1. I can't finish my work every day, and I don't have much sense of accomplishment after I finish it.
2. The reading list set for myself at the beginning of the year is only a list at the end of the year.
Almost as hard as others, but the reward is far from it.
Yes, you will feel anxious, which shows that you are very motivated and diligent. What you need is not only good luck, but also effective diligence-trying to match your income.
I have read the official version of the classic young Xia's new book "Leap" quickly. This time, we should not only "tear down the wall" but also "tear down the ceiling".
The core idea I learned from it is concentration! In a fashionable phrase: "Don't use tactical diligence to cover up strategic laziness".
Zhuang Ziyun: My life is limited, but so is my knowledge. With the limit, there is no limit, and it is almost there. This sentence is not to encourage us to "learn the sea without limits", but to say that human life is limited and knowledge is infinite. It is futile to learn infinite knowledge with limited life. This is not to say that learning is useless, but to express that you want to learn all the knowledge and just waste your life.
Today's society has been highly networked and flat. The way and cost of acquiring knowledge are getting lower and lower. Besides books, there are knowledge websites, app, Weibo and WeChat search. As long as you enter keywords, you can get a large number of articles and words immediately. It can be said that knowledge has become cheaper and cheaper in today's society. How to distinguish and selectively learn knowledge has become a valuable ability.
At the same time, the social division of labor is becoming more and more detailed and specialized. The big and comprehensive learning concept can no longer meet the needs of society and enterprises.
How to judge high value? I think we can cut in from these angles:
A material has a high return, such as: now very hot from the media, AI artificial intelligence.
B High spiritual reward-all things that make you feel a sense of accomplishment, such as helping others and solving social problems.
High development rate of return. Such as: a platform where you can exercise your ability; A company with a good training system.
What are the advantages of differentiation?
People have no me, people have me, and people are superior.
People have nothing: choose new fields and new technologies. Everyone starts from scratch. As long as we do it quickly, we can occupy the market and form an advantage.
Some people are superior to me: if others imitate, they should be the industry benchmark of "being imitated forever and never being surpassed"
People are superior: when the latecomers gradually catch up, the differentiation is getting lower and lower, and the profits are getting thinner and thinner, we should consider changing our thinking and ways.
What is a chicken head? How to change from a chicken head to a phoenix head?
As the saying goes, "Better be the head of a chicken than the tail of a phoenix", and better be the crown of a chicken than the tail of a crane in a phoenix. Being the head of a chicken can make a person's self-confidence and self-esteem develop healthily, thus forming a sound personality. Such a choice is more likely to form a benign incentive.
In fact, people will only remember the first one.
For example:
The highest mountain in the world is Mount Everest. Who remembers the second highest mountain in the world?
The first man to land on the moon was Armstrong. Who will remember the second place?
When everyone in the society can only see and remember the first, the dividends and opportunities brought by the first will far exceed the ones behind, so be a chicken head.
Be a chicken head first, that is, occupy the hill you can take first and pick the apples you can pick. When you are the first in this field, bonuses and opportunities will naturally follow. At this time, rolling from this hill to the next bigger hill, and finally "jumping" into a phoenix head is as easy as snowballing.
Learn to think systematically!
When we do career planning consultation, we often need to help visitors get out of the current predicament. As the saying goes, "bystanders see clearly", we strive to help every visitor become a "bystander" in his predicament, so that he can see the situation clearly, analyze the situation, form ideas and achieve breakthroughs.
Even, we will lengthen the timeline. In the long river of history, what we used to be angry with will now be funny. Similarly, what we are struggling with now comes from the distant future? We don't know, but when we see what kind of person we want to be in the future and where the gap between ourselves and our ideals is, our direction will be clear and our choices will be clear. Those dilemmas that are tangled, hesitant and weighed repeatedly will be solved one by one.
The same is true for focusing.
We know what kind of life we want to live and what kind of person we will become. I will think about the gap between my present self and my ideal self, then refine my goals from the gap, form a plan from the goals, and finally put the plan into action. This whole process is the result of systematic thinking.
The biggest advantage of systematic thinking is:
For example, when we can't implement the action, we will reflect on why the action is so bad. Then you may find that the plan is too ideal, and consider it more comprehensively next time.
If there is no problem with the plan, you can consider whether the goal is what you really want to achieve. If you don't change your goals decisively; If so, then consider whether your goal is reasonable? Is it the mountain you can "occupy" at present ... When such a series of ideas come down, the key to the problem lies outside one of the doors.
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The book Transition may be more brain-burning than Tearing Down the Wall in Your Heart and What's Possible in Your Life. Because it is not only from the perspective of personal needs, but also from a more macro perspective such as mathematics, sociology and history to analyze and treat problems.
I feel that my experience and accumulation can't reach the level in the book. I may still need to adhere to "low-level diligence", but this does not prevent me from gaining a broader vision and polishing my way of thinking.
I hope "Jump" will sell well, and every reader will find a suitable strategy from it!