It is particularly strange that Daiyu can not only see the shadow of Baochai's love, but also see Daiyu's understanding of the Jia family. Why does Daiyu know?
First of all, Daiyu's mother, Jia Min, is the eldest lady of the Jia family, and she will mention the Jia family's situation to Daiyu from time to time.
Daiyu can know Jia's situation, largely through her mother. Daiyu's mother is Jia Min, the youngest and favorite daughter of Jia family. Jia Min has never been back to Jiafu since she married the Lins, so Jia Min can only tell Daiyu what her mother thinks and what her family thinks. Through Jia Min's description, Daiyu learned more about the Jia family.
Daiyu often heard from her mother that her second aunt had a cousin who was born with jade, was stubborn and abnormal, hated reading very much, loved hanging out at home, and her grandmother loved her so much that no one dared to take care of her. Now that Mrs. Wang says so, I know she is talking about this cousin.
Daiyu heard that Baoyu in her mother's mouth was a handsome boy, but Baoyu in Daiyu's eyes was different. This is everyone's position and understanding of news is different. When Daiyu first met Baoyu, Baoyu cursed the jade and nicknamed her "Er Qiao". Maybe their fate begins here.
Daiyu has never been to Jia's house, but Jia Min grew up in Jia's family. As the eldest lady of Jia's family, she naturally holds it in her hand. She is very familiar with all the people in the Jia family, their behaviors and manners, and she will tell Daiyu all this. Maybe what I said to Daiyu that day was just a memory, but it became her idea when I came to Jia's house.
At least Daiyu won't be at a loss when she comes to Jia's house, and she won't be unfamiliar, because Jia's house is just the place where her mother grew up when she was a child. Perhaps it is some traces left by her. Daiyu can feel the temperature of her mother's existence here.
Second, Daiyu, who is new here, is very smart and can observe and learn from the Jia family, so she should talk less, look at people more and integrate into the Jia family as soon as possible.
Daiyu is a very clever girl. Her understanding of the Jia family only comes from the advice of her mother and father before she left. Although these are helpful to Daiyu, the actual operation still depends on Daiyu. Although Lin's family is also a home of books and food, they are still different from Jia's in many ways. Daiyu didn't know the Jia family's rules, but she could abide by them and did it at once.
For example, the Jia family eats two teas, the first one tastes like mouthwash, and the second one is the tea to drink. This rule is different from the Lins', but Daiyu only knows what to do through simple observation, and there is no embarrassment at all.
Secondly, when answering Jia's question about whether Daiyu studied, Daiyu knew that Jia didn't seem to want girls to have too much knowledge. So when Baoyu asked this question for the second time, Daiyu's answer was the same as Jia's. Jia said Tanchun only knew a few words, not blind. So is Daiyu. Is Daiyu's ability to observe words and observe colors very powerful?
Moreover, when Mrs. Wang took Daiyu to see Jia Zheng, Mrs. Wang specially gave Daiyu an examination question. Mrs. Wang repeatedly asked Daiyu to sit in Jia Zheng's position. Although Daiyu didn't know it was Jia Zheng's position, she knew it was Jia Zheng's position through analysis and judgment. No matter how polite Mrs. Wang was, Daiyu still sat on the stool next to her. Later, Mrs. Wang took her to sit with herself, and Daiyu agreed. Daiyu's wit is embodied here.
Daiyu doesn't know all the rules of the Jia family so well, but Daiyu knows how to read and feel. Facing things that she has never touched, Daiyu knows how to learn and then skillfully solve problems. These are all the cleverness of Daiyu, so talk less and watch more, and integrate into Jia family step by step.
Third, Daiyu didn't really understand that much, but walked politely.
Actually, Daiyu is just a child. She doesn't know many Jia's rules, but it's not surprising that she is polite to many people. Taking advantage of the situation is also a manifestation of Daiyu's high emotional intelligence. Jia's family eats the most regularly, which Daiyu had never heard of before, but Daiyu did a good job and made everyone satisfied.
While Grandmother Jia, Tanchun and other sisters were having dinner, Lady Wang, Li Wan and Wang Xifeng all stood by and waited on them. Daiyu didn't understand these rules. Wang Xifeng took Daiyu to sit next to Grandmother Jia, but Daiyu refused again and again.
Jia Zhu's wife, Li, has a meal. Xifeng is safe and Mrs. Wang is in the soup. Jia Mu sat alone on the couch with four chairs on both sides. Xifeng hurriedly pulled Daiyu to sit in the first chair on the left, and Daiyu was very reluctant. Grandmother Jia said with a smile, "Your aunt and sister-in-law don't eat here. As a guest, you should do this. " Daiyu sat down. Jia mu ordered Mrs. Wang to sit down.
"It's not surprising to be polite to many people." When I first arrive in a strange place, Daiyu's politeness will make people feel better. I don't mean to be polite, but to be polite. This is not something that anyone can teach, but a kind of cultivation. When Daiyu first arrived at Jia's house, she was also confused and afraid. She had nothing to say, and all Daiyu in Jia's house didn't quite understand it, so she had to take a step forward without saying a word, hide her strength, and learn and explore bit by bit.
Daiyu has lived in Jia's house for a long time, and she can take care of Mammy Li and teach Zhou Rui's family a lesson, which shows that Daiyu can't be bullied. Not to mention that Daiyu is a big miss Lin family. She grew up with various kinds of care, and there are also many snobs and bullies in Jia family. If Daiyu compromises blindly, she will be bullied into welcoming the Spring, so fierceness is also a means to protect herself. The Jia family is a big dye vat, and people who don't know how to survive can't live well in it.
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