Clothes are not as good as new clothes. Only when people lose them and compare them will they miss the former ones. However, everyone is moving forward, and it is impossible to keep standing still and wait for others to remember their good times before looking back. There is no such truth in the world, so there will be, cherish the present statement.
Husband and wife are the same, or the original match. After all, when we get married, we all go to grow old together. Who would have thought that they would divorce halfway? It must be heartbreaking, and they won't go on.
Li Fang was heartbroken for her last marriage. When she first married Zhang Qing, she never thought that this day would come.
At first, Zhang Qingxian was chased by Li Fang, and the two met by chance. It was her initiative to make a phone call, and they developed after chatting.
Li Fang didn't expect Zhang Qing to like himself, and even more unexpectedly, two people would get married. This is too happy for her who is married to love.
I didn't expect marriage and love to be completely different. If every girl can predict what will happen after marriage, there will be not so many bloody things in life.
There are only two people in love. You tease me, you coax me, I coax you is enough.
Marriage, there are many people, it is not enough to rely on that little affection. You have to spend most of your time dealing with this large group of people, and in the end, you will be exhausted.
Others don't say, just the mother-in-law at home is enough.
When getting married, Li Fang felt that as long as two people have good feelings, any bride price is vulgar and will defile her and Zhang Qing's pure feelings.
However, this is good for her mother-in-law, that is, it is cheap, but it is out of tune.
02.
When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live in the same room, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels and frictions because of small things in life. It is good for two people to give each other a little humility, but the mother-in-law is a poisonous person.
Quarrel and bickering always want to get the upper hand, never want to suffer, but I can't swallow this tone, so I took Li Fang instead of bride price money and put it on the pole for her son, shameless, so I humiliated Li Fang.
This made Li Fang very sad and cried for a whole hour.
As a husband, Zhang Qing did not coordinate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is said that men are the lubricant of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but men with low emotional intelligence can't coordinate the relationship well, but the more they stir up, the more stiff they become.
Zhang Qing has a straightforward personality and a stupid mouth. In modern parlance, her name is straight. If she doesn't persuade Li Fang to get better, she will hurt her heart even more when she says, "You really don't want the bride price yourself. If you want a bride price, will my mother still say that about you? " You can't blame anyone. "
Li trembled with deflation and replied, "I don't want a bride price, not just for you, but now I'm humiliated and bullied by you."
Zhang Qing still showed the straight man's personality completely, and then said, "We didn't bully you, you made yourself angry."
Li Fang cried and regretted it. At the beginning, she took a fancy to Zhang Qing's frankness. She didn't beat around the bush. After getting married, she found her strengths turned into weaknesses. How can she live like this?
God, it won't be cold for a day, and my heart and feelings won't be hurt once.
In life, you will be hurt once and there will be a second time. Injury will not make a woman stronger and stronger, but will make people more and more chilling.
03.
When this contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law constantly occurs and destroys people's hearts, I am eager for my husband to help me, but I am disappointed again and again. Finally, I must wake up and leave, so as to help myself best.
Therefore, Li Fang divorced. She doesn't want to continue wasting her youth in this endless noisy life. There are still many things to do in life, and there are still many scenery worth seeing by yourself. Why waste time on the wrong person?
After Li Fang divorced, Zhang Qing just complained about her mother: "How did you drive people away?"
But her mother-in-law said, "I don't have to. She left by herself. Can you blame me? Besides, with your conditions, I'm afraid I can't find a better one, so find someone better and younger than her and make her regret it. "
However, my mother-in-law has no idea that people's consciousness is different. You think this can stimulate others, but others have long been indifferent, so it doesn't matter
After traveling for a week, Li Fang focused on her work and didn't ask about the past.
With his mother's efforts, Zhang Qing was introduced to an unmarried woman younger than Li Fang. Zhang Qing's mother liked it very much, and whether her son answered or not, she urged him to make an appointment for marriage.
Have you ever found that in life, many mothers-in-law who like to intervene in their son's marriage are actually not looking for a wife for their son, but looking for a satisfactory wife for themselves. As long as they are satisfied, nothing is a problem.
After Zhang Qing got married, she found that her present wife is very young, but she also has many problems. If nothing else, as far as married life is concerned, the current wife still asks him for money. What logic and thought is this? Maybe it's still against him.
Zhang Qingyou can't say anything about this. I can't tell my mother about it either. That would be a shame.
04.
My mother also found a daughter-in-law. She has many questions. She sleeps in the sun every day and doesn't like doing housework. She told her to get up for breakfast, but she just said no.
From noon in the morning, after lunch, I go out shopping, do my nails, buy things, and play with my mobile phone when I come back at night.
If you have no money, ask Zhang Qingyi. Cry if you don't give it.
Zhang Qing advised her: "Why don't you find yourself a job and do nothing every day, which is quite boring."
The woman replied directly: "Work? I want to earn money to support myself. Why should I get married? Just marry a job. "
Zhang Qing was so angry that he couldn't say a word.
Zhang Qing's mother was also in a panic, but she was afraid to teach her face to face. If you run away again this time, the 80 thousand bride price you spent on your wedding will be in vain.
I can only spit behind my back: "Son, it is better to be an ex-wife. It costs too much money. Otherwise, you can contact Li Fang and say that mom is wrong about her. Let's remarry. "
"Mom, you understand now, the somebody else don't bride price. You make trouble for people and humiliate them. Now, people are divorced. You have chosen a good daughter-in-law for me and you are not satisfied. You are really difficult to serve. Now that you are married and divorced, don't bother others. I have to face it. "
Zhang Qing taught her mother a lesson. Things have come to this, there is no turning back. Others are human beings, with thoughts and pursuits. It is impossible to wait for your forgiveness just because you realize your mistake. There is no such truth in the world.
05.
Marriage is not a business, and a person's character cannot be measured by money. No bride price does not mean that she has no dignity or character. She just cares too much about this relationship and this man.
When such dignity is trampled, leaving is the best relief.
For a mother-in-law like Zhang Qing's mother, it is enough to respect others, and don't raise minor contradictions in life to personal humiliation, so that her son's marriage will not be disturbed.
About Zhang Qing's marital status, he became a mother, and he was also a mother when he lost. He has no opinion, and he can't blame others.