Things don't always have a complete plan, and they can only be realized by human efforts. Elders often teach
Guide us: "words must be done, and actions must be fruitful." This just shows that only doing makes sense.
What will happen if you just talk and don't do it?
Over the years, there has been a story among our classmates-
In warm autumn, Hao Han birds don't bother to build nests until the cold wind howling in the middle of winter. It's shaking.
He said, "Dororo, Dororo, the cold wind froze me to death. I'm going to build a nest tomorrow." What about the next day? The sun is shining and it's still early.
The bird's nest has been forgotten. In this way, day after day, finally one day, it froze to death in the ice and snow.
"Don't do small things with kindness" is of far-reaching significance in the socialist market economy today. I
Students might as well give an example. An American company plans to invest $200,000 in Shanghai to set up a factory to produce woven bags. raw material
Foreign businessmen underwrite procurement and products, but American businessmen talked in Shanghai for half a year before finding a partner after the competition. Why? Shanghai people suspect two people.
The investment of100000 is too small, and what is needed is a big project. Smart Wuxi people and Haining people get information, track and chase foreigners.
Please go, hit it off, and then get considerable benefits. Some township enterprises have set up resident representatives in Shanghai.
There are many successful people who specialize in collecting "small sesame seeds" that big enterprises don't want.
The ancients said: "Don't do it with small evils, don't do it with small goodness." Help a blind man cross the road and give it to the old man when riding a bike.
Those who give up their seats ... these "goodness" can be called "small", but they reveal the true feelings of the world everywhere, everywhere.
People's moral standards and even the degree of civilization of a country. You may not have forgotten that Li Suli took the bus.
The figure of enthusiastic service, conscientious in ordinary posts, can be described as "so small", but Li Suli will be self-righteous
His love is dedicated to every passenger and has become a model of flight attendants in the new era; Maybe. Do you remember clearly not long ago?
(China Daily) notice; The salesgirl in a hotel in Beijing neglected to tip the foreign guests less than 40 yuan, but afterwards,
A salesgirl insisted on advertising in the newspaper to show her responsibility to customers. Although someone said to her; "You post this notice.
I'm afraid it will cost more than forty yuan! "This is a mountain out of a molehill in the eyes of ordinary people. It can be described as' so small', but she can't help it.
Because she will never allow her mistakes to harm the interests of customers, let alone the honor of the country. Look,
This little bit of "goodness" will promote the pace of human civilization to go more steadily and faster.
In Peng Duanshu's article "To Learn", two monks in Sichuan, the rich and the poor, described their wishes as "the South China Sea". However, "the rich can't go to the poor."
The story of "Yan Zhi" shows that it is easy to do something in this world, but it is difficult to do nothing. People study in order to "get rich"
Monks are picky. It is true that "rich monks" have strong financial resources, but "still failing" should indeed be criticized.
Comment; However, "rich monk" heard it. Poor monks are ashamed of "one bottle and one bowl" and "South China Sea". That's all,
I think the "rich monk" also has something commendable. A "rich monk" is ashamed to know his mistakes, but he is still a man after making mistakes.
Is it really depression that destroys people, or talk big and shirk responsibility, or cover up the facts and ask for a return?
An improvement?
Someone took a taxi and saw a motorcycle overturned because of speeding. The knight lay face down on the road.
Next to him, gurgling blood oozed from his forehead, and no one went to save him. "At least, we should help him up,
Raise your head and lower your brain blood pressure, or you won't live long. "The driver said.
Someone has been thinking about the driver's words all the way, and when he got off the bus, he couldn't help asking, "Now that you know, help him sit up.
This will save his life. Why didn't you stop and do it just now? "
"Since you heard me say that, why didn't you ask me to stop and help myself?"
George Washington was the first president of the United States. He led the American people to bathe in freedom and independence.
The bloody battle drove away the ruler.
George Washington was a great man, but he was not what future generations imagined. He specializes in great things and puts all the things that are not great.
Leave it to those who are not great. In fact, if he is in front of you, you will feel that he is as ordinary as you, just like you.
Honest, enthusiastic and friendly to others.
One day, wearing a knee-high coat, he walked out of the barracks alone. None of the soldiers he met recognized him.
