Children's eulogy at father's memorial service: elders, relatives and friends:
Heavy rain, dark clouds rolling, our kind and kind father? My Lord, because of bladder cancer, many treatments have failed. Unfortunately? At the age of 80.
What the old man left us was infinite concern for his children's affection and deep memory of his hometown. He was hard-working and indomitable, never bowed to difficulties, and raised us? Children, the hard life course seems to be fresh in my memory, vividly?
1On the second day of April, 938, my father was born in a poor family in Beimen Village and experienced two different societies. I spent my childhood in the dark old China. My young father was smart and studious since he was a child. With the encouragement of my grandparents, my father is here? After finishing primary school, he was diligent and studious, and his grades were among the best, and he was praised and praised by school leaders and teachers many times. Because of his poor family and forced by life, his father, who developed the habit of self-reliance since childhood, stopped studying. For the sake of food and clothing for his family, he took on heavy housework and manual labor prematurely. His underage father earned work points with the villagers, hitting the wall and doing labor intensity that ordinary people could not bear. I married my adult father in. From then on, my father had a warm home, working at sunrise every day and resting at sunset. We start a business with our mother through labor and sweat. From then on, we were brothers and sisters. People have come to this world, adding a heavier burden to the originally poor life. All the family burdens such as food, clothing, housing, daily necessities and children's schooling are on the father's shoulders. For the sake of his wife and children, he gets up early and gets greedy every day. He wears stars and works as a clay figurine with others, pulling cattle and carts, and is often tired and backache. I remember when I was a child, my father got up in the middle of the night and took something given by others. I have never been reluctant to take a bite and bite my teeth to overcome difficulties. No matter how difficult the environment is, he stood up with tenacious perseverance, supported our family with a pair of hardworking hands and a strong backbone, and raised us? Sister, grow up healthily. On one occasion,? My sister is ill and has a high fever. When the father who was working learned about it, he walked home from Yongfeng overnight and quickly sent her to the hospital for treatment, which saved her from danger. With the reform and opening-up policy, in order to change the family status, the elderly have started the pig business again, and often go back and forth? County? Between counties. In order to save money, he often crowded on the deck, but he was reluctant to spend money to live in a warehouse separated by a wall. As his children grew up and established their own businesses, he never thought of stopping to have a rest. In 2006, he learned to kill pigs, raise them himself, kill them himself, and walk a car from home every day. The county hotel insisted on going home and helped and taught many young people to learn breeding and slaughtering techniques. It's been ten years.
Dad! Dad! Your old man has been growing up for our children all his life, eating grass, giving us milk and blood. You are our ladder, your ox cart, and you have helped us embark on the journey of life with hard-working hands. Your old man has paid too much effort and cost in his life? . Nowadays, the days are getting better and better, and the living standard is gradually improving. However, in spring? County people's hospital and. Bladder cancer was diagnosed in the hospital. At that time, the professor concluded that he could only live for half a year at most. In such great grief, his father kept an optimistic spirit and faced life with a smile. He made his own prescription through his own folk prescription, thus effectively controlling his illness. There is love in the world, and the years are ruthless. After all, the disease took away my father's precious life.
Dad, in the face of cruel reality, your old man can go at ease! We must keep in mind your teachings before your death, be honest, do things honestly, take care of your mother's later life, do a good job in sisterhood, respect the old and love the young, unite with the neighbors, educate and train your children, work hard, forge ahead, repay your old man's kindness with practical actions, and comfort him with excellent performance!
The children's eulogy at their father's memorial service Part II Dear neighbors, relatives and friends, colleagues, friends and classmates.
Today, on May 8, 2010, we are here with great sadness to bid farewell to an old man, my father, Yu Guangming. First of all, on behalf of the whole family, I sincerely thank all relatives and friends, folks and folks for taking the trouble to see my father off.
