Kazuo inamori's wife, Asako, was his assistant. They fell in love at work and got married the day after they left Song Feng industry. The wedding is simple and simple. Kyocera had a lot of work at the beginning, but kazuo inamori would never call his wife to the company no matter how short of manpower.
Asako never asks about his work, but silently guards his family. The headmaster mentioned in the book that "I am always as busy as a bee." She takes care of me, but doesn't interfere with my work. She always keeps the house in order. When I'm on a business trip, I wear clothes and pants separately every day, fold them neatly and put them in a box. "
The host and his wife lived a stable and happy life all their lives and were full of gratitude to their wives. Asako is undoubtedly lucky to marry a man like his master. But from Asako's point of view, if we talk about this kind of love, it may take on a different look. In addition to companionship and happiness, the long years she spent with the school principal should also include grievances and forbearance, loneliness and loneliness.
In the book, the person in charge of the school said, "Although I didn't thank her in person, without my wife, I couldn't concentrate on my work so highly, and it is difficult for the company to do well. I really appreciate my wife. " Readers must be envious and moved when they see this place.
Some time ago, Mrs. Shu Shu had physical problems and Shu Shu lost a lot of weight. But if the headmaster can express his gratitude to his wife in person, I think Asako, who has been paying silently, will feel very happy, which should be more valuable than touching us.
Some people may think that words like love and gratitude between two people are worthless if they are said too much. However, when people get along with relatives and friends at work, it is easy to express gratitude. How can they feel worthless when they meet the closest people? This idea is ridiculous. If you think that only the tacit understanding between two people can always perceive convenience, it is a bit too difficult for people. After all, ordinary people can't do it. Therefore, the closer you are, the more you should express your love and gratitude.
There is an e-book of Heart on the Internet. In this chapter, some netizens commented: "I also want to marry such a wife." I wonder if this netizen asked himself at the same time, "Do you want to be a comfortable person?" Just kidding.
In this regard, what I want to express is, don't blindly worship, don't blindly envy other people's lives, and don't blindly put the beautiful side of others you see on yourself, or compare with others, or suffer from loss.
Different countries have different cultural backgrounds, different social environments, different gender status, and different ways and habits of getting along.
Japan is a well-managed country. People living in Japan are more or less bound by some rules. Most Japanese men are dominant after marriage, which is the result of the long-term development of Japanese society. It is reasonable for a man to support his family and work hard outside. However, Japanese women's married life is very regular. They had to give up their careers and jobs. What they have to do every day is to be a good wife and mother at home, take care of their husbands and all kinds of constraints.
Japanese women live in "rules" for a long time, and this concept can be said to be deeply rooted.
However, with the development of the times, the situation of Japanese women is much better than before. I have read inspirational books written by Japanese women, which also mentioned how to balance family and career well after marriage. But back in 1950s, the marriage patterns of kazuo inamori and Asako were very traditional and Japanese, so it was difficult to replicate them in China.
Fortunately, in China, women's social status and family status are much higher, and society gives women more support and attention; In China, after marriage, women not only have to take care of their families, but most of them have to continue to work. In addition to making a living, they have another meaning: independence, autonomy and not being divorced from society. After all, the progress of two people is conducive to family construction and development; In China, many love stories have been handed down as anecdotes.
For example, the love story between Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu.
They are all famous writers in the literary world. Their love years are quiet, as long as water, and the longer they are, the purer they are, which is still fascinating. They are true soul mates. No matter whether life is ups and downs or Ma Pingchuan, as long as they are together, every day is sunny.
Qian Zhongshu once described Jiang Yang as "a unique combination of incompatible three: wife, lover and friend." He wrote many love letters for Jiang Yang, not only during their love, but also after their marriage. It is said that there is a whole box, which shows their deep love for Jiang Yang.
1935, when Jiang Yang accompanied Qian Zhongshu to study in Britain, Jiang Yang was not used to life in a foreign country and was homesick. One morning, Jiang Yang was still sleeping, and Qian Zhongshu was already busy in the kitchen. On weekdays, he is all thumbs and clumsy. He cooks eggs, bakes bread, heats milk and makes fragrant black tea. Sleepy-eyed Jiang Yang was awakened by Qian Wen. He put a small dining table on the bed and a delicious breakfast on the small table, so that Jiang Yang could sit on the bed and enjoy it at will. Eating the meal cooked by the other half, Jiang Yang said happily, "This is the most delicious breakfast I have ever eaten." Hearing his wife's satisfactory answer, Qian Zhongshu smiled with relief.
At the end of 1942, Jiang Yang created a play "Contentment", which received rave reviews. One day, Qian Zhongshu said to Jiang Yang, "I want to write a novel. What do you think?" Jiang Yang was very happy: "I support you. Start writing quickly."
