We should analyze and communicate with the teacher first, and try to find out the root of the problem. Children don't have problems out of thin air. When problems arise, there must be some long-standing problems that have not been solved, or some external factors have worsened some minor problems. For example, if a child suddenly doesn't want to go to school, it is necessary to consider whether there is something wrong with her relationship with her classmates, whether she has been criticized and wronged by the teacher, whether she has been threatened by others, and so on. Children's grades are falling all the way. We should consider whether we manage children's study properly, observe his recent mood, what he is interested in, who he mainly associates with, what blows and temptations he has encountered, and so on. The most important thing is to communicate well with children. First let him trust you, tell you his confusion and difficulties, and then get your encouragement and help. If a child behaves badly, scold him and beat him-how easy it is, and it is enjoyable to do, and every parent can do it-so he is loved by many parents. However, she can't solve any problems; Therefore, he will also let those parents who are used to solving problems "happily" and "easily" slowly taste more unhappiness and difficulties brought by bad upbringing in the later days.
After hearing children's problems, they can act calmly, reflect on themselves, talk sincerely with children, try their best to understand children, try their best to motivate children, and skillfully help children solve problems-these behaviors are difficult and require parents to pay a lot of rationality and thinking-parents who can think about their children's lifelong growth can't pay for them-education is in every detail. At this time, you have paid a little rationality, thinking and wisdom, and you are more artistic when dealing with various problems. Children will repay you with ten times the Excellence.
In addition, according to your situation, most children lack fatherly love. From the psychological point of view, adolescent girls' first love is their father and boys are their mothers. When a girl enters puberty, the image of her father is particularly important in her mind, and her father's every move will even affect her later marriage life. If her mother often belittles her father in front of her, he will do the right thing with her and even hate you. You should walk around and praise her father in front of her daughter, for example, her father is capable. If your husband and wife have bad feelings and often quarrel, it will aggravate your daughter's hatred for you. Suggest that my father communicate with her,