Male ... In one place, he saw a corporal leading his soldiers to build roadblocks.
"Come on!" The corporal shouted to the soldier carrying a huge concrete block, "One, two, come on!" " But,
Corporal didn't even touch the stone himself. Because the stone is heavy, the soldiers have never been able to put it away.
Let's go The corporal shouted again, "One, two, come on!" But the soldiers still can't put the stone back in place. Their strength
When the gas is almost exhausted, the stone will roll down.
At this time, Washington has rushed to the front. He held up the stone with his strong arm. This assistance is timely,
This stone is finally put away. The soldiers turned around, hugged Washington and thanked him.
"Why did you just shout' Come on' and put your hand in your pocket?" Washington asked corporal.
"You ask me? Don't you see that I am a corporal here? "
"Oh, that's true!" As he spoke, Washington unbuttoned his coat and bowed to the man with a bright face and twisted hands.
The sergeant showed his uniform. "According to the clothes, I am a general. But next time you lift something heavy, you can call me. "
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a young man named Chen Fan, who lived in a room by himself. The yard was a mess. Qin Xue, his father's friend, saw the criticism.
"Why don't you clean up for the guests?" He asked. He replied: "The gentleman will sweep the world and settle in one room?" Qin Xue
Immediately asked tit for tat: "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?"
This story reminds me of a sentence-"Don't do small things with kindness". We in China have always liked the word "big"
When the top leader, everyone is willing to do great things, but disdains to do small things. Although there is some truth in this concept, we should see it more clearly.
Another relationship between "big" and "small" People often say, don't "pick up the sesame seeds and lose the watermelon". I don't entirely agree with this.
Although sesame is small, it can be "a grain of rice as a basket and a pile of sand as a tower". In some cases, sesame seeds should not be underestimated.
Yes, I think "big" and "small" can be transformed into each other under certain conditions, just as more sesame seeds will taste better than watermelon.
Same.
"If you listen, you will die at dusk." This is a famous saying of Confucius. This sentence is used to inspire people to fight for truth.
The pursuit of knowledge is beyond reproach. But if you think from another angle, you can't help thinking.
Will question this historic saying.
People should pursue the truth all their lives, but if they are only satisfied with mastering the truth by themselves, and don't spread the truth, it will be simple.
Is it meaningful and valuable to improve one's self-cultivation without contributing to society?
What's the value?
Dialectical materialism holds that if cognition is not the practice of transforming the objective world, practice is the only purpose of cognition.
Service is neither possible nor necessary for survival and development. The so-called "smell" is just an acquaintance.
Cheng is the preparatory stage of practice and will eventually return to practice. Therefore, what is important in a person's life is not.
Master knowledge, but use it to benefit mankind.
This story sounds ridiculous, but many people in life have the psychology of Hao Han bird.
Aim the camera at the campus. After the mid-term exam, some students beat their chests and feet because they didn't do well in the exam. Sigh, even
He made an impassioned speech in public, set lofty goals and vowed to improve his grades at the end of the term, but after returning home,
Just throw the book aside, and it will be a sigh after the final exam.
It seems easy to talk verbally, but it is useless without practical action.
A few days ago, a newly planted sapling was knocked down in front of our building, and all ages passed.
Eight languages can be talked about. Some blame people who knock down trees for disrespecting people, and some are dissatisfied with people who plant trees ... for the first time.
A few minutes passed, but no one came forward to help it. At this time, a "red seal" emerged from the cherry blossoms. He
I picked up a spatula, silently stopped in front of the small tree, lifted the small tree and filled the soil with the spatula. So the little tree is slim.
Jade stands in the breeze.
In this way, a problem that took a lot of effort was solved by a child's humble action. There is an old saying in China:
"Be quick in what you do and slow in what you say." Since doing is more important than saying, dear students, let's seek success in practical actions.
Work hard!
However, around us, there are many people who despise it because of kindness. In life, you will find some such scenes:
Spilled garbage on the road but no one took the initiative to clean it up; The roadside telephone booth is swinging outside, but passers-by turn a blind eye.
See ... because in the minds of a few people, there are different attitudes towards great goodness and small goodness: if "goodness" is great, then show it to yourself.
