Discussion on expanding the business field of psychological counselors, marriage and family lawyers and psychological counselors 1. The necessity of marriage and family union lawyers and psychological counselors often have a lot of psychological problems to solve in the process of litigation. However, the professional feature of lawyers is to act in full accordance with legal procedures and give legal guidance to clients. However, when clients are faced with the internal conflict of marriage crisis, they still lack the professional ability to help solve it. First of all, the case illustrates the necessity of combining marriage and family lawyers with psychological counselors. Case 1: Hu Moumou married Zhang Moumou in 14, and his child was 9 years old. The man is prone to violence and often commits domestic violence against the woman. This woman has lived with her parents for three years, and this man even went to her parents' house to make trouble. The woman strongly demanded a divorce and even gave up the right to divide property. The woman found me through the marriage and family network. After listening to her statement, I feel that her marriage relationship has broken down, and the maintenance of marriage relationship can only hurt both parties and even bring up children. Ms Hu herself very much hopes for divorce, but she is afraid of violence in Zhang Moumou. Because Zhang Moumou often threatened to kill Ms. Hu if she filed for divorce. Ms. Hu is very scared inside. I deeply realize that solving Ms. Hu's psychological obstacles is the primary problem. But I can only communicate with Ms. Hu based on my own practical experience. I asked Ms. Hu about her husband's work and social life. Zhang Moumou works in a famous newspaper. He has all kinds of positions and has a harmonious relationship with his colleagues. I told Ms. Hu that according to my judgment, their marriage relationship was mediated by a lawyer.
It will be solved soon, and Zhang Moumou won't do any harm. Ms. Hu is required to believe in the law and the judgment of lawyers. But this does not solve her psychological barrier. I suggested that she go to psychotherapy and introduced her to a counselor. After Ms. Hu left, I communicated with the psychological counselor. After two hours of psychological counseling, Ms. Hu quickly made up her mind and found me accompanied by her mother. I signed an employment contract. After I accepted the entrustment, I contacted Zhang Moumou and told him that I accepted the entrustment of Hu Moumou to handle the marriage dispute between them. I'll give him a week to come to the office for an interview, or I'll file a lawsuit immediately. At the same time, I obtained the real estate registration and vehicle registration information under the name of Zhang Moumou, which was beyond my expectation. Zhang Moumou actually keeps two properties of Ms. Hu. I am more confident that this case can be mediated soon. Although Zhang Moumou promised to meet me in the office, he didn't come and didn't call Ms. Hu. Seven days later, I went to the court to file a case. Zhang Moumou found me the day he received the summons. Through me, I told him the relevant laws and regulations, and Zhang Moumou quickly agreed to mediate. As a result, a mediation opinion was quickly reached. Accompanied by a lawyer, she went to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce, and Ms. Hu got the real estate and property she deserved. After the divorce certificate was issued, I withdrew the lawsuit from the court and the case was successfully concluded. Now Ms. Hu lives happily and speaks highly of the lawyer's work.
This simple case fully shows that the cooperation between lawyers and psychological counselors is very important and indispensable when dealing with marriage and family disputes. Without the participation of psychological counselors, the parties can't overcome their psychological barriers, and it is difficult for lawyers to accept cases, and nothing else can be said. Helping the parties get out of the shadow of marriage requires the participation of psychological counselors and the close cooperation between marriage and family lawyers and psychological counselors. Marriage and family lawyers are like an institution that provides advice and services. They just provide customers with relevant legal knowledge and information. There is only an equal transaction process between him and his customers. If the client pays and the lawyer provides services, either party can terminate the contract if it is not satisfied. Because of the lawyer's special consulting content, this industry has added more emotional and social content than other technical consulting industries, but in fact, giving this role too much social responsibility is not only unfair, but also distorts this profession. Therefore, it is not the duty of lawyers to seek and pursue social justice directly. Lawyers have their duties. His duty is to provide perfect legal services while charging customers fees, no matter who his clients are, so that his clients can make maximum use of the law to protect their civil rights. When necessary, everyone in this society can fully enjoy civil rights through such legal services. Third, the mode of cooperation between marriage and family lawyers and psychological counselors (1) Psychological counselors join the law firm to achieve close cooperation. In view of the inevitable psychological problems such as doubt, anxiety, resentment and fear of many divorce litigants, psychological counselors will use professional methods such as personality measurement, anxiety test and marriage relationship test to help them.
They find out the root of the marriage crisis and give them scientific test results.
Some suggestions of "facing the present situation and future of marriage with a correct attitude" also have timely follow-up psychological adjustment services in the early stage of new life after divorce. Lawyers will give some legal advice to the parties seeking help in divorce proceedings, including the legal provisions on property division and child support after family disintegration, including the specific details of divorce agreements, and also help the parties to foresee a series of difficulties they will face after divorce. In economically developed cities, such as Shanghai, there are already law firms and lawyers specializing in marriage and family business. By cooperating with the media and establishing professional websites, these peers have gained a certain popularity, and also undertaken a lot of marriage and family affairs, and their social and economic benefits have increased year by year. Among these qualified law firms and professional marriage and family lawyers, it is very important to set up psychological counselors who are proficient in marriage psychological counseling. Such a cooperation model can achieve a win-win situation. Professional lawyers can refer those who are in urgent need of solving marital problems but have psychological barriers to psychological counselors for on-site solution. The effect is obvious. Through the work of psychological counselors, the analysis of marital status provides a good possibility and opportunity for those parties who have not broken down their marriage and have tense family relations and do not have to go to court for child custody, alimony and alimony. This is in line with the concept of building a harmonious society and will also build confidence for those parties who have serious marriage and family problems. Therefore, it is absolutely necessary for qualified law firms and professional marriage lawyers to achieve this close cooperation. (2) The loose cooperation between lawyers and counselors is based on the functions of marriage and family lawyers and counselors. If there are no conditions to achieve close cooperation, loose cooperation can be adopted. This mode of cooperation can be simply described as: marriage and family lawyers and psychological counselors establish cooperative relations through concluding contracts. In the process of handling cases, when lawyers encounter psychological obstacles of clients, psychological counselors participate in time to do a good job of psychological counseling. When the counselor comes into contact with the psychological object and the marriage is confirmed to be dead after evaluation, the lawyer participates in time to help the client build confidence and solve the problem through legal channels. Finally, we can achieve a win-win situation for marriage and family lawyers and psychological counselors. This mode of cooperation requires both parties to have a strong sense of social responsibility and the psychological concept of building a harmonious society from a harmonious marriage and a harmonious family. While pursuing economic benefits, we should give consideration to social benefits. At the same time, in the process of re-cooperation, the experience and lessons are summarized, so that the cooperation mode can be gradually improved in operability and scientificity. (3) Marriage and family lawyers should constantly learn psychological knowledge. A qualified marriage and family lawyer should be not only a legal expert in marriage and family, but also a psychologist. In the process of contacting the parties from all walks of life, if you can't grasp the psychological trends of the parties, can't understand their needs, and interpret the law completely according to your own logical model, I'm afraid it's difficult to get the approval of the parties. A good lawyer who specializes in marriage and family should grasp the psychological trend of the client from his speech and behavior. Purposeful psychological counseling and legal analysis. Be rational, be forceful and be restrained. By doing this, lawyers will feel at ease in handling cases. turn