My father was born in Hangzhou in June 1930 1 1 and was raised by my grandmother and my second uncle. At the age of eight, he worked in Xiaoshan's hometown. 12 left the countryside to work at 764 Dongjie Road.
1952 was persuaded by a friend to work in Star Silk Factory in Hong Kong. During his work, he has been conscientious, conscientious and meticulous. Many times by the unit awarded the pragmatic award for mechanical maintenance. His performance in his post is still praised by people. My father/KLOC-returned to Hangzhou in October/954, married Ding at his father's order, and gave birth to three sons: Yu Renfu, Yu Shunkang and Yu Jiankang.
My father is an ordinary and ordinary people. He has never done anything great in his life, but it is these plain years that confirm his noble character. My father was honest and kind all his life, diligent and housekeeping, modest and prudent, and kind and kind to people. He supported this family all his life. He not only gave us material satisfaction, but also watched and supported us with his words and deeds and his own exemplary role, drawing and enlightening the growth of our three brothers and endowing us with sound personality and enterprising spirit.
Due to family financial difficulties, dad, you will go out to work when you retire at the age of 60, and work hard to subsidize the children's expenses. Our children feel very guilty, and you only arrange treatment in time when you are sick. Here our son can only say to you: Dad, I'm really sorry, please forgive your sons!
We know that the best way to miss the deceased is to live a better life, continue to fight, and let his old man feel gratified for his descendants in another world.
Today, on behalf of my family, please allow me to thank all those who have helped us in the past and now. At the same time, I would like to extend my most sincere thanks to my father's relatives, friends, neighbors and colleagues who gave him care and careful care in his later years, and to the doctors and nurses who treated his father during his funeral. We will always keep this sincere thanks!
? But how much love there is in that inch-long grass, have you got three rays of spring? At this moment, in addition to the grief all over the sky, there is only one sentence to say to my father:
? Dad, rest in peace! Have a nice trip, your old man! ! ?
Children's eulogy at father's memorial service Part III Leaders, elders, relatives and friends:
Today, with great sadness, we mourn the unfortunate death of our father and bid farewell to his body. First of all, on behalf of my mother, my brother and my whole family, I would like to express my most sincere thanks to you. Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to see my father off and share our grief. Thank you.
Father 1949 was born in Maqu commune, Ye County, Shandong Province on May 24th, and entered Xinjiang with his parents from 1959. In his childhood, like many of his peers, he suffered the hardships and tests of a miserable and poor life. At the age of sixteen, forced by survival and life, he abandoned books to farm and took on the burden of his family. For the next 40 years, he worked in agriculture and aquaculture, and began to serve as a village cadre at the age of 50.
My father's life is bumpy and extraordinary.
When I was a child, because I was poor, I left my hometown with my parents and came to Xinjiang, and I took on the burden of my family early. At the age of sixteen, I began to drive carts in the production team. When I was a child, I was always discriminated against and had no social status because of my poor family composition. Until 197 1 year, he fell in love with his mother Zhang freely, broke through many obstacles and got married. They started from scratch with labor and sweat and became their own family business. A miserable life kindled hope. After the reform and opening up, he had the opportunity to display his intelligence and organizational ability, and became the captain of the production team, leading the members to harvest crops again and again. After the family production quotas was determined, it became a big grain producer. After that, relying on rich farming experience, he embarked on the road of getting rid of poverty and became a big aquaculture family. 1999 became the first director of the village Committee elected by sea election in Gelema village, and served as secretary of the village branch in the same year. During his tenure as a village cadre, he also served as a deputy to the county people's congress and a member of CPPCC, and won more than 30 honors from organizations at all levels.
My father's life is a life of hard work, dedication, diligence and wisdom.
The father devoted all his love to his family, was filial to his parents, was loyal to his lover and did his duty to his children. My father raised our three brothers all his life. He and his mother propped up a sky for us with their love. In his shadow, we had a happy childhood. Under his guidance, we received education and achieved something; With his support, we got married. This is the first fortune he left us. His efforts and diligence are unmatched by the three of us; His wisdom and understanding, like a bright light in the night sky, enlighten and guide us, which is the second wealth he left us.
