In our life, the most common situation is that we will encounter many problems in our life, resulting in some unpleasant emotions. Then when we face serious things, the first thing we should think of is ourselves. For example, Xiao Su wants to buy a pair of shoes or a dress and other things that she thinks are good. And Xiao Su wants to complain about it with his girlfriend; Or want to tell your best friend why this happened and so on.
If there is irreconcilable contradiction between you and your best friend, then don't talk to your best friend about your grievances. No matter how close you are, once there is a contradiction between you, there will only be quarrels between you. And once you two have conflicts, it will lead to the breakdown of your relationship. So we must learn to refuse others to tell us the grievances in our lives. When you learn to refuse others to tell you that you are irritable, you have forgotten who she is.
When people get along with each other, they all need to establish certain connections. When we have more contact with a person, we will find that there are still many places worth learning, so we should learn to find more places worth learning. In fact, Xiao Su has been complaining to Xiao Su's girlfriend because she has a particularly bad habit. Xiao Su is introverted. Although she has such shortcomings, she never complained to anyone.
When chatting with friends, if girlfriends are always bored, then we can ask each other's opinions appropriately. For example, when a friend complains that her husband is too irresponsible, you can say, "You can't do your husband's job. Should I change my job? " Then the girlfriend will have a feeling of being needed. For example, when you complain that other people's husbands only complain about your poor work, you can say, "I think this kind of person should communicate with him more."