Young man, it is selfish not to work hard. As the saying goes, if you don't work hard, the boss will be sad! As a young man, the first task is to work hard. The following are some articles I will share with you. It is selfish not to work hard. I hope you are inspired!
Young man, it is selfish not to work hard.
When I went back to my hometown some time ago, my cousin saw me and said with tears, Sister, I have dated dozens of times since last year. Why don't girls have a crush on me? Kindly plug!
I seriously analyzed with him that girls nowadays like men who work hard and make progress. You can have no money now, but you must be self-motivated and work hard to show them hope and give them enough sense of security.
My cousin said with a confused face, I am trying! I have a job, I go to work on time and by the hour every day, and I never arrive late or leave early. Don't eat, drink, go whoring or gamble, and wander the streets all day. Why do I feel insecure?
I asked him, how much do you earn a month? How much is left after paying off the mortgage?
Cousin slowly lowered his head and slowly stretched out two fingers.
Two thousand? I asked.
After paying off the mortgage, there is still 200 left! Cousin is a little embarrassed.
I asked him, with only 200 yuan left, how can you support your family in the future?
Cousin confidently said that the daughter-in-law has to go to work to make money! Moreover, my parents can earn thousands of dollars a month now, and it is not a problem to support their families.
That's good! If your daughter-in-law has children in the future, she can't go out to work for at least three years, as I do now. Your parents are old, and their money is only enough for daily expenses. Have you ever thought about how to support your parents when they are old, and how to support them after you have children?
what am I supposed to do？ I also want to make money, but I have no access. My cousin said helplessly.
I will enlighten him. You must have made a lot of money in sales. Besides, you have accumulated a lot of contacts now, so it should be easy to sell. Well done, the mortgage was paid off in two or three years.
My cousin shook his head into a rattle. It's too tiring to do sales. Besides, my personality is not suitable for sales. I don't want to live so hard.
I continue to advise him that if you don't want to be a salesman, you can spend time playing games after work to enrich your professional knowledge, and you must learn the basic skills solidly. Survival in eight hours, development in eight hours. Whether your career can reach a higher level in the future depends entirely on whether you make full use of your spare time. You know, hard work can only pass, and hard work can be excellent!
Cousin said angrily, why do you always want me to make money? I don't want to live so hard, and I don't expect to be rich or expensive. I just want to live a simple and stable life. Why do you always impose your ideas on me? That's not the lifestyle I want.
I was angry, too. You are a man. Please take up the responsibility of supporting your family like a man. Your parents are in their fifties and sixties. In order to buy a house and pay off your mortgage, they all left their homes to work. What is the reason why you don't work hard?
You have the face to play games day and night. Now you are still young and don't work hard. What will you use to support this family in the future? It is selfish not to work hard!
Cousin is ashamed, sister. I understand everything you say, but change is too difficult and painful.
I said earnestly that although change is painful, it is the lowest cost and the fastest investment.
How long can life be rich, and when will it be rich without it? In fact, it takes only ten years to work hard in life. 25-30 years old is a valuable stage for us to accumulate basic knowledge in our own fields. At this time, you should study hard and lay a good foundation, just like laying a foundation. Whether you can build a dream building depends entirely on whether your foundation is solid or not.
30-35 years old is the time to accumulate contacts and experience, and this time is also the stage to test whether your foundation is solid. If you work hard enough and are good enough, then you are surrounded by outstanding talents who stand at the same height as you. Remember, your position determines your personal relationship.
Once we miss this decade's efforts, the next life will be hard.
At the age when you can bear hardships, you must not choose comfort, because the lack of effort and comfort in your youth will make you pay for it in your later years.
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A college classmate I haven't contacted for a long time suddenly asked me on WeChat, Ako, do you know what to do to make money now?
I searched hard in my mind and told her that starting my own business is the most profitable! Didn't we learn image design? You can open a cosmetics store, help customers do makeup modeling by the way, or take orders online. There are hundreds of bridal makeup now, which should have a good prospect.
