Jia is not Hua's own brother, they are cousins. But the two played very well since childhood, and their feelings are no different from those of brothers. Jia's childhood life is similar to that in Iowa. They grew up together in Yunzhen, went to school together, skipped classes together and played with mud together.
At that time, their parents were both working outside, and Ajia and Ahua were both left at home by their parents when they were less than one year old.
However, the watershed in their lives was opened when they were ten years old. Ajia's parents started a business after working outside to save money and made a lot of money. So he bought a new house in the city, and Ajia was taken to school in the city when she was ten years old.
Later, Jia became an out-and-out city dweller, and his dress and tone of voice changed. He began to say that Hua sometimes dressed like a bumpkin, and that Mandarin was not standard. It was at this time that Iowa felt that Ajia was a little different from her brother who grew up together as a child.
However, life in Iowa hasn't changed much. After his brother A Jia was brought to the city, he still lived in the town and never left the town until he graduated from high school. Ahua's parents have been working all their lives and have a hard time.
After graduating from high school, Iowa didn't go to college. He said he didn't want to waste his parents' money and went out to work. In fact, my brother Jia didn't pass the exam, but his parents sent him to a college, saying that there was no shortage of money at home.
At this point, the contact between the two brothers has become very few.
02
After graduating from high school, Iowa saw her brother Jia again at her wedding. At that time, my brother Jia had just graduated from college, and we hadn't met each other in these years. First, because they have different paths in life after graduating from high school, one has a job, the other continues to go to school, and naturally there is less intersection, and then the same language is gone.
Second, the parents of both sides had conflicts, which directly affected the relationship between the two brothers. The reason for the conflict is that Ahua's parents wanted to buy a house in the city five years ago, but they were still short of 80 thousand yuan, so they were going to borrow money from Ahua's parents and buy the house first.
As a result, Aga's parents did not borrow it. They refused to lend the 80,000 pounds on the grounds that it would cost their children money to go to school. This reason is far-fetched in the eyes of Ahua's parents, and her mother complains that the richer she is, the more difficult she is. Later, the two saved their own money to buy a house.
After this incident, although the two companies did not fall out in performance, they have long been alienated.
The woman married by my brother Jia is very beautiful. I heard that Jia's parents are not satisfied with this daughter-in-law. They think that although she is good-looking, she reads less. But the son insisted on marrying, so he married the daughter-in-law into the house.
But on the issue of bride price, Jia's parents insisted on not giving in, saying that it was only 20 thousand yuan, not much. The parents of Ajia's daughter-in-law, considering that Ajia's conditions are still very good, should have a good life after marriage, so they compromised on the issue of bride price.
After hearing about this, Iowa's mother began to vomit again, or the same sentence: the richer people are, the meaner they are.
Two years later, Iowa also got married, and the girl she married was suitable for his family, but Iowa paid more than his brother, and his family took 80 thousand bride price. So Ajia's mother also secretly vomited: It still costs so much to marry an ugly girl, so it seems that there is still money!
03
Hua married an ugly girl, as her brother Jia said. His brother's eyes are high, and he always talks about this ugliness and that dirt, but this daughter-in-law married by his brother Hua has only four words in his brother's eyes: ugly dirt.
After the two brothers got married, they lived their own lives and didn't have a chance to meet each other. Jia learned to do business with his parents, fishing for three days and drying the net for two days. He never goes. With his parents behind him, he is not worried.
And Hua and his wife are working outside. Five years later, my brother Jia suddenly and inexplicably asked Hua to meet him. He said that after watching a movie, he remembered his childhood and felt that they were like brothers at that time. Why didn't they contact each other later?
Iowa was also deeply moved, so she agreed to get together. I didn't expect the two brothers to meet again five years later, and the two women around me were blindsided at first sight. What Ajia's daughter-in-law thinks is: How can we grow younger and younger? Much better than then. My brother Hua's daughter-in-law thought, Why isn't my sister-in-law as good-looking as before?
In fact, Jia's daughter-in-law is not as good as she looks. Jia's family conditions are good, but those are earned by his parents, so all the money at home is in their hands. Jia's mother is very dissatisfied with this daughter-in-law. After she got married, she didn't make things difficult, just not so good.
For example, Ajia's mother often spits out in front of outsiders: "My daughter-in-law just takes a child to cook a meal and says she is busy." During the confinement of her daughter-in-law, she didn't care much, only cared about her own business. Therefore, Jia's daughter-in-law has to take care of her children and family, so naturally she doesn't have so much energy to dress herself up.
And the daughter-in-law in Iowa is not as bad as she looks. Although they don't have much money, they are good to her. It is better to have a mother-in-law to take care of the children than Iowa. After marriage, she even had time to learn makeup. Even Iowa's mother said that the longer the daughter-in-law, the better.
And what you have become in your marriage will be directly reflected in your face.