On this issue, I want to share with you the contribution of a fan.
In daily life, many things are subject to IQ tax, such as air fryer, body fat scale, kindle reader and so on. In my opinion, it is better to pay IQ tax for emotional counseling, which is just naked money.
Moreover, I always think that feelings are between two people, and others are not qualified to point fingers. I don't need anyone to tell me what to do! ! !
I didn't realize how arrogant and self-righteous I used to be until I personally did emotional counseling several times, and I didn't look at the emotional counseling industry objectively at all.
The opportunity for consultation is that I was bored by my boyfriend's family during the Spring Festival. I am so bored that I want to break up. Whoever loves to tie the knot will go. My best friend knows my situation, tells me that she knows a free emotional consultation and asks me if I want to try it.
Originally, I rejected this kind of emotional counseling. I thought it was a money laundering business, and I didn't even want to go. Later, my best friend emphasized to me that it was free several times and kept nagging me to try. I won't lose money anyway, so I went.
I didn't expect the result to be a surprise, which was quite different from my expected emotional counseling:
First of all, the counselor's eyes are very sharp, and he can find the problem of my relationship with my boyfriend at once, saying that I am too afraid of education and marriage, so I don't trust my boyfriend and marriage;
Secondly, the counselor's analysis of the problem is very in-depth and to the point, and there is a feeling of hitting the nail on the head. He carefully analyzed the origin of the problem for me and pointed out that my own emotional outlook and family background led to my fear of marriage and family.
In short, the method given by the consultant is very specific, which makes me change myself a little bit subtly. The whole process of consulting and guiding me to change is very comfortable.
Slowly, it seems that I can accept marrying my boyfriend. Although I still don't like being urged to get married, I don't rule out getting married and even start looking forward to it. And these are the changes that emotional counseling has brought me. I have to admit that the existence of emotional counseling must have its value. This is indeed a cause that can help us heal our feelings.
Therefore, if you are also troubled by urging marriage, or have other emotional problems, you may wish to have an emotional consultation and listen to what professionals say. Don't feel unnecessary. Many times, thinking about yourself there will only make you more and more miserable, and finally make your feelings a mess.
The above is the full text of fan submissions.
As this fan said, the idea of "doing emotional counseling = being cheated" is indeed a misunderstanding, and it is not just emotional counseling. Many words are linked to psychological counseling, which is regarded by many people as a trick to cheat money.
In the final analysis, people have too much prejudice against the word "consultation", which seems to be synonymous with cheating money; But in fact, "consultation" is a positive word, an output of knowledge and experience, one-on-one guidance and advice, and help and confusion.
Therefore, we should treat all kinds of counseling objectively, especially psychological counseling and emotional counseling. These two industries really face too much criticism. But psychological counseling can really help you out of trouble. For example, if you encounter a question you don't understand, it is better to seek professional answers than to think hard.
Finally, I hope you can handle all kinds of situations in your life calmly, don't back down and don't try to be brave.
If you have any emotional/psychological problems, you can have lemons, and I'll give you advice ~
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