This classmate made a pie mouth expression, dear, starting a business requires capital investment, how can I afford to open a shop?
I thought for a moment and said, then you can set up a stall first! Many big entrepreneurs started as street vendors. Do you remember Xiaoqing in our dormitory? After work at night, some people sell nail polish in the night market. They only work for an hour a night, and they can earn 10 thousand less a month!
The classmate made a surprised expression: Oh, my God! Ten thousand dollars, twice our salary! But I'm tired of setting up a stall, and the pain is unbearable. Xiaoqing is a greedy workaholic. When she was at school, she went to the dormitory to sell cosmetics every day. I really don't understand why a girl should live so hard! That's not the lifestyle I want. I just want to live a quiet life.
I told her, but you know what? Xiaoqing bought her own house. She paid a down payment and a mortgage on a house of more than one million yuan. This year, people also went to four countries. Even so, people can afford my sister's tuition and living expenses.
Therefore, the relaxed, comfortable and material life you have earned through your own efforts is the truly simple, happy and plain life!
You can't expect a better material life just because you have no money. You can't simply lower the quality and level of life, but are you poor?
Do you know why a girl works so hard? Because only if you are good enough can you find a better partner, and most importantly, only if you work hard can you deserve a bright future!
The classmate is about to cry: what should I do? I'm selling cosmetics in the mall now. I work 12 hours a day, and I only have one day off a month. I only work hard for 1.5 thousand yuan. Am I still saved?
I comforted her that choice is more important than hard work. As long as you find the right direction of work from now on, and then work hard, you can definitely change the status quo of dissatisfaction.
The classmate said helplessly, I also want to make money hard, but I can't! I am pregnant again. I can't work too hard!
My jaw fell off in surprise. You already have two daughters. Why are you pregnant again? Won't you be fined?
The classmate said mysteriously, the doctor said, this time it is a son, I'm afraid I have to pay hundreds of thousands! So I am very upset and want to find a way to get rich quickly!
I am angry: people try their best to have sons when they are rich, because they are afraid that no one will inherit their wealth. Your own lives are problems, and you have to risk a fine of hundreds of thousands. What's the point of struggle?
The classmate said awkwardly, I was forced, and my husband's family always wanted a son.
I sighed helplessly, ok! Then you should work hard and make money for your three children, shouldn't you?
That classmate made a crazy expression and said, alas! I just don't want to live so tired. Is there a good job where you can make a lot of money by sleeping in bed?
I'm going to collapse, please, there is no such thing as falling pies in the sky, once or twice occasionally, it's either a trap or a trap! If you want to make money, you have to keep your feet on the ground and work hard!
Students casually said, it doesn't matter, anyway, I am poor. I don't want to make a lot of money, as long as my family is safe and has a mouth to eat. Didn't you say that children should be raised in poverty? Put it in my hometown in the countryside and let my grandparents take it. One sheep is released, three sheep are released, right? How to raise children?
I told her seriously that children have to be responsible for them when they are born. You can not give them a good living environment, but at least let them live a normal life and grow up happily with their parents. It is extremely irresponsible and selfish of you to send your children back to your hometown and leave them with your grandparents. Because of your hard work and selfishness, parents can't enjoy their old age and children can't grow up healthily and happily in a good family environment.
Some students said unconvinced, I'm not a case. If you go to the countryside, left-behind children will catch a lot. Aren't their parents hardworking and selfish?
I am very sad to say that the common phenomenon in rural areas does not mean that this matter is right. As the saying goes, all the results are related to childhood, and the growth and psychological problems of left-behind children have become the focus of social attention. If you feel tired and hard to make money in a big city, you can go back to your hometown and open a small shop, which can not only accompany your children to grow up, but also take care of your elderly parents. Would you please shoulder the responsibilities of an adult?
If you don't work hard now, what can you do to make children and parents live a simple, happy and plain life?
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Ten years ago, my 18-year-old aunt, after working as a salesgirl in my hometown shoe city for several months, found that selling shoes was very profitable, so she borrowed 5000 yuan and set up a counter in the shoe city.
