From the official explanation of terms, it is not difficult to find that with the progress of people's thinking, adopted marriage is no longer criticized as in the old society. Nowadays, the phenomenon of adoption is very common in many areas, and many people are proud of it. Because the adoption marriage of a man and a woman is two different marriage modes, although the result is that two people live together, there is no small difference between them due to the influence of traditional concepts and social values. From this perspective, men and women in adoptive marriage need to bear more responsibilities and greater pressure, and their marriage life is also very sensitive. Perhaps a small move, even an unintentional word, may lead to the breakdown of the marriage relationship. Xiao Qiang is not alarmist.
My friend Xiaoqing is a rich second generation in our circle. Although her parents are not rich, the property in their name is enough for ordinary people to spend their lives. But Xiaoqing didn't develop a domineering character because of her natural superiority. On the contrary, she is friendly with people everywhere, but Xiaoqing, who is 27 years old, has never been in love. She complained more than once that she was very eager to get married. In fact, under the condition of Xiaoqing, there should be at least one reinforced platoon at the pursuer, but after knowing the compulsory conditions of Xiaoqing, everyone looked at Wang Yang and sighed. Because Xiaoqing is the only daughter in the family, she can't leave her parents, which means she has to recruit a son-in-law
Every time she is with Xiaoqing, she always complains, especially when she hears the news that others are getting married. She even cried in a hurry. At the end of the party, Xiaoqing always said wryly: "Brothers and sisters, start your's feelings and solve the sisters' lifelong events." Later, I received news that Xiaoqing was finally getting married. When she introduced her fiance to us, I felt sorry for Xiaoqing. Or in other ways, that man is not worthy of Xiaoqing, but that man is willing to be a son-in-law and knows how to please Xiaoqing's family, so Xiaoqing is naturally going to marry him down the slope.
On their wedding day, a group of our friends didn't go, because they were all friends of Xiaoqing's parents' business, and the wedding scene was relatively dull and not modern. Xiaoqing said that we would have a big meal after the wedding. After a week, Xiaoqing told everyone that she had booked a table. When I went, she and her husband met at the door. At dinner, because of occupational diseases, I paid more attention to her husband and found that the man didn't.
Until one day two years later, I suddenly got a call from Xiaoqing. She cried that she wanted a divorce. She has kicked the man out of the house. When I saw Xiaoqing again, she cried and said these two years. It turned out that the man often carried Xiaoqing's family to send money to his parents. She didn't say anything about these Xiaoqing, and she would deliberately give her husband more money, until that day her husband actually asked me to give his parents a house. He also said that this house was used by his parents to marry his brother. I won't write the following words, because it is too shocking and makes people indignant. Xiaoqing certainly didn't agree to send a house, and the man actually threatened to divorce. At this time, Xiaoqing saw his true face and immediately swept her husband out of the house.
After reading Xiaoqing's story, Xiao Qiang wants to ask everyone, do you think Xiaoqing did right or wrong? Your answer can be left in the comments section. Xiao Qiang will give his opinion first. First of all, I don't think Xiaoqing did anything wrong for these two reasons. First, Xiaoqing's family belongs to that kind of enlightened person. Xiaoqing's parents did not ask their children to take Xiaoqing's surname, but Xiaoqing and her husband decided for themselves. From this point of view, Xiaoqing's move should not be considered as a son-in-law, and after two years of marriage, Xiaoqing's family has no one. On the contrary, he defended his dignity everywhere. In order not to hurt his dignity, Xiaoqing would secretly put the money in a place for him to get it himself every time. Economically, Xiaoqing never wants anything. Off-topic, Xiaoqing's family did a good job.
Second, as for the man, Xiao Qiang has said in the story that he is not a gentleman, because at that dinner, the man's eyes have been drifting away from other female companions, and he also said some frivolous things from time to time. People like Xiao Qiang can conclude that the purpose of his adoption is by no means simple. As I expected, just married for two years, he showed his fox tail and wanted Xiaoqing's house. Want to know the valuation of the house around 3 million, just imagine, in the face of such love rat, what's wrong with Xiaoqing's approach, Xiaoqing feels too civilized instead, and it is estimated that it would have been messed up on others.
At the end of the article, Xiao Qiang wants to reiterate that today's marriage is not like the old society, but the product of social progress. Especially for men, don't feel that the adoption marriage is too heavy to lift your head and make you feel inferior. Xiao Qiang wants to tell you here that the society has great tolerance for adoption marriage, but he is deeply involved in it. But Xiao Qiang should also remind female readers that when choosing a husband, they must keep their eyes open and not be used by those "bad men".