I am a "civilized person": if "goodness" is small, it can be ignored. These ideas are obviously wrong. Our world needs
Everyone is kind, big or small, and does not seek fame and fortune. Imagine a society where everyone is bound by personal interests and doesn't do it because of small kindness.
Yes, how can we make steady progress?
Each of us should be proud of "goodness" and carry forward the spirit of "taking goodness as small but not doing it"!
People work hard, not to train us into expensive "bookcases", nor is it
It is to cultivate useless nerds, but to hope that we will explore and innovate after learning knowledge.
Serve the society and contribute to the people. Therefore, only by applying what you have learned can you truly realize your own value.
Life can be full and meaningful!
Let us remember what romain rolland said: "Only creation is happiness."
Some people encourage themselves to say, "You can die at dusk when you hear the word." They just move the knowledge from books into their heads and store it.
Hide it, satisfy it, and serve the whole society without paying attention to their use value. This kind of person seems to
Because they are knowledgeable and well-informed, they are respected by many people, and they pretend to be well-read.
Yes However, in their careers, they are mediocre and have achieved nothing. Aren't they ashamed of life and themselves?
Everyone's existence is social. Because they are constantly absorbing material and essence from society.
God nutrition. Therefore, their labor should also be social, that is, not only for themselves, but also for others. one
This is especially true for those scholars who are well-read and knowledgeable. He spent as much material wealth as other workers.
At that time, we had to absorb a lot of spiritual wealth, several times more than ordinary workers. Therefore, society has produced more scholars than a scholar.
An ordinary worker has to pay a higher price. If he is still satisfied with the self-design of the bookshelf, he is not.
Has made a contribution to society, or this contribution is not enough to compensate people for the labor they have paid to train him, then he
His life is a waste of people's labor value, and his life is equivalent to eating books.
Bookworm
Example 1
"Xian Yu" and "Networking"
There is an old saying: "It is better to retreat and build a network. If you don't advance, you will retreat." This means that instead of standing by the pool and watching the fish,
If you want to get it, you might as well go back to netting and fishing to really get the fish. Although this is an old saying, it is above the rest in human society.
Today, it still has certain educational significance: only by taking practical actions can we put our thoughts in our minds.
Laws, wishes or ideals come true.
The relationship between "virtuous and foolish" and "networking" is actually the relationship between "thinking" and "doing". "Idle fish" is easy to "get caught"
Difficult, just want to have a wish, which often makes people unconsciously become "empty politicians" who can only dream, and
There are always few serious doers. However, there are often only a few doers with successful careers. Congba
Li Shizhen, who has been collecting herbs and writing books, still insists on "ten-year review" in her down-and-out life of "porridge for the whole family".
Add and delete five times. . Cao Xueqin worked hard and eventually became an immortal masterpiece A Dream of Red Mansions. From four years of hardship to several tons of leaching.
Madame Curie, a scientist who extracted a few grams of radium from her youth, won the Nobel Prize for winning glory for the nation and studying hard.
Neo-Confucianism Yang Zhenning, which one of them got his grades by thinking? Which one is not successful from a few?
Ten or even decades of hard work? It can be said that the success of their career benefits from this sureness.
The spirit of "netting"
In fact, everyone who is "envious" wants fish without exception, but not everyone who "quits the net"
Anyone can do it. Because that requires the persistent will and efforts of the "net maker".
Pragmatic spirit. Only by weaving a net, deep sea fishing, can you catch fish. Otherwise, give up halfway or not at all.
Set out to do it, and the result will only be nothing.
After understanding the significance of the spirit of "netting", as contemporary middle school students, should we also put this kind of
Has the spirit been applied to our study life? When we see the students around us making rapid progress in their academic performance,
Should we just be content to stay on the level of envy? If we want to learn well, we must be willing to study hard, so that we can be good.
Our wish has become a fruitful reality through our own efforts. This is what we should do!
Having this spirit of "netting" will benefit us for life, and now we may catch one by it.
A good university is a good job, but in the future we will rely on it to make more contributions to the construction of the motherland; Benefit now
Maybe it's just that each of us "nets", but in the future, our younger generation who are good at "netting" will make the motherland better.
Strengthen great prosperity. "A strong teenager makes a strong country". At that time, China will become a real giant, standing in the east of the world.
Example 2
It's better to start weaving your fishing net than just covet fish in the water.
