1. People don't know until middle age: it is themselves who want to change their lives, and decades of time have brought peace of mind.
? 2. Just as people like to taste tea in middle age, we no longer like the fierceness and confusion of white wine, and our hearts as quiet as white silk glow with the warmth of red wine.
? 3. People have to put Lycium barbarum in braised instant noodles in middle age, hahaha.
? People don't know until middle age: there must be gains and losses in life, and fortunes depend on each other. Youth will definitely leave, but wisdom can accompany you.
? 5. The child who just turned 18 asked me what girls like. No, no, I have to sleep. People will age faster in middle age. Middle-aged people only like health preservation.
? 6. People don't know until middle age that the most difficult thing to recover in this world is people's hearts. Especially in the emotional world, the most useless thing is regret. Regret can neither help you save a person nor make up for the mistakes you made.
? 7. What do middle-aged women need? They need temperament, elegance, calmness and calmness.
? 8. I'm not sleepy at night now, but I'm afraid of losing my hair, which is a sign that people reach middle age.
? 9. The right person may not meet at the right time, but the wrong person may meet at the right time. This is the time difference in life.
? 10. The withered heart has lost the care of life. If you are helpless, you always let go of the pattern. A person always bears the greatest wind and rain.
? 1 1. Excitement is a worrying love that slowly overflows. Excitement is a hard wait, the coming Ying Ying.
? 12. This is a greenhouse full of cacti. I stood for a long time with a balloon called happiness.
? 13. Look at the sky, the clouds are floating quietly, the wind is blowing gently, and the wings of birds block a cold and salty rain.
? 14. People don't realize that to be a real person, you don't need utility, action or mind, you just need to be down-to-earth, diligent and true, and be a person who is afraid of everything.
? 15. lament that life is not easy, and everyone wants to be understood and supported. I'm curious, when people reach middle age, what keeps their marriage is love, children or making do. Or mixed with various reasons. Cherish what you have at the moment.
? 16. When people reach middle age, the main contradiction in life has changed from seeking but not asking.
? 17. Love yourself well is the beginning of romance for the rest of your life. When people reach middle age, their skin will get worse and worse and wrinkles will increase, so you must learn to maintain it. Only in this way can you be more confident and experience the happiness of life.
? 18. Mid-Autumn Festival is when people reach middle age. What more can a husband ask for? Sail on the water, watch the moon on the boat, and the moon shines on the river.
? 19. When I was in bloom, people would get bored in middle age. If you don't hate late spring, it's better to use scented tea.
? 20. It must be self-deception to try to realize the hopes and wishes of youth in middle age. Every decade of one's life has one's own luck, hopes and desires.
? 2 1. What's wrong with being young and frivolous? People go to other places in middle age, frivolous, and strive to return to their hometown in middle age!
? 22.30. Female middle age is a watershed. If they don't pay attention, they will live in embarrassment, and elegance and mediocrity are between one thought.
? 23. Women who can't reach middle age and want to go to senior three are struggling every week.
? 24. Some women, born with beauty, are tired early, but they can't resist the butcher's knife of years. Some women, in middle age, have surging beauty energy. It turns out that time is not a butcher knife, but a touchstone.
? 25. Marriage in youth. Mature people with peace of mind experience another kind of marriage in middle age.
? 26. The real inner strength is to live in your own world, not in the eyes and mouths of others. Life is nothing more than laughing at others, and then letting others laugh at themselves.
? 27. Life is like a dream. Wrong is right, gratitude and resentment, the sun and the moon are silent, and the running water passes without a trace. Those who are hard to give up are just a little stupid!
? 28. Life is a game. If you lose something, you can't lose your mood. Mood is not the whole of life, but it can affect the quality of life. In a good mood, everything is fine, in a bad mood, everything will be chaotic. We often don't lose to others, but let the bad mood degrade our image, reduce our ability, disturb our thoughts and dim the direction of life!
? 29. Never blame others for not helping you and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in the world, we are all independent individuals, and we all have to suffer pain and discomfort. No one can really understand you. If the stone hadn't hit his foot, he would never know how painful it was. On the road of life, we are all lonely walkers. If people know how to drink water, then the only person who can really help you will always be yourself.
? 30. Life is like this. With people in the sunshine, the heart will not be dark. When you are with happy people, you often have a smile on your mouth; People who are enterprising will not lag behind in their actions; With generous people, you are not stingy; If you are with wise people, you will not be confused when you encounter difficulties; With smart people, you will become smart. Borrow people's wisdom to improve themselves; Learn from the best others and be the best yourself.
? 3 1. There are two tragedies in life: despair and complacency.
? 32. The result of silent withering and aging is the same as that of instantaneous burst burning, but the time is different. Which one do you choose?
? 33. In life, people keep leaving or entering, so what they see is what they don't see; I forgot what I remember. In life, there are gains and losses that we can't see; Forgot, remember.
? 34. Don't refuse to choose to start because you are afraid of ending; Don't refuse to try just because you avoid failure. Life is a one-way street. If you miss it, there is no chance to start again. Don't let fate be full of regrets.
? 35. Real knowledge comes from the heart, not from others. At the same time, only inner knowledge can make people have real wisdom.
? 36. There is no perfect score in life. It's like always carrying a laundry list full of dissatisfaction. Because they are not satisfied, they will keep picking and gaining more and more. There are no assumptions in life, and the present is everything. Put it down if you can't move your back; If you can't afford to get hurt, look down; Think impassability, don't want to; I hate it, but it has healed. Life is a process of self-cultivation. Why use this uneven heart to humiliate yourself and hurt the years?