In order to make him feel at ease in writing, Jiang Yang fired the maid at home, so that he could save money, attend fewer classes and have more creative time. She carried water, chopped wood, made a fire, cooked, washed the floor, sewed clothes, climbed over walls and windows ... She just wanted to turn her sweat into her husband's pearl. Two years later, Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged, known as "a vivid picture of the world", came out. Qian Zhongshu said in the preface of Fortress Besieged: "This book was written for two years. For two years, I have been worried about the world, and I want to stop many times. Thanks to Ms. Jiang Yang's constant urging, she stopped many things for me, saved time, and was able to finish writing at every penny. As usual, this book should be dedicated to her. " In fact, Fortress Besieged was written during the fall of Shanghai. In hard times, husband and wife love each other and treat each other like guests. It is commendable to have this kind of true feelings.
After Qian Zhongshu died, in order to reassure Mr. Jiang Yang, he paid more attention to taking care of his health. In addition to eating and drinking, he insists on walking 7000 steps at home every day, even bending down to touch the ground, and his legs and feet are very flexible. She said, "Zhong Shu has escaped. I also want to escape, but where can I escape? " There's no escape. I must stay in this world, clean up the scene and perform my duties. "
Another example is the love story between Li Ka-shing and Zhuang Yueming.
Unlike kazuo inamori and Asako, after their marriage, Zhuang Yueming joined Li Ka-shing Company to help him. In important business negotiations with foreigners, Zhuang Yueming not only acted as an interpreter, but also reminded her husband of the matters needing attention in the negotiations from time to time, which made Li Ka-shing's career bigger and bigger.
"Changjiang Industry" went public, and Zhuang Yueming became the executive director, which is one of the core figures in the company's decision-making level. Many groundbreaking decisions made by Li Ka-shing contain Zhuang Yueming's wisdom and painstaking efforts.
A person familiar with the Li family said, "People always talk about how Li Ka-shing, a real estate tycoon, founded Acer Ye Wei with superhuman skills, but few people talk about his wife and Ms. Zhuang Yueming, a career-leading assistant. It is hard for us to imagine what Li Ka-shing's career would be like if he hadn't met Zhuang Yueming in his life? "
In addition, Li Ka-shing and his family made a rule: No matter how busy they are at work, the whole family eats together every Monday night. It is enough to see that family and career can be balanced, which will not affect career, but will be smoother.
Whether it's silent guarding and firm support, sharing responsibility and mutual achievement, or creating and growing together, every love story is true, and whether you like it or not, it won't have any influence on the people in the story. There are many people, things and things that we take for granted and think are true. Actually, you can take another look. Understanding this will provide us with a new perspective and enrich the world we see. The important thing is, what do you want? When people make wishes, they usually expect happiness.
So what is happiness? Does it matter? Spirit? Maybe you have achieved the happiness goal you set and started to pursue new goals. Don't blindly pursue so-called "happiness"! What many people lack is often the ability to perceive happiness.
In the past, I always advised several colleagues and friends who didn't even have time to fall in love to find a way to get rid of the bill as soon as possible, but now I basically don't advise them, because everyone has the right to choose life, and it takes opportunities to meet the right partner. If you get rid of the bill because you are moved or eager to get rid of it, it may not bring happiness.
Mr. kazuo inamori mentioned in the book that "despite this, her feelings about life are very consistent with mine, so she can live a stable and happy life together." Yes, when two people are together, there must always be an intersection. This opportunity can be called a good marriage.
Whether you are single or lonely, there is no uniform standard version of happiness in the world. As long as you realize that every happy event belongs to you or two people, you will undoubtedly be happy, whether it is the process of achieving your goal or the moment you reach it.
Finally, I ended with a touching story I saw the other day.
In the past many years, a pile of candy has appeared in many famous exhibition halls around the world. This is a work of art, and the person who created this work is called Gonzalez.
The weight of candy is neither too much nor too little, which is exactly 79.4 kilograms. What's the weight? This is the weight of his lover before his death. In the darkest moment of his life, the artist Gonzalez chose to commemorate his lover in a special way.
There is no guardrail around the candy. It means that tourists can take some as souvenirs, eat them or take them away. However, every day at the end of the exhibition, Gonzalez will re-weigh the pile of candy and then make up the part that was taken away. In this way, day after day, uninterrupted. The weight of this pile of candy is always 79.4 kilograms.
What does Gonzalez want to express?
Life is so sweet, just like candy. But life will always pass, just like candy will always be taken away. But the most important thing is that no matter what happens, the person who loves him will always be born again and again.
This story bears witness to the power of love.
So, please cherish and respond to the people you love, your parents, children, family and friends, and even comrades. Whether it is a little love or a big love, this kind of love can be understood and supported by practical actions.
Because this love will make people reborn again and again!