeChat every day, which is called "reporting the progress of work".
Psychological counselors win customers' trust by giving them false hope through a positive attitude, which is the basis of their "success".
On the basis of customer trust, various problems and countermeasures will be put forward, and the ultimate goal is to let customers add money to upgrade their services.
When the customer agrees to upgrade the service, it will be pushed to the consulting department with a "professional team" and more experienced psychological instructors.
The consulting department promises to customers that there are not only professional teams to provide solutions, but also corresponding technical means to support the implementation of solutions.
The consulting department left a deep impression on the customers.
If you can't contact your ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, you can take technical measures to find your ex-boyfriend, check their chat records and get their activity tracks.
Even if their predecessors start a new relationship, they can destroy their relationship by "a third party intervening".
The upgrade service is valuable, usually between 10000 and 30000 yuan. The agency will determine the price according to the customer's income level.
It is common for customers to be dissatisfied or even suspected of being cheated with such false service.
The organization has long thought about countermeasures.
When the customer is not satisfied with the service, it will be pushed to the fourth department, namely the logistics department.
The logistics department also has a set of mature rhetoric.
For example, "we have spent two months on this matter for you, and it is impossible to refund the money." We're sorry if we really can't save your feelings. We can give you some compensation within our power. "
The cost of such compensation generally ranges from 2000 to 3000 yuan. Compared with the total amount paid by customers, the money is only nine Niu Yi cents.
The frustration of customers, coupled with the rhetoric of customers, led many customers to "do more than one thing" and finally gave up the idea of continuing to pursue responsibility.
If customers admit it, more customers will be involved in this elaborate fraud trap.
Third, after being cheated, I still don't know. On the surface, customers all "voluntarily" accept the "emotional recovery" service and "voluntarily" pay various fees, but in fact, customers have fallen into the trap set by institutions.
This is an organization with the signboard of "emotional redemption". In fact, their deception tactics are more professional.
They have a professional "script book", and this organization is very clear about what kind of customers can say to attract them.
The harsh words such as "blocking the road" and "forcing the bill" appeared in the script.
They accurately grasped the psychology of customers when they were in a low mood. It's easy to trust others, and I have a strong need to pour out my feelings. Besides, I don't want my emotional problems to be known by others. Therefore, even if I am cheated, I will not really report it.
They packaged their institutions with great fanfare. Fake pennants, fake cases and fake qualifications are all available. And the equipment is particularly complete, and each customer service has more than a dozen mobile phones.
The so-called "third-party" technology is intervention, that is, pretending to chat with your own trumpet and your own large size, and replacing your trumpet portrait with the portrait of your customer's predecessor.
Or try to add the contact information of the customer's predecessor. If they get through, they won't do anything to "save", but only say something irrelevant, such as "Your courier has arrived".
This institution has invested a lot of resources on how to cheat people, but it is unwilling to make any efforts on "psychological counseling".
None of their employees is a psychology major and has not obtained the corresponding qualification certificate. Induction training is "speech training", not psychological counseling training.
Senior psychological counselors and senior emotional counselors in institutions are actually liars who "sell dog meat by hanging sheep's heads".
The employees of the organization are not rushing to solve problems for customers, but rushing to ask for money.
The purpose of their work is particularly single, that is, to defraud customers to pay for upgrading services.
Old employees feel that this is fraud after working for a long time, but because of the temptation of high salary, they intend to continue to do it, with the intention of "just doing it for a while".
It is such an organization that takes "emotional redemption" as the name and "fraud" as the reality. In recent years, its customers have spread all over the country, with more than 5000 people.
When the police contacted them, some customers were unwilling to admit being cheated because of "face problems" or other concerns.
It is the liar who has mastered the psychology of customers, so customers will be cheated again and again, even after being cheated, they don't know and dare not admit it.
This also reminds us that we must think calmly and rationally, and don't easily believe in false and unrealistic promises.
People's emotional management is always two-way, and only two parties can decide the direction of emotions.
If you want to save a relationship, you must rely on your own sincerity and some so-called "professional" skills and scientific and technological means, which will only go in the opposite direction and aggravate the loss of feelings.
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