? 37. You can live truly, but don't be too serious. There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple when people look at it. The greatest sorrow of perfectionists is that they live unreal. Reality is the truest truth. In the real world, there are joys and sorrows. The greatest pleasure of living is to find happiness from pain. Pursuing everything is a positive thought, but it is not the best way of life. It's hard to be confused. You are easy-going and life is easy-going.
? 38. There is only a direction in life, and there is no fixed road. Along this direction, there are many different roads, including flat roads, narrow roads, tortuous roads, muddy roads, and even traps and abyss. Maybe in the end, we may not be able to realize our ideals, but we can't wait. As long as we go, there will never be a dead end. The only thing that can really make us despair is our own heart.
? 39. If you care, there are complaints everywhere; If you relax, it is always spring. There are always unpleasant things in the world, and few things can make you get what you want. If you don't care, no one or thing can satisfy you. If you live a lifetime, you need peace of mind, so why bother yourself? The heart is one inch wide and the road is ten feet wide. If it is not as broad-minded as the sea, how can there be a calm life!
? 40. People are like this all their lives. Desire is like sand in their hands. The tighter you hold, the more you lose. Learn to let go and give up before you can really get it. Gains and losses are only relative; When you think you can get it, you may be losing it; When you feel lost, you may be getting it. Look down on everything, want to be open-minded, follow the fate and follow your heart; If you don't want it, you don't have to lose it.
? 4 1. Many things are always experienced before they are understood. Like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; Only when you are stupid will you know how to persist, give up in time, and get to know yourself gradually in gain and loss. In fact, life doesn't need these meaningless attachments. You really can't give up without anything. Learning to give up will make life easier.
? 42. Life is not absolutely fair, but it is also relatively fair. On a scale, the more you get, the more you have to bear than others.
? 43. Go your own way while you are young. Learn to keep a low profile, and there will be gains and losses between choices. Make your own decisions, and then be prepared to bear the consequences. Be cautious and independent, learn to compromise, but also stick to your bottom line. Understand that giving doesn't necessarily have results. You can forget the past, but you must let go.
? 44. Shoes that don't fit, don't get stuck, grind your own feet; If the caller doesn't answer, don't redial again and again, cherish your call as soon as possible; Don't go all the way to the restaurant where you moved. You can't always spend time on the road. All people and things, just have a clear conscience. Don't force it if it's not yours. In fact, what is left is the scenery, and what is left is the life.
? 45. We have seen too much parting and separation in love, and too many painful plots and falsehoods in various movie scenes. We have summarized all kinds of love stories, but when you are in them, you will understand that true love is very simple, with only two words: the future.
? There are three ways to solve all the problems. Accept, change and leave. If you can't accept it, change it If you can't change it, leave.
? 47. You belong to pure white in deep blue. Your eyes are the sea I have never seen in my life.
? 48. Young people, our hearts are relatively small. If we put a little bitterness into them, they all look big. When people grow up, their hearts get bigger. Even if more sadness is put in, you can still leave calmly and forget calmly. So be patient, and one day our hearts will become bigger than sadness.
? 49. People are lovelorn, frustrated and even divorced all their lives, so that our suffering in love is just a springboard for you to grow up. On the springboard, the hardest thing for people is not the moment they jump, but the struggle, hesitation, helplessness and loss in their hearts before jumping, and they can't talk to others at all. We thought we couldn't jump, so we closed our eyes and got up the courage, but we skipped.
? They didn't know you didn't go to bed until dawn until they saw you get up at noon. He laughs at your idiot and can't see the determination behind you; They see that you are surrounded by splendor, but they can't see your bitter efforts; They think you are laughing and heartless. They don't know that you are sad at night. You have to work very hard to look effortless. Even if you get shot lying down, you have to pose beautifully.
? 5 1. Fortunately, love is not everything. Fortunately, nothing is love. No matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and no matter how sad it is, it can't stand time.
? 52. If you want to live an ordinary life, you will encounter ordinary setbacks. If you want to live the best life, you will encounter the strongest harm. The world is fair. If you want the best, it will definitely give you the greatest pain. If you can break through, you are the winner. If you can't do it, be an ordinary person. Success is not about how smart you are, nor about selling yourself out, but about whether you can pull through with a smile.
? 53. Don't judge a person with your own eyes and cognition, and judge whether something is right or wrong. Don't expect others to agree with you. Don't expect others to fully understand you. Everyone has his own personality and opinions.
? 54. When I became a mother, I lost myself and became a satellite that only revolved around children. I spend less time with my husband, have less contact with friends, have less contact with society and have less hobbies.
? When we see a bigger world, we can be more tolerant and generous. In fact, accepting and respecting each other's differences has become the focus of understanding the world.
? 56. Sometimes we bow our heads to see our way clearly. Many people think they have a good life and are unwilling to try new things. A lot of things can't be put down, can't be pulled down, and eventually die on the face.
? If someone needs your help, it is a great pleasure to give generously. If spending money can buy health and happiness, why not! If spending money can make you carefree, it's worth it!
? 58. Life is dull, and life is dull. I passed through my youth with a normal life without waves.
? 59. Life is not perfect. If you find a mistake, don't cover up another mistake with one mistake. Always soaking in a pool full of mistakes will only make you weaker and weaker. Only by letting go of yourself can we enjoy today's happiness. If others don't forgive you, you can forgive yourself!
? 60. If people want to become smarter, they should be less paranoid, nonsense, right and wrong, and more positive energy in life, and change themselves in this bit by bit.