"It's better to retreat and form a net." This sentence comes from the history of rites and music, which means; By the river or in a deep pool
Seeing fish on the side, just hoping to get fish, it is better to go back and make a net to catch fish. This sentence reveals a simple method.
RB: Ideals and aspirations are beautiful, but the reality of success requires a down-to-earth and persistent spirit of struggle.
On the palette of life, everyone wants to achieve something in his career. Colorful hope
Hope gives people endless motivation to pursue. People start in hope and grow in hope. And the realization of wishes, there are
Some people hope to fall from the sky, and some people struggle hard in hope. The former "catches fish" and the latter "casts a net".
However, where is the hope? Some people say: tomorrow-tomorrow's happiness, tomorrow's wealth, tomorrow's enrichment.
..... but experienced farmers not only hope for tomorrow's harvest, but also pay more attention to today's cultivation; Young people who make a difference not only hope
Look forward to tomorrow's success and pay more attention to today's study. Is there anyone who is in a daze who never has a good vision, but not today?
As long as you work hard, there will be a bumper harvest tomorrow. Those who wait for tomorrow's harvest season are still in their baskets.
But it's empty. It can be seen that it is better to retreat and net than to fish in the forest.
Everyone has a "virtuous fool" heart, but "virtuous fool" does not "net" or prevent others from "fishing"
You must not be anxious. Looking at today's society, the wave of reform is impacting the ancient land of China and every society.
In the corner, a generation of entrepreneurs have gone through a difficult road. They succeeded, published in newspapers and appeared on TV.
Envy is the envy of everyone. During this period, many "fairies in gardens" appeared. According to the first analysis, there are several kinds of "idle fish" people.
Some retreat and "cast nets" to fish in deep water; Others are more jealous than appreciative. They threw stones into the water.
They want to scare away the color, but they can't get the fish themselves, but they hinder the destruction of other people's net fish. They tear down platforms everywhere, spread rumors and destroy them.
others ...
"Xianyu" can of course, and "netting" is the right way. Only "fish" and no "net", then you will only
Is to "envy the whole fish" and not get "fish". Anyone, success does not fall from the sky, but comes through struggle.
I see. I remember Xie Juezai once said, "You'd better not fantasize about anything at sunset, but at sunrise."
Start working when you get promoted. "This is probably what I mean.
Example 3
The wise man was speechless.
The depths of the sea are calm.
A flower's life is silent.
The towering mountains are silent.
Many spectacular lives in nature often show people with silence, but should human life be the same?
There are two people who want to take the chef exam. As soon as A opened his mouth, he made a hype, from traditional China famous dishes to foreign schools.
Our western cakes, from the coloring of each dish to the seasoning of the heat, seem to be perfect. Second, wait a minute.
Beside, said nothing. When asked about him, he just said, "If possible, give me 30 minutes and I'll make a table."
Just looking. "
Needless to say, B who spoke too slowly was accepted.
Wit and wonderful language. Sometimes it's just a moment of wisdom and dripping expressions, but wisdom and expressions are the essence.
The body does not prove the result, and simple actions are the flowers on the road to success.
To understand a person, we should not only listen to what he says, but also see how he does it, because some words are insincere.
Just like knowing a tree, you don't have to rush to see flowers in spring, you can wait until autumn to see the fruit on the tree.
It is the language of flowers and the annotation of trees.
All creatures, people who only look at you, you will find him boring because he
Talk too much: and the person who has been silent and only shows silence, you may not only be impressed with him, but also be right.
He has a desire to explore-because silence brings elegance and reserve to women, and also because silence brings profundity to men.
practice You should remember that some things in life are true and profound in your heart, but pale when you say them.
Yes For example, a lifetime of love.
When I was very young, my mother said to me, look at those two quarrelling people in the street. The one who screamed at the top of his lungs was fierce.
People are often illogical' because the truth is not on his side', and he wants to take the lead in covering up his guilty conscience. and
Silent people are full of righteousness, and naturally they can keep a straight face, because silence is the greatest contempt!
A simple truth is that crows and cicadas are undoubtedly the best, but they are not human pets.
The loud noise of volcanic eruption and the spirit of pulling mountains are amazing. But this spectacle will not
It can be seen at any time that it has been silent for thousands of years in the depths of the stratum for the spectacular moment!
