I just met a girl and added WeChat. How to talk at first? What to talk about?

Now WeChat is a necessary software for social chat. Whether it's a girl you just met or a girl who has a crush on for many years, how to chat and what to talk about on WeChat has always been the biggest headache for the majority of boys, either chatting all the time and answering questions, or the girls reply "Hehe, busy, taking a shower" and so on. So how do you chat with the girls you like on WeChat?

The following small series will share how to chat with girls you like on WeChat. I hope everyone can open their favorite girls' chatterboxes after learning.

First, the topic of chat.

How to chat with the girl you like is very important. A pleasant chat can enhance mutual understanding and feelings. By talking about some topics, we can see each other's outlook on life and values, and at the same time let girls know you clearly.

Topics that can be talked with girls are: current hot spots, the other party's study and work, hobbies, clothes decoration, pets, shopping, constellations, weather, Tik Tok, games, Weibo topics and so on. These topics can establish the same language as girls. If you speak well, you can get familiar quickly and invite girls out on dates easily and naturally.

I used to chat with girls, but girls didn't return my WeChat. Even if they reply, it's uh-huh. Sometimes it's even blacked out by girls. I never understood why girls treat me like this until I accidentally saw the secret of picking up girls and soaking old fish. I don't know if this situation is caused by not being attracted to girls. According to the method inside, I changed it. Up to now, 90% of chatting with girls will reply. It is strongly recommended that brothers look at the secret of soaking holy old fish and look it up online. Apply what you have learned, eternal truth, good luck to all brothers.

Second, how to chat with the girl you like

1, chatting as an acquaintance

No matter what your relationship with the girl you like, if you always like to ask questions when chatting, it will appear that your emotional intelligence and love for your career are relatively low. This kind of question is what strangers like to ask. Getting along with the girl you like as a stranger will only make the relationship between your more and more cold.

So talk to girls as acquaintances and convey to them a feeling that you know her very well. For example, praise girls' uniqueness with details and guess girls' careful thoughts with cold reading, then your position in girls' hearts will be different.

2. Nicknames

Acquaintances usually give nicknames to girls they like, which is also a way to establish familiarity with girls, especially when chatting with girls, which can deepen your impression in girls' minds.

For example, if a girl has no resistance to food, she can be called "snack" or "little lazy pig". For example, a sister with big eyes can be called "Little Panda" or "Little Cute".

Step 3 show high value

Girls have no resistance to capable boys. On the one hand, WeChat circle of friends is a weapon to show high value, on the other hand, it can be reflected in chatting, with the purpose of enhancing girls' goodwill towards you.

(1) How to build a circle of friends?

Some boys show that they can put luxury cars, luxury houses, yachts and so on. In their circle of friends. This is actually not to show high value, but to show off oneself excessively. Girls leave you because they don't feel your availability.

It is best for friends to show grounded and life-like photos, such as photos of cooking and traveling, photos of gathering with friends, or photos of serious work. Life-oriented and life-oriented photos will make you look real, and girls can still feel your availability.