Ding Zongchun and his wife Song met at work. They fell in love at first sight and got married after talking for more than a year. Of course, you have to prepare a wedding room for marriage, but Ding Zongchun's family conditions are difficult and he can't afford a house at all. Ding Zongchun's parents divorced. When he was ten years old, his father had another woman outside and abandoned their mother.
Ding Zongchun also has a sister. When I was a child, my mother was busy with work, and my sister took care of Ding Zongchun instead of my mother, so Ding Zongchun had deep feelings for her sister. After her sister got married, Ding Zongchun lived with her mother. Later, Ding Zongchun came out to work and met Song.
The conditions in the Song family are quite good, and I understand Ding Zongchun's difficulties. So when she got married, the woman bought a wedding room, paid one million yuan, and bought two rooms and one living room in full. They were afraid that Ding Zongchun had strong self-esteem and great pressure to live in the woman's house, so they asked Ding Zongchun to pay 20 thousand yuan, and the names of two people were written on the real estate license.
What moved Ding Zongchun even more was that when the house was bought and looked after by his mother, Song said over and over again, "Mom, this is the house that Zong Chun and I bought together." Ding Zongchun only paid 20,000 yuan to buy a house of1100,000 yuan, but Song took care of his face and always told anyone that he bought the house together.
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Not long after the young couple got married, Ding Zongchun's sister suddenly divorced. Mother came to discuss with her son and daughter-in-law, saying that the house in the country was too small for her sister to live in when she came back, and she wanted to live in her son's house. My son and daughter-in-law agreed, thinking that my mother would live with them sooner or later.
Not long after my mother lived, my sister came. She said it was lonely to live alone in the country, and the houses in the country were too shabby. Ding Zongchun has deep feelings for his sister, so naturally there is no problem. Song did not object because of her husband's face.
However, after the eldest sister moved in, the three women, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, lived together every day, and the contradiction was increasing day by day. It's all family chores, but it's really hard. Song forbeared, thinking that elder sister-in-law would remarry sooner or later, and it would be nice to get married again.
But the man my sister remarried has no house in the city and is also married for the second time. Sister-in-law took him home to live. What is even more outrageous is that the man and his ex-wife have a daughter, and the man also brought this daughter. So there are six people and three families in a house with two rooms and one living room. Ding Zongchun and Song are still pregnant and ready to have children.
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You can imagine how inconvenient and contradictory these people are living together. When the contradictions accumulated, they began to quarrel, mother-in-law quarreled, elder sister-in-law quarreled with younger sister-in-law, husband and wife quarreled ... family members quarreled. Seeing that it was impossible to live together again, mother said to Ding Zongchun, "Son, give this house to your sister. It's not easy for her. Move out! "
Ding Zongchun didn't expect his mother to say this. He paused and said, "mom, let's move out!" This house is not mine. "
"Why not you? The house you two bought together is half of yours. She is your wife, her half, and you can't be her master? " Mom said smugly.
"Mom, I spent twenty thousand dollars on this house. Who do you think can be the owner of this house? " Ding Zongchun said.
Later, my mother went back to her hometown to live, my sister moved out to rent a house, and Song was pregnant with a child, and everything finally had a happy ending. It's just the relationship between Song and her mother-in-law and elder sister-in-law, but it's never going back to the past.
We must keep a proper distance between people, and distance produces beauty. If you don't know the boundaries, even your relatives will be very unhappy. Between wife and family, a man must keep a cool head and coordinate the relationship, and must not be emotional and one-sided.