A 19 girl lived with her boyfriend for one year. When breaking up, I was asked to spend ***8549 yuan on love. The girl named A Ting, 19 years old, came to work in Xiamen more than a year ago and met her colleague A Feng, who is 7 years older than A Ting. A Feng saw that A Ting was young and beautiful, so she pursued her, and soon they came together. After the two confirmed their love relationship, A Feng suggested that A Ting move in with him, so as to save the rent. Atin agreed.
So they live together. After getting along for a year, they agreed to hold a wedding after the Chinese New Year. Moreover, A Ting didn't ask A Feng to buy a new house, but only proposed renting a house outside and not living with her parents. However, when A Ting returned to Xiamen for the New Year, A Feng didn't take any action, but let A Ting live with her parents. A Ting couldn't accept it and broke up in a rage.
But what I didn't expect was that A Feng really thought that his girlfriend broke up with him and was very unwilling. She took out a consumption list and asked Ating to pay back all the expenses. It turns out that in the process of two people falling in love, A Feng has been keeping accounts, ranging from a few hundred to a few pieces or even a dollar, all of which are clearly remembered, with a total amount of ***8549 yuan.
I think men are really stingy. In fact, if you break up, men feel unwilling and pay too much for women. If they want to ask for the expenses during their love, they may be pointed at, but they can't say what's wrong with him. But I think Feng has gone too far. He is extremely stingy and too picky.
Because A Feng's consumption list is obviously kept in an account all the time, even a dollar is clearly remembered in the process of getting along with his girlfriend. I feel that he does not regard his girlfriend as a very close person, but divides it clearly and defines it clearly.
In my opinion, I think A Feng is not only stingy, but also knows nothing about his girlfriend during his love. More importantly, I think he is very masculine and has no consideration for his girlfriend at all. You know, A Ting didn't ask too much, nor did she ask him to prepare a new house. She just wanted to live separately from her parents. However, A Feng didn't even meet the requirements of renting a house, and he never took it to heart. He only cares about his own thoughts and lets his girlfriend live with his parents. This shows that he doesn't care about his girlfriend's feelings and is a bit male chauvinistic.
I think that if you meet such a person and break up early, their three views are obviously different. Not only that, A Feng doesn't know how to respect people, and always wants to make decisions for A Ting, which also makes A Ting feel that she is not respected and valued, so the two of them will definitely not go far.