Kung fu location school soul consulting room
Home address, parents' contact information
Purpose of consultation:
Diagnosis: There is slight mental abnormality, and personality characteristics obviously deviate from normal, which collectively constitutes an abnormal behavior form that always reflects the lifestyle and interpersonal relationship of the group, so its mental illness is secondary to "personality disorder".
Target: 1. Strengthen their collective psychological tracking and counseling, increase or improve their bad behavior habits such as aggression and retaliation against others, and improve their personality quality. Secondly, stop the interference through piecemeal desensitization and other behaviors. 2. According to their strong self-esteem, competitiveness and desire to communicate with others, they can take psychological counseling from class groups to make other members of the class feel the importance of "accepting themselves and others"; He can be appropriately appointed as a class cadre in the class, but he must sign a self-management contract with him before taking office, and after encouraging self-management intervention, his mind will improve itself.
Coaching process:
The first step: deepen the understanding of their behavior characteristics and psychological state, and establish case psychological files.
Take the initiative to ask Mr. Wang's class teacher about his family situation and stop home visits together; Ask the current class teacher, former class teacher and classmates in detail, and record his past behavior characteristics and outstanding temperament. Master first-hand materials in order to analyze their behavioral characteristics and mental symptoms.
Step 2: Do the relevant tasks before counseling and establish hostile relationship with the coachee.
After preparing all the tasks needed for counseling, I began to look for suitable opportunities to get close to this classmate. With the help of his favorite sports basketball, we gradually established a good interpersonal relationship. This has played an important catalytic role in his successful undertaking of psychological counseling.
Step 3: Perform the necessary psychological counseling tasks.
1, create a warm environment and don't talk.
After establishing a good "enemy-style" relationship, I stopped talking to that classmate in stages. The first stage is mainly to explain the purpose and present situation of psychological counseling to him, and to reduce his conflict mood by "empathy"; In the second stage, it mainly tests its mental characteristics through various mental scales. The third stage is mainly to deepen the exploration of children's psychological contradictions and thoughts and adopt reasonable psychological healing methods. At the beginning, I mainly explained the detailed steps of the "step therapy" (piecemeal desensitization method) designed for him, and helped him to clear bad psychological obstacles through a series of psychological counseling methods.
2. Detailed steps of designing "step therapy" (gradual desensitization method) for him:
(1) After a psychological interview, he recalled the scenes that led to his revenge and aggressive behavior, which made him disgusted again, and then stopped the piecemeal desensitization therapy.
(2) After other students stop role-playing, they create things that conflict their minds, arouse their antipathy, and make them have the desire to carry out aggressive or revenge behaviors in their minds, and implement "piecemeal desensitization therapy".
(3) create serious conflicts and further implement piecemeal desensitization therapy.
3. Carry out class group psychological healing, organize some group psychological activities appropriately, advocate a "harmonious" class atmosphere, let him try his best to show his excellent side in the activities, and try his best to discover his excellent character and behavior to stop shrinking. On the other hand, we should be good at discovering their good bad character and behavior, and stop patient education and correct psychological counseling. After group psychotherapy, it gradually achieved the 12 effect of group psychotherapy in Daoning.
4, contact with parents, the threshold they change the existing bad education methods, we must distinguish the characteristics of children, pay enough attention to the existing personality disorders, and actively assist him to change himself and improve the environment.
Postscript of tutorial:
In fact, every gentleman has the need to be loved, cared for, recognized and respected. If these needs are not met, a group will easily form its personality disorder. The premise of stopping psychological counseling is to find the source of the results and cure the crux of the problem, otherwise no matter how many tasks are, they will also cure the symptoms. This is also the success of this case. All the work is based on detailed investigation and careful thinking. We should pay attention to and care for children for a long time, knock on their blocked hearts with love and melt their spiritual defense for teachers. This can never be done overnight or once or twice.
Effect response:
After nearly a month's series of tutoring, all his subjects and classmates reported that this classmate had made great progress recently and had no conflict with his classmates for two weeks. His temperament also showed a cheerful, pessimistic and positive side, and his mind gradually became mature and healthy. I told the class teacher to continue to inspire him and provide him with a better growth environment. But in the whole process, I had to stop tracking for a year.