Jiurong, a gentleman, comes from The Book of Rites, also known as The Book of Rites for Little Wear and The Book of Little Wear. It is said that it was compiled by Dai Sheng, a ritual musician in the Western Han Dynasty, which mainly recorded the ritual system in the pre-Qin period and embodied the philosophy, education, politics and aesthetics of Confucianism in the pre-Qin period. Yuzao recorded his and his wife's clothes, diet, residence and clothes. Among them, the virtues of nine abilities are described in detail.
Foot volume density: the pace is steady, and you can't stumble lightly or tightly. It is not a gentleman's attitude to walk in a hurry and sway. Walk steadily and calmly, calmly and carefree, giving people a feeling of elegance and confidence.
Hand respect: hold your hand high and respect it. Gestures are the main way for people to express their feelings. Therefore, they should be generous, don't be afraid and timid, understand the local folk customs and patriarchal clan system, and can't use those rude sign languages.
Eyes and eyes: the eyes are not straight but oblique. Eyes staring at people, eyes looking at people with hatred. Don't squint, don't hate watching, the ancients called "don't watch", that's what happens. Eyes are the windows of the soul, and the right of heart, mind and eyes gives people a feeling of being suddenly enlightened.
Rong Zhi: Don't talk nonsense, don't talk nonsense, and talk less if you are not sure. People should always tell themselves that illness comes from the mouth and disaster comes from the mouth.
Quiet voice: the voice does not tremble, and the speech does not cough. The ancients called it "silent", which is silence. When speaking or communicating, the voice should be loud, the tone should be steady, and there should be no grandstanding and Nuo Nuo's servility. Being supercilious is the most reassuring voice.
Keep your head straight: Your head is not skewed, tilted or shaken. If the head is not straight, it is not straight. The head is a key part of a person's appearance. Don't be partial or crooked at ordinary times, and don't be the leader of the party.
Breathe calmly and quietly. The quietness and gentleness of the breath shows the peace and tranquility of people's hearts and brings people a calm goodwill.
Li: Germany, too; Just as others give themselves something, they have to bend down and accept it. The ancients said, "Standing is folding." Qing, a stone musical instrument, is rectangular (a carpenter's bending ruler). When a gentleman stands, he should hold his chest slightly, and he should not hold his chest and abdomen, dictate what to do and order around.
Serongzhuang: A Zhuang is a person who is neither proud nor lazy. Laziness, arrogance and smirking are all bad.
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The nine aspects of a gentleman have nothing to do with height, fatness, black and white, yellow and brown, beauty and ugliness, and age. Anything that makes people look comfortable must be tolerant. Looking at those boring people, you must have poor taste. If you are the king of a country, nine honors are essential. Therefore, the descendants of the ancient royal family were trained from an early age and were not allowed to have any bad hobbies. At present, the same is true abroad. Voters should look at you first, and then it's their turn to make a policy agenda or something. Ancient Confucian sages regarded people's words and deeds as the origin of metaphysics and became the Book of Rites, which was extremely brilliant.