For middle-aged men, housing, car, children, family and parents are all basic daily expenses, and they tend to increase with age. When the child is older, it is necessary to prepare for the child's marriage in advance. When parents are old, they have more headaches and more mundane things, which need to be reserved in advance in daily life.
If business goes well, he is afraid of encountering setbacks and has no time to start all over again. The pressure of reduced income is put on his wife, which is not what he wants to see. Once he loses his job or his income decreases, all the pressure from his family will come to him.
Therefore, he is also afraid that middle-aged men will have more stable jobs, and even if they change jobs, they will be cautious, far from being free and easy for young people.
My neighbor, in his early forties, has a good income. Last year, the physical examination of the unit found out that it was suspected of laryngopharyngeal cancer. I went to the hospital for reexamination without telling my family. Fortunately, it was a false alarm But this incident also taught him to be afraid, not of himself, but of his family. Now he has considered things that he rarely considered before.
Gouqi tea is often soaked in a thermos cup, so many people say that it is too early for him to support the elderly, and he looks quite young to pay attention to exercise on weekdays. However, he often said: "I can't get sick, I dare not get sick!" " "
This sentence that Cheng Ge said must also be the voice of many middle-aged men. When people reach middle age, they start a family. Parents, wives and children take him as the backbone, how dare they get sick?