0 1. The wife forced her husband to sell the house in order to help her brother pay off 200,000 gambling debts. First of all, Xiao Hu (a pseudonym) met his wife Xiaoli (a pseudonym) through blind date, and her life was dull and happy. It's just that my brother-in-law often asks my sister Xiaoli for money, and every time it is between 1000-2000 yuan. Xiao Hu didn't take it to heart and felt that the amount was not big. His wife helps her mother's family, but her heart is still in this family.
Moreover, Xiao Hu never imagined that his wife's condition was getting worse and worse. From thousands to tens of thousands, and then to the brother-in-law who lost 200 thousand gambling, his wife never thought that giving money by herself was not to help his brother, but to harm him. Xiao Hu didn't want to be a big head this time, saying that he wouldn't take out any money, but his wife kept clamoring for divorce if he didn't sell the house. Anyway, she can get half of the property.
02, the husband took out the divorce agreement to test his wife, and the wife signed it without saying anything. Xiao Hu is reluctant to part with his wife and children, because the children are still young and do not have a complete family. Therefore, he gave his wife one last chance. He found a friend and threw out a divorce agreement. He thought that his wife could not bear to part with her family and would not sign, so he understood his intention. How did he know that he didn't come up with a divorce agreement? His wife will only say that he has no conscience, and he can get half of his property to help his brother if he divorces early. Until this moment, Xiao Hu realized that in his wife's mind, he and his children could never compare with his brother-in-law.
03. When you meet Voldemort, hide as far away as possible. Personally, Xiao Hu really has nothing to say to Xiao Li. After they got married, they lived a good life. It happened that if they set up such a family, the wife would help the younger brother unconditionally. What is this? If my brother is in trouble and comes to help as my sister, no one can take this as an example, but my brother is obviously a vampire, so he takes advantage of his sister's preference and is unscrupulous. People in their twenties don't look for a job, they just loaf about every day, either eating or sleeping or gambling tables. It's no use paying back money and having mines at home.
Since you can see the essence of your wife clearly, don't think about being reluctant, and don't feel that children are miserable without their mothers. Isn't it more pitiful for a child to have such a mother? Give everything to my brother. When did she ever think about a small family? Have you considered the future of your child? Have you ever considered where children live without a house?
So the divorce agreement has been finalized, and Xiaoli is fine with it. Let's get a divorce. Although both husband and wife quarreled, Xiaoli didn't realize where she was wrong. Such a wife would rather not, even if she raised her children alone, it was a hundred times better than raising such a wife, wasn't it?
In addition, Xiaoli never thought that she was married. She wanted to take care of her brother's affairs, but her husband had no obligation to help, let alone help her brother pay off gambling debts. You should know that his brother is an adult, not a child, and he needs to pay for his mistakes.
04. Summarize. Dear friends, if you want to help your brother/sister, there is no problem, but you must take care of your small family and have extra ability to help, not sacrifice your small family.