At that time, the girls who worked as salesgirls with my aunt were puzzled to see that my aunt got up early and was greedy for the black, selling goods desperately, and was as tired as a dog every day.
They scoffed, saying that women will get married eventually, and they should work hard to make money. Woman, it is better to marry well than to do well! Just dress yourself up and hook up with a rich man.
Aunt doesn't understand them either. Only by doing well can she marry well! It is the same as standing for twelve hours a day. Why don't you do it yourself? Working for others is only a few hundred dollars a month, and working for yourself is tens of thousands a month!
The girls are shaking their heads. How tired they are to do it alone! It's hard to worry about it. What if it's lost? It is safer to work for others. Besides, we are not as vulgar as you. We are all greedy for money, and we should make a lot of money ambitiously. Is money everything? Can money buy happiness?
Aunt was furious. Why are you so selfish? You are still so young. With a little effort, you can reduce the pressure on your husband, let your children live a better life and let your parents enjoy their old age. Yes! Money is not everything, but without money, how can you support your children and your parents?
The girls cried because of the pain of their aunt. They cried and said, we just want to live a simple and plain life.
In the past ten years, the girls who worked as salesgirls didn't find a good husband because they were young and beautiful. Most of them married the right wage earners and lived a long-term separated life. They are still salespeople, and their wages have not risen much, at least compared with the soaring prices.
The welfare benefits of salespeople in 18th-tier counties are extremely low. No five insurances and one gold, no holidays. They work 12 hours a day and only have one day off a month, depending on the boss's face. So they simply don't have enough time to spend with their children and family.
When people reach middle age, they still live a hard life, which is not as simple and plain as imagined.
Although Xiao Yan is either rich or expensive, he bought two houses in full, and there is no pressure on the mortgage. Although the marriage didn't go well, my uncle graduated from a famous university and worked as a teacher in a key high school. He has a stable and decent job, many holidays and enough time to spend with his children.
Aunt works easily and freely, and has enough money and time to take her grandparents to travel, because even if she is not in the mall, her sales performance is still considerable.
Yes! Aunt worked hard at the age of struggle, so she is now qualified to live a simple, happy and plain life.
You are still young. If your family is average, you are not qualified to choose the so-called plain life, because if you don't work hard, you and your family will not see the future and hope. If you don't work hard, you will be selfish to escape from reality.
Don't always say, I am a woman, there is no need to live so hard. First of all, as an adult, you should take responsibility, shoulder the responsibilities and obligations to your family and society, and hold up half the sky.
So even as a woman, you have no reason and qualification. You don't work hard and you don't struggle.
As the saying goes, if young people don't work hard, old people will be sad. When you are young, you should suffer more, so that you can relax when you are old.
The same is true of women, so men, if you have to pursue a simple and plain life to escape efforts and struggles, don't blame me for saying that you are too selfish, okay?
Young man, it is selfish not to work hard. I saw a work by the writer Xiao Su yesterday and today, which was very touching. He said that there are many opinions that people should choose a plain life and a comfortable attitude. But if you are young and your family is average, you are not qualified to choose the so-called plain life. Because you don't work hard, you and your family can't see the future and hope. Your lack of effort is selfish to escape from reality. He said that although you are young, you are an adult, and you should take responsibility and shoulder the responsibilities and obligations to your family and society.
Because you have no reason and no qualification not to work hard or struggle. As the saying goes, young people don't work hard, but old people are sad. When you are young, you should suffer more, so that you can relax when you are old. If you have to pursue a simple and plain life to avoid hard work and struggle, you can only say that you are too selfish.
I've seen all kinds of opinions before. Some people say that life should be dull and not so hard. Some people say that life lies in struggle, and we are awakened by dreams every day. You don't even know if you should believe this sentence. But I think for young people, no matter how much wealth their parents leave, as the article says, you are not qualified not to struggle.
Because of your responsibility, you and your family can't even stand the basic material life. How can you have an attitude of plain life? That's self-deception, that's self-escape. Show your courage and courage. For the family, for the dream. More for yourself. Let's go