Without true empathy, other people's joys and sorrows are only temporary regrets, and they cannot collide with each other's joys and sorrows.
One night, I turned on my cell phone as usual and casually looked through my circle of friends. Curious gossip is a common hobby of human beings.
Find love in other people's lives. Those interesting and boring people or things are the richest scenes in the circle of friends.
At around 22: 30, the obituary in the circle of friends surprised me. "Sir #, my beloved died of illness ..." I looked at my head. Isn't this the landlord when I rented a house in Shenzhen?
I immediately searched my mind for information about him. He is an enviable Shenzhen landlord and a software engineer. His age is similar to mine. I vaguely remember that he was circled at the end of last year. Wechat friends circle once sent a picture to celebrate.
How is that possible? Why did you leave? I really can't believe the news. Looking at the content of the obituary, we can see that it was sent by his wife through his micro-signal. I can't help but leave a message below: "What's going on?" There was no response from WeChat, and there was a huge wave in my heart.
Finally, I still can't believe it. I dialed the phone number on the obituary and the landlady answered the phone. At the other end of the phone, the other party was surprised at first. After all, we are not related by blood, so I expressed my doubts. The landlord whispered to me the cause and effect of the landlord's illness and thanked me for calling.
The landlady's hoarse voice made it impossible for me to bother her any more. At this time, silence may be the most powerful concern for the loss of loved ones, and any kind of comfort seems pale and powerless.
Accustomed to the death of the elderly, relatives and friends, the death of the epidemic, none of my peers around me disappeared for no reason, which is frightening.
I watched the movie Death Comes. Those chosen by death, in a certain life scene, stopped breathing in an incredible way. I thought it was a film design. Although it looks creepy, those scenes are still far away from us in life.
But today, I feel very scared. There is nothing to die for, most people drag out an ignoble existence.
The landlord's surname is Wang, and I always call him Mr. Wang. He is tall and thin, with a white shirt and trousers, a white face with beard residue, narrow eyes, edema and fatigue, and speaks slowly. It is rare to see him smiling, silent and meticulous, a typical program.
I rented his house when I was wandering in Shenzhen, and the process of renting a house was no different. I'm just one of the tenants he received. He is one of the countless landlords I have changed. In this young city, young people meet young people.
20 14 I have no contact with him since I returned from Shenzhen. His avatar is kept on WeChat, and occasionally he praises my article. That's all, no contact and no deletion. We are all living strangers in each other's WeChat.
We are survivors living in the world. We will use the rest of our lives to understand the impermanence of death and the preciousness of life, and then strive to cherish the present, love ourselves and love this splendid time.
Yesterday drifted away, today is in your hands, and tomorrow is far away. Living in the present is a real life experience.
Many people, maybe we have met, maybe we will never see again.
Live in the moment and make every moment memorable. Even if death comes, it's not that hard for me. Ten thousand distant futures are not worth a real present.
Time flies, those we have passed are just dim lights, or sweet or bitter memories, perhaps just a part of life.
Live in the moment, seize every moment of your life, cherish everything, and don't regret coming here!