1, sincere. Is to chat with girls sincerely. Maybe he is not good at words and can't say anything to praise girls; Maybe I'm too nervous to look at the girl's face; May be born shy, too boring and so on. However, as long as you chat sincerely with girls, you may leave a good impression on each other.
2. Be able to find the topic. Talk about things that both sides know, social hot issues, anecdotes of celebrities, weather conditions, etc. They are all topics suitable for two people and can lead to other interesting topics. Talk about things around you, talk about your own life experience, unforgettable things in life experience and so on.
3. You must be able to observe words and colors. When chatting with girls, we can carefully observe the subtle changes of girls' facial expressions, and choose appropriate topics or words she is interested in at the right time. When you chat with a girl, if she frowns slightly or her eyes are uncertain, it means that the girl is not interested in your topic.
4. Be able to guide the topic. That is to say, when chatting with girls, we should take the initiative to guide the topic and lead it deeper. No matter what topics girls talk about, you should take the initiative to be a loyal listener and topic guide. If it is a topic you are familiar with, you can express your unique ideas and opinions in time and gradually lead the topic deeper.
5. Be able to praise and encourage. It is to praise and encourage girls through body language when chatting with girls, so as to improve their enthusiasm for chatting. Men like compliments, and women like compliments. When chatting with a woman, in order to improve her self-confidence and interest in chatting, you should learn to praise and encourage her at the right time.
Matters needing attention in chatting with girls
1. Don't ask rigidly (such as what did you eat? What do you do? Such an inquiry will not only appear rude, but also reduce your own value. Girls will soon lose interest in low-value boys.
2, don't show yourself too much, in order to show off some aspects of your Excellence in front of girls, deliberately brush the sense of existence. But don't cater to girls' views too much. Only by having their own unique views can we attract more girls.