However, since ancient times, what has Fiona Fang become a happy education without rules and constraints?
Let's look at a news first: Mr. Zhou, who lives in Zhejiang, was sued by his neighbor. The reason is that the neighbor's children ate Mr. Zhou's abnormal spicy takeaway, which was so spicy that they were admitted to the hospital. Neighbors sued him for compensation.
At that time, Mr. Zhou was angry and laughing. Why did he eat my meal and ask me to pay the medical bill? Isn't this a fable? The netizens under the comments also think it is ridiculous, and stealing is reasonable.
And before that, the child stole Mr. Zhou's takeaway more than once, that is, in order to punish this "takeaway thief", Mr. Zhou ordered such a abnormal spicy takeaway, but I didn't expect that the arrested child was actually a few years old. The other family also argued that "why did he order such a spicy takeaway when he was only a few years old?"
Let alone that Mr. Zhou didn't know that the thief was a child. Since the family already knows that the children are stealing Mr. Zhou's takeaway, why do they have to let the children eat other people's food again and again? The reason is probably that children think it is fun and let it go.
If we had stopped our children from stealing for the first time, the disaster would not have happened today.
We do carry out happiness education, so that children can feel happy in their study and life, but happiness education is not blindly indulgent, but is bound by rules, so that children can grow up healthily physically and mentally.
If you find a problem with your child, you should guide it correctly in time. Without guidance, children can easily go astray. What is happy education? It is reasonable scolding, empathy, not connivance, not just saying good things to children.
The so-called "happy education" is not laissez-faire, and the core should follow three principles:
Happiness education is empathy education: I understand your feelings, son, but you can't be willful.
Among the stars, there are many opinions about parenting, such as Stephy's education on luck. She once said in an interview that she had a beautiful little skirt. She liked it very much, and so did her daughter. She wanted to take it away, so they quarreled.
But Stephy didn't give up her views and positions. She told her daughter that even if she liked it again, she wouldn't give it to her daughter, and she wouldn't ask her to give anything she loved. And told her: "I know you like my skirt very much, but I can't give it to you, because it's mine, and no one can take it away unless I agree."
This kind of education is really correct. Nowadays, many children go to other people's homes, and when they see other people's toys, they cry and take them away, regardless of whether others agree or not.
My classmate has such a child. I sell some toys in my spare time. He took a fancy to my transformers, hundreds of dollars. His mother is not here, and he has gone out, and he didn't tell me that Aunt wants that toy. Can you give it to me? He has been telling his sister by my side, Sister, I want Transformers, and talked for nearly an hour, wanting me to give him the toy, but I ignored him.
I thought his mother's coming would stop him from this behavior, but her mother didn't say a word and let him make trouble. Even so, she didn't stop him from dropping tables and bowls while we were eating.