There are two ways to make the world bigger; Looking at the summit, close your eyes and meditate. They are independent of language. From this
The world doesn't seem as big as words describe. I think everyone agrees with this.
A wise man is speechless.
Words must be done, and actions must be fruitful.
A gentleman is ashamed of his words, but he does not stop. A gentleman's name must be known, and his words must be feasible. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it —— The Analects of Confucius
I have participated in "Speaker is Action".
The gentleman who once participated in the discussion thought twice before acting. He must think twice when he acts, and he must think twice without regret when he thinks twice, which is also cautious. "
"A gentleman is determined by benevolence and does what he says" ("Da Dai Jie")
That's all I know. I don't know if it's right. . Does it meet the requirements? . .
In addition, this passage may be helpful to you:
A standard of conduct that matches words with deeds.
Everything is done by Han Feizi, and the foreign reserve says "Left" tells the story that Zeng Shen kept his promise to kill pigs for his son. He attaches great importance to the moral education of "faith", and his actions of matching words with deeds are amazing. Discussing the relationship between words and deeds occupies a prominent position in Ceng Zi's ideological cultivation, and also opens an unprecedented road for the development of China's philosophy. ?
According to the Analects of Confucius, Confucius said, "A gentleman speaks but doesn't do it. Speak first and then follow. " "A gentleman is ashamed of his words, but he does not stop." "A gentleman's name must be known, and his words must be feasible; Gentlemen have nothing to do with this. " It is said that keeping words and deeds consistent is the basic standard of a gentleman's words and deeds And Zeng Shen's thought about "doing", like other achievements, basically advances in the direction of Confucius.
Zeng Shen said, "The speaker means the trip." Because words are expressions of actions, we will "listen to what they say and know what they do." To "a gentleman is determined to be benevolent, but his words are the first" ("Da Dai Jie"). In this way, words are not only the inner voice, but also used to express some wishes, attempts and ideas. More importantly, they should obey the level of "doing". Don't say what you can't do. When you say it, it means that you have put the "doing" consistent with this statement into practice. This is the harshest definition of dialogue. But Zeng Shen is adamant about this. Only when his every move can follow the rules can he talk about the cultivation of a gentleman. At the same time, Zeng Shen also put forward the concept of thinking before thinking: "A gentleman is cautious when he thinks, thinks and acts, thinks and acts, speaks and thinks, thinks and thinks, and has no regrets." "People believe what they say, follow what they do, and people believe what they do. It can be repeated and can be classified by age. " Shi Dadai talks about the whole process of human behavior, which consists of four parts: thinking, saying, doing and answering. This is called the combination of exterior and interior. A line is the intersection of the outside and the inside. Without lines, it can't appear inside, and without lines, it becomes empty outside. However, action is not the end of the process, and a complete process needs "recovery" and repeated efforts. In other words, the consistency of words and deeds can not only make value judgments in form, but also in form. In other words, immoral things also have the appearance of consistency between words and deeds. Therefore, only after repeated, moral words and deeds are consistent, is it valuable, comprehensive and truly meaningful. This can be said to be a great contribution of Ceng Zi's self-cultivation to the philosophical level, even surpassing the special performance of Confucius' philosophy. ?
Zeng Shen's self-cultivation words and deeds also include the content of his hard work. He said: "A gentleman must learn his profession and ask his order. Ask without deciding, take the opportunity to watch the color and reply, although it is not fast but not strong. A gentleman learns it, but suffers from his lack of knowledge; If you learn from it, you will suffer greatly. The ambition of Xi suffers from its ignorance; If you know, you can't do it; If you can do it, just let it go. The learning of a gentleman is related to these five things. " He advocates learning not to abandon small, but to be able to speak implicitly. "The gentleman learned and keep it. If he speaks implicitly, he will do it first, and others will follow his words. The gentleman will leave this embarrassment for life! " Zi Si's study, questioning, thinking, arguing and acting of the Doctrine of the Mean is obviously a comprehensive summary influenced by it. ?
Just say no, the important thing is to do it. ——————————— Lu Xun
Real leisure is not doing nothing, but being free to do what you are interested in. -Bernard Shaw