My parents prefer boys to girls, and they want me to post money to buy a house for my brother. How can I refuse?

Beat me badly when I grew up. I am the boss, and I have made great efforts to repair and build houses. At that time, before a younger brother was born, I was rewarded with retrogression. My parents didn't even give me a tile. We often hear my parents say that my palms are full of meat! I am distressed! But they forget that the one in the palm of your hand will always be held tightly by them! One on the back of the hand is to shelter the other from the wind and rain.

My son and daughter are all my own, and the palms of my hands are all meat. Why would you rather my son blackmail my daughter? This is really unfair! You should fight for your own life and not rely on others. This will make people who don't struggle form the habit of laziness, thus losing the courage and enthusiasm to struggle. This is basically the case for my buddies, but you have to understand that things can go away. Go on, your brother will be nothing in this life, it depends on your progress. Therefore, it depends on whether you have the strategic ability, that is, don't make the old man angry and convince the younger brother.

Now that you mention this problem, I think it may be that your parents are a little old, or that your parents want to buy a car and a house for your brother. The old couple may not have this ability at present, or their ability is not enough.

Every family has its own problems, and it is difficult for an honest official to break housework? I think it is a serious mistake for your parents to let you buy a house and a car for your brother, because you have no obligation, and you can't raise a giant baby for life, which will harm him and be bad for your family. Help if you can, not much, and you can't form a habit. I watched a video the other day, in which a sister took care of a divorced brother for a long time. If she is capable, she will help. If she is incapable, of course, she must consider herself first. Personally, I don't think it is necessary to care too much, because they are all brothers and parents want their children to live well.

If you can, you still have to help. If you have financial difficulties, make it clear to your parents that you can't do all this and give them appropriate support. For example, if you buy a car or a house, you can pay part of the car money. Take the lesser of the two evils, and the lesser of the two evils. When buying a house, you can't buy it all. In this way, you have neither hurt your parents nor offended your brother. Of course, if you are a rich sister, this money is nothing, and it is all-inclusive. If you are an ordinary citizen, you are not rich.