I think such an unreasonable woman, instead of helping her family, has harmed two families. In the end, it is inevitable that she will eventually divorce. This is really shooting yourself in the foot.
My neighbor's army, because of this matter, the couple are getting divorced. His wife secretly bought a new house for her brother 65438+ 10,000 to get married behind his back.
If you have enough money, you can take it around. But the problem is that their husband and wife are like clay bodhisattvas crossing the river, and it is difficult to protect themselves. Both husband and wife are small businesses, and they can't balance a few money all year round. For them, 654.38+10,000 yuan is not a small sum.
I didn't expect to buy a house in town. The army wanted to go back to their hometown to build a house, but unexpectedly, they let their wives steal it from their younger brothers. His hands trembled with anger.
Fortunately, however, Dajun's wife realized her mistake and begged again and again that it wouldn't happen again, asking for forgiveness this time. Dajun was depressed and wanted to divorce at once, because his wife didn't go back twice at a time, and it was endless.
His friend advised him not to be impulsive. After all, the child is still young. If he gets divorced, it's not good for the children. Now that it has happened, it's time to think about how to remedy it.
The problem is that Dajun's wife didn't mean to ask her brother to pay back the money, but asked about "helping the poor", which was tantamount to giving her brother this hard money for nothing.
Therefore, I will not hesitate to tear down my own corner, but also subsidize the woman in my family. Dajun has seen through it and doesn't intend to recover this 654.38+ ten thousand yuan. He is determined to get a divorce. This is the ultimate way to get rid of it.
After the divorce, the ex-wife's window is not long. With the help of others, she married someone soon, which seems to be better than the original one. I heard that the man is engaged in engineering projects and can earn a lot of money.
The great gentleman couldn't help sneering. Even if he can make money again, he can't stand the profligacy of such a wife who helps his brother. Whoever marries such a woman is really unlucky at home.
Privately, I think that charming women's brother is because they can't carry it clearly and don't understand the present marriage. This is their comfort zone. Taking good care of their parents is just a kind of help beyond their ability.
Women should always remember not to be swollen and fat. No matter how good your home is, it will only go three or two times a year. However, if your families are different, you will live together for many years. Only one's own small family is good, which is really good.
My sister-in-law used to be a "brother's helper", but she has to buy a copy of everything at home, which shows that the family loves each other. Although my cousin complains a lot, he dares to be angry and dare not speak. After all, this is a matter of helping others. He is still a member of the family, so he turns a blind eye.
Fortunately, my cousin's money-making speed can keep up with his wife's profligacy, otherwise the family would have been separated. The couple didn't discuss it privately, but they always won with their wives' strength.
Until one time, my wife went back to her mother's house and overheard the conversation between her parents. It turns out that they have always favored their sons, encouraged their daughters and tried their best to take care of their younger brothers.
This is a bolt from the blue. From then on, my wife finally drew a line with "brother helper" and stopped subsidizing the family. It's really gratifying.
In fact, it is understandable that the married daughter helps the family. After all, blood is thicker than water. Relatives should help each other, so as to be like a family and love each other.
However, there is a limit to everything. The reason why some women become "demons with deep brotherhood" is that they don't grasp this degree well. What should and should not be helped? Helping more and helping less is also a problem worth thinking about.
If this degree is not good, it will make two families restless. Your own small family will lead to discord between husband and wife, and your marriage life will be trivial. Your family will also complain a lot about you and think you are useless. There is a kind of misery.
In order to solve this problem, it is the most important thing for the parties to wake up, stop being "brothers" and understand their marriage life. This is the most important thing compared to family.
Finally, I sincerely hope that everyone's marriage can be happy, and there is no trouble of "helping the younger brother"!