1. Listen to each other's opinions and feelings. It is characterized by active listening, no interruption, no judgment and no interference.
2. Understand each other's situation and experience. The performance is to learn specific situational information and personal experiences from each other, so as to better understand and analyze your own problems or troubles.
3. Accept each other's personality and emotions, which is manifested by constantly emphasizing each other's enthusiasm, specialty and growth potential, and showing acceptance and understanding of each other.
4. Express respect and concern for each other, and reduce comments and accusations. At the same time, you can use affirmation, encouragement, support and other skills to promote each other's positive thinking and action.
Unconditional concern is one of the cornerstones of the consultant's consulting work, which can create a cordial, accepting and understanding atmosphere, provide full support and guarantee for the consultant, and enable the consultant to fully express and explore his own heart, thus achieving the purpose of solving personal problems and improving the quality of life.