Hui Hui said that she and her husband met at work and they have been in love for more than a year. Both sides were satisfied, so parents proposed to get married first. At the beginning, the two sides agreed that the man would buy a house, the woman would pay for the decoration, the real estate license would write their names, and the mortgage would be repaid together after marriage.
But I don't know, a few days before the wedding, Hui Hui's mother-in-law said to Hui Hui, "You two are still young, so we will give you a down payment on the house. You work under great pressure and your salary is not high. We can't let you get married and suffer, so we will help you pay off your mortgage for two years first, and you can work with peace of mind. " Hui Hui, who just heard this, was very warm and said that she had a mother-in-law.
But later, her husband told her that his parents' names were written on the house, and the next year after marriage, they needed to pay the mortgage together. Hearing this, Hui Hui was angry, because even if she didn't understand the law, she knew that the house had nothing to do with herself, so on the spot, Hui Hui said to her husband, "There is no me on the real estate license. Why should I repay the mortgage?" I thought her husband would explain, but I didn't expect her husband to yell at her:
Later, Hui Hui's boyfriend told all this to his parents, so Hui Hui's future husband came to persuade Hui Hui: "We are all family, why do we still care about the house?" Some people even said: Hui Hui got married not for peace of mind at all, but to cheat the house. Otherwise, who is written on the real estate license? Isn't the house a place to live anyway?
When Hui Hui's parents heard these words, they quarreled with Hui Hui's future husband's family and said that they would not marry their daughter. For this, Hui Hui cried a lot, and then she found me. She asked me what should I do?
Bian Xiao has something to say:
To tell the truth, if I were Hui Hui, I would never marry such a family, because they simply lied to Hui Hui as a fool, not only to people in Hui Hui, but also to help them pay their mortgage.
But I don't know how deep Hui Hui's feelings for this man are, and I don't know if that man is sincere.
So I want to tell Hui Hui a way, that is, make a down payment on a house with the money your parents prepared for you to decorate the house, then write down your parents' names, and then let the man repay the mortgage with you to see how the other party chooses. If the other party agrees with you, then the man can get married. If the other person disagrees, it proves that this man is full of nonsense and not worth marrying.
In reality, there are many cases like Hui Hui. For women, it is actually cheating. Since the name of the man's parents is written in the house, the woman has no obligation to repay the mortgage for them, because the house does not belong to the joint property of husband and wife, and even if there is a dispute in the future, it has nothing to do with the woman.
It is often said in reality that the latest marriage law does not protect women. But this is not the case. The latest version of the Marriage Law protects not gender, but personal property.
Take the house as an example. If the name of the man's parents is written on the real estate license, the ownership of the house is the private property of the man's parents, which has nothing to do with the woman.
No one can rely on a sense of security. Only what you have is what you have.
In reality, men often kidnap women with morality, saying that women want a house for money worship, that women want a real estate license and a name only for a house, and that all love is pure and belongs to a family. Why should it be so clear? To put it another way, do you think these men will agree if they are allowed to transfer all their earned property to women? Didn't you say we were all family? Why do you share it so clearly?
After all, people who say this are selfish people. All they think about is themselves. As I told Hui Hui, such a man won't get married.