Parents must pay attention to their children's words and deeds, how to educate rebellious children? How to persuade to be obedient?

In the face of rebellious children, parents must pay attention to their words and deeds, treat their children equally and calmly, and must not attack their unrealistic ideas, wrong practices or excessive handling methods. Second, respect children. When a child is rebellious, parents should understand the child, handle it calmly, and sometimes give in. Don't criticize education blindly, but it will make children have stronger rebellious psychology and emotions.

How to enlighten rebellious children?

1. Respect and trust children. Because they have a strong sense of independence, we should give them corresponding trust. Children often say that my parents don't trust me or understand me. In this case, we must give him certain rights and trust, let him do something independently and accept their bad side.

2. Getting rid of parents' condescending attitude towards children, putting down your body and appearing as a trustworthy friend will be more easily accepted by children, thus alleviating children's rebellious psychology.

3. Listen more and teach less to help children become independent. When children are rebellious and disobedient, parents' preaching will only make children more disgusted, even if they know their mistakes in time. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to girls' behaviors and listen to their voices. Let her feel the respect of her parents and let her look back at her thoughts and behaviors rationally.

4. Be patient with children. When communicating with yourself, be patient and don't force your child to obey you.

5. Praise more and criticize less. Even the smallest achievements and progress of children should be discovered in time, given enough encouragement and praise, and the growth motivation of children should be enhanced.

6. Talk about things and don't turn over old scores. In the face of children's various rebellious behaviors, parents should not directly say "no". For example, if a child says that he wants to buy high-end clothes, if you say "no, there is no way", it will only trigger the child's resistance and feel that parents can't communicate and don't understand themselves. It is to open the door to communication and communicate well with children. Let children make mistakes, educate them not to be emotional, not to turn over old scores, not to insult people's dignity, to guide children with questions, and not to make demands with dignity.

7. Correct guidance, patient education and persuasion according to your actual situation. Everyone will go through a rebellious period of adolescence. During this period, if the relationship with children is not handled well, rebellious children will go to extremes.

8. Set an example. Parents are the children's first teachers, who will accompany their children all their lives. The growth of children is largely the result of parents' education. Let the children do it, and then do it yourself first. For example, the promise of gold.