My father is resolute in character and strong in heart. He is an accomplished and responsible person. As far as I can remember, I have never seen him depressed because of the hardships and setbacks in his life. No matter how big the storm is, he bears it silently. Just after he felt that he had an incurable disease, he was not overwhelmed by despair, but comforted his mother and us and faced life with a smile. Ten months of chemotherapy is very painful. He is strong and can bear it. He never complained in front of us, nor did he complain. He also talked about his reaction to chemotherapy with doctors, nurses and us in a joking tone. The doctors were all infected and moved by his strength and frankness. At this time, we all laughed and had tears in our eyes. Not only that, when he was awake, he arranged his own affairs properly and didn't want his family to suffer too much pain and burden because of his departure. Even in the last stage of his life, he didn't show any despair. Whenever relatives and friends come to visit him, he can't get up to meet him. He insisted on expressing his thanks and gestures to the visitors with his eyes. Until the last moment of his life, he always maintained the restraint of pain and the dignity of life. This is the third fortune he left us.
These three treasures left by my father are the greatest wealth in our lives, which are irreplaceable and will benefit us for life and be passed down from generation to generation.
My father not only loves his family deeply, but also is enthusiastic about organizations, society, friends and villagers. He often uses his tragic childhood and adolescence experiences to educate and warn us that a happy life is hard to come by, and we should always be grateful and repay the society. He not only said so, but also did so. During his tenure as a village cadre, he raised funds through various channels, built bridges and paved the way, and improved the production and living environment of villagers. During the spring ploughing, he established good communication with the credit cooperatives, helped the villagers solve the production funds and solved the urgent needs of the villagers. Because of the good loan repayment situation, from 1997 to 20**, it was rated as an advanced individual to support credit by the county rural credit cooperatives. There are weddings and funerals in the villagers' homes, and his busy figure is indispensable; The superior leaders came to the village to inspect the work. He also made preparations to receive leaders at all levels of the central government, autonomous regions and regions every year, and his work has been well received by the leaders. He is meticulous, puts the collective interests of the village as the highest, and makes the office building of the village Committee like a garden.
My father loves us very much, and he loves the collective enterprise he has devoted himself to. In the last few days of his life, he dragged his weak body and let us drive him around the village of Gelema. He is reluctant to part with the land where he has lived for decades, and he is reluctant to part with every tree and road he knows.
However, just as he watched his three sons form their own family, their material conditions improved, their lives were happy, and they were about to retire, but unfortunately they were diagnosed with advanced colon cancer.
To think of it, his love for us is dribs and drabs, vivid, and we are deeply moved; I remember, he held hands with his mother and our brother at the end of his life and talked about it. We only hate ourselves for being powerless. It pains us to think that heaven and man will be separated from each other and we will never have a chance to listen to his teachings and be filial before going to bed.
There is love in the world, and the years are ruthless. After all, the disease took away my father's precious life. My son has to be raised and my relatives are away, dad. Facing the cruel reality, your old man can go at ease! We must keep in mind your teachings before your death, be honest, do things honestly, take good care of your mother in her later years, do a good job in brotherly relations, respect the old and love the young, unite with neighbors, educate and train children, work hard, forge ahead, repay your old man's kindness in raising with practical actions, and comfort him with excellent performance!
Leaders, elders, relatives and friends, thank you for coming to see me off after my father died, for your help and concern for our family for decades, and for your kind visit during my father's illness. We are determined to turn grief into strength, carry forward our father's will, build our family into a more happy family and be a person who contributes to society.
Dear father, rest in peace!
Have a nice trip! May you have no more pain and toil in heaven! Your voice and smile, noble quality and unyielding spirit will live in the hearts of our descendants forever!
Thank you!