As the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. How can you tell if a person really has feelings for you? Just had a serious illness.
Why do you say it must be a serious illness? Because a serious illness requires not only long-term money investment, but also daily feeding, laundry, body cleaning, dressing change and so on. There is a great demand for physical strength and energy, and patience and perseverance are tested because of the long time.
So many people say that an ordinary person's serious illness will bring down a family. In the face of a seriously ill partner, you can also take care of subtlety. If it's not true love, it's really hard to stick to the end.
Adversity is a test of true feelings.
A fan contributed to me and told his own story, which sounded a little sad. The two people who originally loved each other went through hardships, but separated at the moment when happiness should have come.
Sister Ping is in her thirties and has never been married, just because she doesn't want to settle down and find a partner who can accompany her for life. Until she met the gentle and considerate Yu Xiansheng, Sister Ping insisted on being with each other regardless of her second marriage and a 9-year-old daughter.
Just as Sister Ping's parents were ready to compromise, Yu Xiansheng found out the tumor and needed to be hospitalized for surgery. Go their separate ways, or abandon * * * troubles forever?
The two are not married yet, and no one will gossip when they break up; If you stay with him and take care of him all the time, no matter whether he can be cured or not, the financial resources, energy, physical strength and heart you have invested may end up drawing water with a sieve.
Considering that Yu Xiansheng has no relatives around, once she is hospitalized, her underage daughter will be left unattended. Now that she is at a low point in her life, she must be in great need of company. Sister Ping is very distressed.
Most importantly, Sister Ping finally met someone who wanted to spend her life together. She didn't want to give up so easily. She feels that these are all tests of their love, and they will definitely spend it.
Some people can bear hardships, but they can't share weal and woe.
Sister Ping resigned to take care of her, but her economic conditions were average. After spending all her savings, Sister Ping put all her savings into it.
Sister Ping takes care of the little girl's diet and daily life every day. After the little girl went to school, she took food to the hospital to take care of Yu Xiansheng. I have to take care of the little girl's sleep when I go home at night, and I don't even have time to rest.
Later, when things got better, she went home to recuperate. Sister Ping also takes care of her. In this way, five years later, Yu Xiansheng's condition improved significantly. Although it may recur in the future, it is worthwhile for Sister Ping to make further efforts.
Yu Xiansheng was moved by Sister Ping's insistence, and they discussed the marriage. But before preparing for the wedding, Sister Ping knew one thing, which decided that they would not have any contact in the future.
It turned out that during Mr. Wang's hospitalization, he was really moved by Sister Ping's courage and patience. At that time, he decided to support Sister Ping until she was old. However, after her illness improved, Yu Xiansheng began to worry that being with Sister Ping would leave her daughter in the cold. What if Sister Ping has her own child and is not good for her daughter?
Therefore, although Yu Xiansheng doesn't have much savings, he owns a house worth 30 million yuan. He moved the house to the name of his underage daughter and then proposed to Sister Ping.
Sister Ping didn't come for his money and house. She never gave up for five years. She wants to exchange her sincerity for her sincerity. I didn't expect the other party to be prepared for themselves. She gave her heart and got a calculation.
The original wedding photos were also torn up, and Sister Ping couldn't expect anything from this relationship, so they parted ways and there were two passers-by from now on.
Conclusion:
In fact, their feelings are very deep, which is understandable if they are considered from both sides. What Sister Ping wants is a reliable sincerity, which is very emotional. Yu Xiansheng has another daughter. Love is not the whole of life. We have to consider the interests of our daughter, so we have reservations.
However, society means that people are sophisticated, self-aware, a friend in need is a friend indeed, and people will look after you for a long time. If you really meet someone who will never get you into trouble, you'd better cherish it. After all, there is no blood relationship. How many people are affectionate?