A small oversight can lead to great disaster. It's not easy for a soft-blooded person to endure. It is not only timid, but also has perseverance and courage. Endure, need to pay more efforts. Endurance can sometimes exercise a person more. There's nothing wrong with suffering. It is difficult to endure great pain and humiliation.
If God wants to destroy a man, he must first make him arrogant. A man cannot control others unless he controls himself first. Only those who can defeat themselves can defeat the enemy.
When Han Xin was young, his family was poor, but he couldn't make a living, and he often wandered around. Begging for food One day, Han Xin was walking in the street, and the son of the killed pig saw it. This boy saw that Han Xin was poor and deliberately bullied him. When I came to Han Xin, I said disdainfully, "You are so old, and you have a sword around your waist. How capable you are!" ! I think you are strong on the surface, but actually you are weak, and your courage is not as good as that of a rabbit! "This boy, a lot of people came to watch the scene of bustle, he is more excited. He insulted Han Xin in public and said, "If you are not afraid of death, kill me with your nod;" "If you are timid and afraid of death, go under my crotch!" Say, really spread your legs, revealing a rogue street hooligans. Han Xin looked at this boy, shook his head, sighed, leaned forward and climbed to the top of his legs. The onlookers burst into laughter and thought Han Xin was a coward.
Later, Han Xin was reused by Liu Bang, worshipped as a general, and led the tribe to attack the north. In the decisive battle with the prince of Zhao, there were only tens of thousands of people in Han Xin, while the prince of Zhao had an army of 200,000. But Han Xin was fearless, and finally defeated the enemy and destroyed Zhao. Han Xin repeatedly made meritorious military service and was named King of Qi and King of Chu by Liu Bang. Passing through my hometown, Han Xin sent for the pig slayer's son. The boy was so scared that he thought he had to die. Han Xin didn't kill him. He also gave him a small official and said to his generals, "I can kill this man not only now, but also in those days." But I think, if I kill him, I will pay for it. How can we build a gentleman's career? You can't lose big because of small. So just bear it. Otherwise, how could it be today? "
No one will be "useless"
When you give up completely, you have no choice, it's really useless.
The French writer Dumas was down and out before he became famous. Once, he went to Paris to visit a friend of his father and asked him to help him find a job.
His father's friend asked him, "What can you do?"
"Nothing big, old man."
"Are you proficient in mathematics?"
"impossible."
"Do you know anything about physics? Or history? "
"Nothing, old man."
"accounting? What about the law? "
Dumas blushed, and for the first time he knew that he was too incompetent. He said, "I'm really ashamed. Now I must try my best to remedy my incompetence. " I believe that I will give the elderly a satisfactory answer soon. "
His father's friend said to him, "But do you want to live?" Leave your address on this piece of paper. "Dumas wrote down his address helplessly. His father's friend cried, "after all, you have one advantage." Your name is very good! " "
You see, before Dumas became famous, there were times when he felt useless. However, his father's friends found a seemingly poor advantage of him-writing his own name well.
Write your name, maybe you don't care: what is this! However, no matter how small this advantage is, it is an advantage after all. You will expand your advantage based on this. Names can be written well, and words can also be written well; If words can be written well, why can't articles be written well?
Each of us, especially those who are not confident, must not set the standard of superiority too high and turn a blind eye to our own advantages. Don't stare at your shortcomings such as poor study, no money and bad looks. You should also see your good health, good singing and good handwriting. These are not discovered or recognized by outsiders and themselves.
You won't be useless. In this world, everyone has a unique talent, just like a gold mine buried in our ordinary life. Those who always envy others and think they are useless will never dig their own gold mine.