"Ma Baonan" and "Magic Brother's trick" are popular online terms in recent years, meaning that everyone must know. Today we're going to talk about "Brother Helper". Helping my younger brother is the kind of sister who "would rather empty her small home, but also subsidize her younger brother and even take care of her younger brother."
After all, the marriage with the brother-in-law demon will not be peaceful. Because fairness is also very important in marriage, it is the most unfair behavior for a brother-in-law to empty his small family and supplement her family in marriage. Will cause men's disgust and disgust. Over time, the relationship between husband and wife will get worse and worse. Contradictions often occur in married life.
It is understandable that too many men divorce because their wives are helpers. After all, a normal man doesn't want to see his wife not unite with himself. Since there are barriers and contradictions between husband and wife that cannot be solved, then divorce is also reasonable.
When men are in love, how will they react if they know that the other half is a brother's helper? The story we told today is about this situation.
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Chen Shen is 25 years old and currently works in a factory in the city.
After graduating from high school, Chen Shen dropped out. Unable to stay at home, he went to work in the city alone. Chen is very energetic. She found a girlfriend in the factory less than half a year after she arrived in the city.
The girl's name is Su Jin, younger than Chen Shen 1 year. I came to work in the factory because a younger brother had to go to school, and the girl's family was bitter, so Su Jin chose to drop out of school and work to earn money for his younger brother to study.
What caught Chen Shen's attention at first was that Su Jin was clean, although she didn't always change clothes like other girls and wore several sets of clothes all the year round. And it's quiet. The one sitting there is always the quietest one. This made Chen Shen remember this girl.
After several contacts, Chen Shen fell in love with Su Jin. So he began to pursue her. Su Jin is also in love for the first time. She likes Chen Shen very much, so they decided to fall in love.
This relationship lasted for five years, and the relationship between the two people has always been very good.
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By the age of 25, Chen Shen's parents felt that their son was old enough to get married, so they began to ask Chen Shen and Su Jin to get married as soon as possible. Chen Shen and Su Jin discussed this matter, and both felt that they knew each other well enough to get married.
So the two began to plan to get married. Their hometown is very close, and it is relatively convenient to get married in the same place.
The parents of the two families met and got to know each other. Chen Shen is an only child, and Su Jin has a younger brother. It happened that Su Jin's younger brother also talked about a girlfriend.
When Su Jin's parents met, they demanded a bride price of 65,438+10,000 yuan. Chen Shen discussed it with his parents, and it was also the normal price in his hometown, so he agreed.
Chen Shen and his parents were happily preparing other things for the wedding when Su Jin asked Chen Shen to come out to meet him.
Chen wondered what it was and told him, "Brother Shen, I recently went home, and my parents told me that my brother was getting married soon."
Chen Shen didn't care and said, this is a good thing. Su Jin saw his one eye, and then said, "My brother's girlfriend asked to buy a house in the city. But my parents don't have enough money, so let me ask you. "
Chen Shen thought he heard wrong and asked, "Who cares what I want?"
Su Jin lowered his head and said, "My parents mean to let your family pay more bride price and pay the down payment for a house."
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Chen Shen will be on fire soon. Is your family selling daughters? Want a daughter to buy a house for her son as a bride price and ask me for money to buy a house for your son?
Chen Shen said angrily, "Impossible! Go back and tell your parents that my family can give 65438+ ten thousand bride price! I also let my family pay for your brother's house, but think about it! "
Su Jin's temper suddenly hardened: "My mother said that if you don't pay for my brother's house and pay the down payment, we won't get married!" "
The last two people broke up in discord.
Chen Shen didn't think back at this time. Over the years, most of Su Jin's salary has been given to his parents and younger brother. He is reluctant to buy clothes at ordinary times, and even when he falls in love with himself, he rarely spends money on shopping. Isn't this the "help brother magic" on the Internet? She is not married yet and wants to buy a house for her brother. Will you keep her brother when you get married?
Chen Shen thought a lot.
After that, the two also communicated several times, and neither side gave in. Finally, Chen Shen had to give up this relationship because he didn't want to be bound by a vampire all his life.
He said to Su Jin, "You won't marry me until I buy a house for your brother. Our relationship is just a deal in your heart. I'm tired, let's break up! "
The five-year relationship between two people ended like this.
Perhaps most people will agree with Chen Shen's practice. Breaking up is a timely stop loss. If you don't break up, you will be dragged down by Su Jin's family after marriage, which is not worth the candle.
Su Like King, a "half-brother" influenced by his parents' preference for sons over daughters, only received his parents' abnormal education. If you don't correct your thoughts in time, it will be difficult to marry a man in the future. After all, no man wants to marry a helper.