Awei is 29 years old this year, and it seems that he will be 30 years old, so his parents are very anxious about his marriage, dragging all kinds of friends to introduce him. So awei has a lot of blind dates, but even such girls, he just doesn't like any of them, and he is often cheated. There are still many people who think that he has no money, but he is incompetent. Therefore, the more blind date, the more self-abased awei is, and the more afraid she is to face women.
His last blind date was last month, when he was angry with that woman. He and that woman met on a blind date platform. They just added WeChat and talked until the next day. The woman asked him for a gift, said she wanted a lipstick, and sent him a link to lipstick, saying that she liked it very much, thinking that awei could buy it for her. It is also said that the book says: "A man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, and a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you."
Awei opened the link curiously, and found that lipstick actually cost more than 1000 yuan. awei hesitated and politely refused. It's not that he can't afford it, but that he doesn't think it's time to give such a gift.
But after hearing awei's refusal, the woman suddenly changed her tone, and then called awei and said, "You don't even want to buy a thousand pieces of lipstick, and you want to marry a wife. It is really love rat! " ! Before she finished, awei got angry and said to the woman, "Why should I buy it for you? That's ridiculous! " ! Having said that, awei hung up the phone and blacked out all the contact information of the woman.
Awei asked me, "Are there no good women in the world? Men really only have to spend money to make women feel love and sincerity "?
Bian Xiao has something to say:
In my opinion, I don't agree with awei, because there are many good women in this world, and most of them are good. It's just that awei was unlucky not to meet them.
Moreover, men don't just spend money to make women feel love and sincerity. Because most women, what they value most is not money, but the love and dedication of this man to her.
As far as awei is concerned, I think there is nothing wrong with what awei did, because he really has no obligation to spend money for his wife, and because they are not related by blood, it is totally unnecessary. Awei is willing to sell, this is a big party, this is awei's sincerity, and awei is unwilling to buy it, but we can't say that awei is stingy, because awei has no obligation and reason to give her a gift, but it can only be said that the woman's unreasonable demands and ignorance of the gift.
Someone once asked me, "Should men spend money on blind dates for women?"
In my opinion, in fact, there is no reason for men to spend money on blind date women, because men and women have long been equal, and the most appropriate way to spend money should be AA system, which is the most sincere way.
In the matter of blind date, men are willing to spend money on their own initiative, which cannot be said to be men's obligation. It can only be said that men are generous and men are not willing to spend money. You can't say that men are stingy, you can only say that it is a man's duty.
In love, I often warn the boys and girls around me not to have any money negotiations before determining the emotional relationship, because this is really harmful to feelings.
In reality, many women often say, "Men who are willing to spend money for you may not love you, and men who are unwilling to spend money for you may not love you".
Although this sentence is true, it has a premise that your's feelings have been confirmed, instead of blindly asking the other party to spend money for himself, and then testing the other party in various ways, because this will only make the other party stay at a respectful distance from others.
Because most people are insecure, when facing the requirements of strangers, our first thought must be vigilance, and then doubt. Therefore, some tests of women on men can not only make men pay sincerity, but also make men stop because of worry.
Therefore, I often warn women around me that in the face of love, we must learn to be measured, because no one will owe you anything for nothing. Since you have nothing to pay, how can you force others to pay for you?