Xiaojun's mother said that Xiaojun only read until the second day of junior high school, but he didn't want to study any more because of his poor grades, so he dropped out of school and went home. Then he went abroad to study computer for a while, and soon went home, staying at home for nearly a year. "He is usually fine. He can cook and cook without any problem." He just doesn't want to associate with people and is introverted. He basically doesn't talk at home, there is no computer at home, and the children have nothing to do. As for Xiaojun's sudden self-harm and how to self-harm at home, Xiaojun's mother said that she did not know.
Ye Yanqi, a psychology teacher at Liming University and a national psychological counselor, said that it is normal for boys aged 17 to have erections frequently. Xiaojun should have accepted the wrong sexual knowledge by taking such extreme measures. He may think that it is bad, immoral and unclean that the penis is always erect at high frequency. Because he didn't communicate with his friends, parents and doctors, he wanted to avoid this matter and had to take the way of self-harm.
The psychological counselor said that Xiaojun was frightened by the frequent erection of penis, because no one told him it was a normal physiological reaction; At the same time, in normal life, he doesn't know how to divert his attention, how to calmly treat normal physiological reactions and how to accept himself. Xiaojun is a child who lacks communication with his parents. His parents should give him positive guidance, so that he can establish good interpersonal relationships and live in harmony with the people around him. The occurrence of this incident highlights the lack of parental education for Xiaojun. His parents should communicate frankly with their children, have more heart-to-heart talks with them and provide them with spiritual nutrition.