Psychological counseling, accumulated over time, will be exposed to a lot of negative emotions and negative energy. The key depends on one's self-cultivation, whether one can remain self-enclosed or "neutral" and always look at everything in the world objectively. Therefore, psychologists often need a process of self-experience, self-personality growth or reorganization, and accepting psychological supervision from superiors.
It can be said that what you said is the most important thing. Crossing others and crossing yourself complement each other. You can't cross yourself, but you can't cross others! It's hard enough to cross yourself. Crossing others again is a stage of technical experience accumulation and maturity, and it is a process of influencing others with one's own personality energy. In short, psychologists can only enter the third personality realm-without any inner trauma or complex, diluting their sense of identity and role, having the breadth and depth of the sea, having a completely harmonious and unified personality, and entering a calm, calm, peaceful (not to mention enlightened) state of high-energy psychological energy. It was the best time to practice crossing people.
Let me divide psychological counselors into academic school and self-taught school.
Academics often have theory first, then practice, then career troubles, and finally accommodate or change careers.
Because of illness, or for some reason, self-taught students often practice first, then theory, and finally embark on the right path, but they are still unable to extricate themselves.
The academic school has a stronger foundation and corresponding social relations, so there are often many channels to solve psychological problems, and there are often no problems in practice in a short time, and psychological counselors are often more self-aware, so referral is not difficult.
There will be more problems in the self-taught schools. On the one hand, his knowledge is narrow, often confined to his own interests or specialties, and he can't extricate himself from certain emotions. On the other hand, when encountering psychological troubles, it is more self-regulation, which often has poor results. What's more, the purpose of self-study is to make profits, so it tarnishes the reputation of the profession of psychological counselors, which is also the social status quo.
So you will see that more academic schools have chosen education and training positions, more self-taught schools are consulting, and even the professional qualification training of psychological counselors has been cancelled. Pathetic! Sad!
Can a counselor continue to practice if he has been troubled by mental problems?
Psychological counselors are professionals who use psychology and related knowledge, follow psychological principles, and help clients solve psychological problems through psychological counseling techniques and methods.
From the definition of psychological counselors, psychological counselors should have certain ability to solve psychological problems, which many ordinary people do not have, so some people will pay for counseling. This ability is to help others, but also to help yourself appropriately.
But after all, people are all social people, all have secular desires and feelings. If the counselor is continuously stimulated, he may not be able to support himself and have psychological problems. If it is more serious, he may find it difficult to adjust himself and need outside help. It is also very difficult to help others, so you can only stop for a while and wait for yourself to adjust before consulting.
Generally speaking, psychological counselors usually have a lot of negative emotional rubbish when dealing with problems, but good psychological counselors can adjust at any time and will not be bothered by this problem.
No, the reason is—
Ability is not important, because—
Ability to pass, itself will not be trapped by psychological problems.
See through you at a glance
You may be a consultant,
You have psychological problems yourself,
You need the help of someone with deeper skills than you.
I am fully capable of helping you solve your problem.
I have dealt with consultants,
I am a psychologist.
You need the help of someone who can help you,
Just say,
You're more likely to be a fan of the authorities,
I can help you.
The answer is no.
Psychological counselors are professionals who use psychology and related knowledge, follow psychological principles, and help clients solve psychological problems through psychological counseling techniques and methods.
First, the intensity of psychological quality is reduced.
As a psychological counselor, if you want to help others, you must first have a high psychological quality and intensity, so that you can adjust your internal problems.
Everyone has a secular desire, as well as a psychological counselor, how to help TAs whose emotions can't be adjusted to normal levels. Therefore, when you have fallen into mental problems, you may substitute your emotions into those who ask for help, leading to misjudgment.
Second, the wrong crisis intervention
As a psychological counselor, when a helper comes for help, we will regard it as a crisis that ta cannot solve at present and ask for help. Psychological counselors need to intervene in the psychological crisis of the clients, help them sort out whether their internal crisis is normal or abnormal, and help them find a solution to the problem.
When psychological counselors have their own problems, if the problems encountered by the helpers are exactly the same as those of the counselors, then the counselors will have a * * * sound with the helpers, and the two will get worse and worse, and even the counselors will take the helpers who had only a little problem to a deeper level and take them in the wrong direction.
Third, there is a personal value orientation.
