"Anjia" bought a house for his son in full, and he lived on the streets. How unreliable is raising children to prevent old age?

Lao Yan and his wife sold steamed buns for most of their lives and bought a house for their son in full. As a result, my son and daughter-in-law kicked me out, and my in-laws didn't have any money, so they naturally lived in it.

Fang Sijing's mother scraped money from her daughter endlessly and even played tricks to send flowers to her son.

In addition, the ex-wife who cheated on Fang's mother appeared three incoherent stories in one episode. I have to say, the screenwriter is so heartless!

Although the old couple knew something would happen when they bought the house in full and wrote the couple's name, they still feel very sad and distressed about this story.

Lao Yan and his wife worked hard for most of their lives, getting up early and selling steamed buns, and finally saving more than 3 million yuan, they were looking forward to giving their son better living conditions in the big city of Shanghai and giving him a wedding room.

However, hastily adding the daughter-in-law's name has indeed laid a great hidden danger. Now the old couple want to serve their daughter-in-law, but it is their mother who opens the door. Between the lines, they all show that they are masters and guests, which is simply a bird's nest.

The daughter-in-law who said she was pregnant smiled and went straight back to the house without saying hello with her arms in her hands. This has to make people suspect that from the beginning, the daughter-in-law and her mother have been planning for a long time.

The most chilling thing is the son's practice. It seems difficult, but it is actually on the daughter-in-law's side. Even if the old couple wanted to go downstairs again, their son never reached out. He never thought about where his parents would go when they were old and hard.

Living in the house my parents bought, I watched my parents being treated as guests by my daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, but I didn't say a word, and I never thought about letting my parents in, as if my parents were inferior. Can people with bad records buy you a house?

Some parents love their children, and some children cheat their parents. Really, it's so realistic! Every parent loves their children selflessly, but their children never happen.

Lao Yan and his wife bought a house in full, just to make their son and daughter-in-law have no burden in their future lives. They never thought about the future, nor did they think about it. They worked hard and finally got nothing.

Like Lao Yan and his wife, there are not a few parents who only devote their lives to their children. They have devoted their lives to their children, but they have hardly thought about themselves.

And they never thought that their son would be a baiwenhang. At the root of it, what caused Lao Yan and his wife to be like this today was mostly caused by their sons' unfilial and lack of opinions.

Son's character is the result of parents' failure in education, so don't always blame others for being too bad, but you don't care much about yourself!

Such a thing is chilling, but it is also very common.

Netizen Xixi has two brothers and sisters at home, and she also has a brother. When my brother got married, in order to buy a suite for his son in the city center, my mother bought a shop that had been open at home for more than 30 years, paid a down payment and bought a wedding room. The woman's family didn't give a penny.

This suite has three bedrooms and two halls, both of which are empty. However, with children, my mother will help with the children, and my sister-in-law won't let her live in any room. My mother is old, but she has to run back and forth from her hometown and downtown every day.

My sister-in-law scolds her mother every day, cooking is not delicious, and she is picky about food. She is not allowed to wash clothes with the washing machine, but must wash them by hand. She is not allowed to use the water heater to wash diapers for her children in winter, but she does nothing herself.

Once, my mother didn't listen to my sister-in-law, was scolded and kicked out directly. Xixi's brother was there at that time. Like Xiao Yan, the son of Lao Yan, he is also a man without a definite view. He forgot his mother when he got a wife.

Twilight wants to say that legally, parents have fulfilled their responsibilities in raising their children. However, because housing prices are too high now, it is too difficult for young people to save money, so many parents will help their children and buy houses for their children just to relax them.

However, when this situation becomes a social phenomenon, people will think it is natural. The son will feel that it is natural for parents to buy a house for their future marriage. This is their responsibility.

20 15, a mother didn't want to buy her son a wedding room worth10 million, because her father died of a serious illness and spent most of her savings. The mother has been relying on the rent of the shop for her son to study abroad. This shop was originally bought by his parents for their son's bar mitzvah. Now the son directly sued his mother for store rent.

In 20 19, my parents spent all their savings for my 35-year-old son, and still owed 300,000 yuan to buy a wedding room. My son forced me to ask for 60,000 yuan as a bride price. My mother feels sorry for her son. Unable to pay, he cried and said, "Son, do you want to kill your mother?"

The son said coldly, "then go to hell!" " "The heartbroken mother jumped from the fifth floor in despair and ended her life.

It is mutual affection for parents to buy a house for their son; It's my duty not to buy a house. However, there is no reason for a son to force his parents to buy a house for himself. Blood relationship is a bond, but it is not an excuse for moral kidnapping.

Women, don't always think about paying for family, men and children. It's not reliable to live by others.

Parents, don't always think about paying for their children, it is not reliable to raise children to prevent old age.

No matter when, it is better to rely on others than on yourself. If you don't live for yourself in a long life, the result will often be unsatisfactory. What a pity!