After the officers and men determine the love relationship, the soldiers should report to the organization the family situation, the way of understanding, the time of getting along, the degree of development, the opinions of both parents, etc., and fill in the love report truthfully.
"Love Report" is made in duplicate, signed by the informant, one for the company's party branch and the other for the record of the political department. If the filing time is less than 6 months, the reply will be suspended. After submitting a love report, report the progress, confusion and contradiction of love at least once a month, and report the changes of love and marriage in time; Report weekly during the vacation, and report in writing how to get along with your lover and family after returning to the team. Premarital sex is forbidden.
After receiving the love report of the officers and men, the secretary (deputy secretary) of the Party branch will have a heart-to-heart talk with him in time, and verify the love report through lovers, parents and references, so as to understand the views of both sides on marriage, family and child-rearing, and see whether it meets the criteria for military spouse selection, whether there are differences and contradictions, whether it recognizes the characteristics of military marriage and whether it has targeted education and guidance.