Puppy love problem. Children's physical development precedes their psychological development. Generally, junior high school students are close to adults in physical development, but their psychological development is slow, so they can't handle their emotions and feelings rationally. Moreover, their feelings for the opposite sex are vague, and improper handling can easily lead to serious consequences of puppy love.
Suggestion: it is advisable to be sparse but not blocked. The more blocked, the more rebellious. Let children look at the problem from the perspective of personal happiness, understand the reasons of puppy love, guide children to correct their emotional concepts, and let him know the adverse effects of puppy love on individuals. Parents should not act impulsively, but communicate with their children in private.
Rebellion problem. Understanding the reasons for children's rebellion, such as the topic, should be the psychological characteristics of adolescence, so parents should reason with their children calmly. Even if their children talk too much, they should slowly guide and help them, communicate with them equally, respect them and respect them like adults.