Psychological counselors shall not discriminate against clients because of their gender, age, occupation, nationality, beliefs, values and other factors; At the same time, we should be neutral about the problems faced by the help seekers, and don't criticize or belittle the help seekers.
When individuals are strongly stimulated, they will deviate from their own values. For example, when a person can't bear the pain of lovelorn, ta may have the psychology of revenge, and then hurt others.
When psychological counselors have psychological problems, they may not be able to maintain a neutral attitude and are easily influenced by their own values, which leads to a value orientation for help seekers and even criticizes and belittles them.
Fourth, they will try to prove themselves and negotiate forcibly.
In psychological counseling, when the psychological counselor thinks that he is not suitable for consulting the client, he should explain clearly to the client in a responsible attitude and introduce another suitable psychological counselor or doctor to him.
If the counselor is confused, but he will prove to the TAs or himself that there is no problem, then he will never back down and become irresponsible to the helper. In order to prove that he has no problem, he can solve the problem for the helper. Often in this case, the helper will become worse.
conclusion
Therefore, if psychological counselors have been troubled by mental problems, they can't continue to practice with the attitude of doing things for themselves. He should solve his own problems before he can help the TAs.
I feel a little sick. It may be a bit off topic, but it is an indirect answer to this question.
As far as I know, some psychological counselors study psychology when they can't solve their psychological obstacles. For example, a well-known psychological counselor I contacted was said to be unable to resolve his depression after a very failed marriage, and then took the qualification certificate of psychological counselor (what logic is this, I still don't understand). Later, I saw many marriage counseling cases she did, and her words were too sharp, even giving up the counselor's value neutrality view. There are countless such consultants.
The purpose of psychological counseling is to help others, and a deeper point is to help others help themselves. However, many psychological counselors will say that they have suffered from * * for many years when introducing themselves, and they have the most say in this disease. It seems that many consultants are embarrassed to mix in this circle and can't point out this and that.
Well, having said that, I just want to spit it out. Back to the topic, my answer is no.
I don't think I can continue practicing. I must rest for a while and wait for the psychological counselor to solve my own problems before I can continue to be a spiritual guide for visitors! In fact, psychological counseling is a demanding profession. They need not only good psychological quality, but also excellent professional knowledge and rich clinical experience. They also need to know how to use these things to help visitors, export their long-term concern and "love" and help ta grow from the inside out. This is by no means an overnight problem. Really need gentle persistence to do it! Psychological counselors also have their own psychological counselors. They should also consult themselves, explore the negative energy filled in their hearts and find their own psychological counselors to release it! Only in this way, the entrances and exits are clear, and there will be no problems!
Self-counseling is a compulsory course for psychological counselors.
Psychological counselors will be exposed to a lot of negative emotions in the course of their career. If it can be channeled in time, there will be no big obstacles; If it can't be channeled in time, it will cause serious problems over time.
Self-coaching is also a process of self-improvement.
Only by personally experiencing the troubles of negative emotions can we better feel the sense of * * * with patients. Therefore, we must grasp a degree: don't let negative emotions accumulate indefinitely, and don't force your emotions to be spotless.
Strengthen and purify your energy field through meditation.
Every living thing has an energy field, which interacts with each other. Your heart is positive and optimistic, so the energy field of your meditation is also exciting and pleasant. Even if the patient simply communicates with you, his mental state will be improved invisibly.
Make your mind more accessible by reading and studying.
Most psychological problems come from daily work, study and life. Improve the realm of self with the scientific concept of treating people with things, and at the same time subtly penetrate into patients. Solving the problem fundamentally often gets twice the result with half the effort.
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First of all, anyone will have psychological and emotional problems, regardless of occupation, age, gender and race. Therefore, a psychological counselor will be nervous and stressed. But as a consultant, the first professional accomplishment is to settle down your body and mind and solve your psychological problems before you can receive visitors. This is also the reason why psychological counselors have supervision, and they all have personal experience. That is, consult a psychological counselor regularly to deal with personal psychological confusion and emotional stress. If a psychological counselor has mental problems, first of all, he needs to realize and judge what kind of problems they are and whether they will affect his work. At the same time, he can stop taking cases and consult his supervisor or experienced person before continuing to practice.
Psychological counselors need to suspend their practice if they have serious psychological problems in their mental state during their practice!