Not to mention, it's really interesting!
We often find that people will make some lovely mistakes unintentionally, such as ordering food with "tomato scrambled with tomatoes" (scrambled eggs with tomatoes/scrambled eggs with tomatoes) and saying "sit on the mountain and watch the tiger fight" (sit on the mountain and watch the tiger fight), which makes people laugh. These unintentional words are called "slips of the tongue". People often don't notice this, but psychology believes that any slip of the tongue is not accidental.
Freud saw the research value and significance of slip of the tongue. Freud believed that many people's thoughts are "hidden" and "subconscious" because of social ethics or other constraints. But it is dishonest and always wants to show its face through various ways of "saving the country by curves", which may appear in dreams, unconscious behaviors or slips of the tongue. Anyway, you just ran out without paying attention. In fact, it is useless to pay attention, because I know that the enemy is black, and you can't catch it at all. According to Freud's theory, from a person's slip of the tongue, you can often find some secrets in the other person's heart.
There are many such examples in reality. In counseling, I once encountered a case where a husband's wife asked to separate from him because he said something wrong when he went out with a female friend of his wife. My husband had an upset stomach at that time. When passing a hotel, he said to the lady, let's get a room in the hotel, and I'll go to the toilet. The lady told his wife what happened and they had an argument. After in-depth analysis by the consultant, the gentleman admitted that he really had a crush on this lady very early, and a slip of the tongue became a window to expose his true thoughts.
What's Dany's innermost secret?
What information did Dany's slip of the tongue bring us? This is about to start from the beginning! According to informed sources, before leaving Zhejiang Satellite TV, Dani, the host of China Dream Show, and Zhou Libo, the creative director, had a disagreement. Zhou Libo can let the contestants be eliminated or resurrected at will in the dream show, making 300 dream observers a bit useless, and the host is more like a decoration. Analysts believe that Dani's final decision to leave Zhejiang Satellite TV is related to Zhou Libo. It is not difficult to imagine that Zhejiang Satellite TV has a love-hate relationship with Dani, and it is extremely necessary to leave.
Since leaving her old club, Zhejiang Satellite TV, Dani has been jumping around on various variety screens as a "free man". Compared with her old partner Hua Shao, who made a blockbuster with The Voice of China, she gives people more sense that she is "everywhere, but it is difficult to leave an impression anywhere". Career development is not very smooth. Later, although it was recruited by Hunan Satellite TV, Hunan Satellite TV was full of talents, especially He Jiong, Nana and Wang Han. It is not easy for Dani to make his mark on Hunan Satellite TV.
According to this analysis, Dani's slip of the tongue and poor career development may be the biggest inducement. According to psychologists, slip of the tongue is most likely to occur when people feel tired and nervous, which has a lot to do with a person's mental state. It's like some people are divorced and their family life is unhappy after remarriage. They often miss their ex-wives/ex-husbands, and even call each other's names in their sleep. They are the same!
Written at the back: Is this statement scientific?
Having said that, it must be explained that Freud's falsifiability theory is considered unscientific by many scholars. Because you have been following this idea, when you hear someone say "open the book 1 1", you can judge that he has encountered economic problems or is a money addict; Some people say that "he" is "she", and they say that he is a pervert; When you hear someone say "wreath" to you, you will feel that they are hostile to you ... Over time, it is estimated that you will be separated from others like Freud.
This is another story about Freud's pipe. Someone once asked Freud how to explain his pipe, because according to his theory, his habit of smoking a pipe for a long time is a kind of "oral fixation", that is, the "oral fixation period" of his childhood (the period Freud thought that babies must go through) did not transition well, so he always stopped at that stage when he grew up. But Freud said otherwise: "Sometimes a pipe is just a pipe." It seems that the elderly have a double principle, and there is no fixed law!
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