When a woman has a house and practical skills, every day of her life is sunny, because your happiness does not depend on anyone, and everything you want can be self-sufficient. Isn't this the ideal life that most of us pursue all our lives?
If you have studied marriage law, you will find that marriage is a loss-making business for women. The law simply does not recognize the value of women's childbirth and labor. It protects pre-marital property, and the name of the house can no longer protect your rights and interests. Even if you pay for the decoration, you won't get compensation in case of divorce.
Men nowadays are good at abacus. They openly talk about marriage with their girlfriends, secretly buy houses, and then brainwash girls. When the time comes, our two families will pay for the decoration together, and mine will be yours. At first glance, there is no problem, but after careful investigation, the problem comes out. He bought this suite before marriage, which is no different from his personal property, but his house needs your money to decorate it. Why? If you have money to decorate, why not ask your neighbors and friends for some money and buy your own suite?
My friend Xiao Li has been in love for three years and broke up with her because she bought a house. When the two families met to talk about marriage, the man and the mother said that they had bought a house for their son and would lend them money later. You only need to pay for the decoration. Xiao Li's mother's face collapsed immediately. After a few bites, she took Xiao Li and her husband away on the pretext of something.
Li was puzzled at that time and asked if there were any questions. Li's mother immediately scolded: "This old bastard is good enough." She asked Li, "Does he know the amount of your deposit?" Li said that she knew that she had been saving money for years. Li's mother took her family to the real estate company the next day and looked at the house for a week. During this period, Li can't have any contact with her boyfriend until she buys a house. Our family has no money to decorate for you. Our family just bought a suite for Xiaoli the other day. When the man heard this, his face was just like Xiaoli's mother, and he collapsed in an instant. They didn't even have the patience to wait for the food to be served, so they left at once.
Three days later, Xiao Li's boyfriend broke up, and Xiao Li was still uncomfortable for a while, but when the house came down and saw his name written on the real estate license, Xiao Li's gloomy mood was immediately swept away.
How happy is a woman with a house?
When quarreling with your husband, you can slam the door loudly, go back to your home, take a comfortable bath, live alone with you, and wait for your husband to admit his mistake. If he refuses to accept it, you will pay the price. If he divorces you, you still have a chic place without him.
Mother-in-law is afraid to give you a hard time. First of all, you can afford a house, which shows that your economic strength is very good. Although I am old, I am not confused about money. If she is kind to you, you will get something in return and you will make money. Her son's work pressure will be less. This prosperous daughter-in-law doesn't care about her son and has to be anxious with her.
You don't have to make do with yourself if you have a house. You have time and energy to wait for love, instead of finding a good-looking man casually and making a hasty decision on marriage under the pressure of your elders.
For women, your self-confidence is not a man's favor, nor a marriage that looks happy for a while. Your most important self-confidence is that you have a pre-marital property house that belongs to you alone. The house price is really high now. You can't afford it in five years, but you can buy it in ten years. As long as you are diligent, you will earn your little world sooner or later.