The night before the incident, Xue learned that Shanshan was on the phone with other boys. In addition to saying some sweet words, she also complained to the boys about her pursuit. Afterwards, Xue was very angry that the girl she liked was better than others, and the more she thought about it, the more angry she became. The next morning, he came to Shanshan's room and threw it from the balcony, causing her death.
It took Xue eight years to pursue a girl who didn't like herself. "I spent so much time and energy on you, you can not accept me, you can also refuse me again and again. I never gave up my pursuit of you, but I slandered me on other men. I can't stand your kindness to other men or your humiliation. " Perhaps this is the anger that Xue has been brewing in his heart that night.
In fact, in the past eight years, it is entirely possible for Xue Xiang to like others. It is impossible to say that Shanshan never gave him the illusion. If a girl explicitly rejects you, it also means that she has no idea about you. In order to avoid suspicion, she will never accept your expensive gift. Shanshan must have done something wrong in this tragedy. If you don't love him, don't leave him any thoughts. This is responsible for yourself and the people who like you. A girl in the comments said: My mother taught me from an early age that I can't accept gifts from men I don't like, whether they are expensive or not. If Shanshan had done what the girls said, the tragedy would not have happened. Xue may have given up his obsession with Shanshan long ago, and Shanshan would not have lost his life. ?
My friend Xiaohai told me that he was very confused recently, and the "persistence or letting go" that he once discussed with me has now become his problem. He told me that he and the girl met in September of 13. At that time, Xiaohai organized a group dinner and met her. She was very quiet at that time, and Xiaohai sat next to her. After a meal, they didn't say a few words, and then somehow they added her friends. Since then, Xiaohai has started chatting with girls on QQ. Over time, the two became acquainted. Then, they often make an appointment to play badminton together, go camping together, go rafting together ... 14 September 16, go camping together at the seaside. That day, Xiaohai finally got up the courage and prepared a necklace to express her love, but the girl accepted the necklace but refused him. Xiao Hai said that he didn't understand why girls were like this. Xiaohai later told her good friend about it, only to know that the girl knew it was impossible, so she chose to refuse. But because no boy has confessed to her for many years, she accepted it and satisfied her vanity.
Xiaohai told me that although he can't really be with a girl, he has been pursuing her. And she has always understood Xiaohai's mind, but until now, she has never promised to be Xiaohai's girlfriend. /kloc-in August of 0/5, the girl said that she would go to Daocheng Aden and wanted Xiaohai to accompany her. He sent her to the airport that afternoon, but after all, they didn't get on the plane to Daocheng together. The girl went to Daocheng and sent a postcard to Xiaohai. I also read the contents of the postcard, which is Xiao Hai's regret that she didn't go with her, and it also hides a trace of ambiguity. After that, they talked less. But in March of 15, the two chatted again. Xiaohai hasn't forgotten her, so she confessed again. This time, the girl did not refuse or agree, and in this way, the two began an ambiguous love. I asked Xiaohai how long he was going to wait for girls, and he said 19 years. So far, Xiaohai has been chasing her for three years, but the girls have never answered positively. I think girls are selfish. Since they don't like it that much, why should they give Xiaohai a good look?
In fact, many boys' brain circuits are really too simple. I think it is possible for girls to receive gifts. Even now, you have not promised me. As long as I work harder, I still have a chance to catch up with you. But some girls are good at taking advantage of boys. On the one hand, they enjoy the boy's kindness to themselves, but on the other hand, they never give him a birthright. In fact, after all, girls don't like boys, just like the feeling of being held in their hands. Love can't be too blind sometimes. Don't let the person you have been chasing all your life ruin your love. Now many girls say that boys disappear after chasing themselves, not necessarily because they don't love enough, but because they don't know how long it will take to catch up with you.
Although companionship is the longest confession, make sure that person is worth waiting for.
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