Do you know that they are all highly married? Why is Hualan oppressed by her mother-in-law, but Xiao Qin can't cure it?

Hua Lanhe is a woman who was carefully trained by the old lady Sheng and married into the halls. It will inevitably be compared by the outside world. Their married situation is really very different. Although Hua Lanxian is famous, she has a hard time in her husband's family. She not only has to take a dowry to cover her mother-in-law's expenses, but also stands in front of her mother-in-law every day. And Ming Lan's reputation outside is not as good as Hualan's, and she has absolute right to speak at home. Even her mother-in-law Qin Xiao is helpless to this daughter-in-law.

Then the question is, since both of them are highly matched, why is the gentle and virtuous Hua Lanjie oppressed by her mother-in-law, but Xiao Qin can't be cured of being born in an ordinary woman? First: Mrs. Yuan is Yuan Wenshao's biological mother, and Xiao Qin is Gu's stepmother. No matter how bad Mrs. Yuan is, Yuan Wenshao, as his own son, dare not contradict. Even if I am distressed by Hualan's grievances, I dare not turn against Mrs. Yuan. The gentle Hualan couldn't bear her husband to be caught between herself and her mother-in-law, so she often took the initiative to endure those difficulties.

Xiao Qin is Gu's stepmother. After Gu's death, she turned against her completely. After marrying Gu, she became hostile to her. She doesn't even have to take care of the woman who killed her husband. Xiao Qin nature can't do anything about Ming Lan.

Second: The marriage between Hua Lan and Yuan Wenshao is the fate of parents, not Gu's wife. Yuan Wenshao and Hua Lan will be together because of their elders' marriage. There is no emotional foundation before marriage, but only mutual respect after marriage, so Yuan Wenshao will only feel sorry when he sees Hualan being bullied by his mother. In order to marry, Gu's art of war and calculation show how much he values, how much he cares about Ming Lan and how much he cherishes, not to mention that he is not Gu's biological mother. Even if Bai is still there, Gu will not be wronged.

After all, Yuan Wen still doesn't love Hualan enough, and Rulan's mother-in-law is not good to her, but as long as Wen Yanjing is at home, he will try his best to protect his wife and block more than half of the trouble for Rulan. Therefore, whenever Yuan Wenshao thinks of Hualan for a penny, Hualan will not be bullied by her mother-in-law. Hua Lan in the original is 1000 times more wronged than in the TV series. Her dowry was not only spent by her mother-in-law, but also used to support her husband's concubine. Finally, Yuan Wenshao and Master Yuan couldn't stand it anymore. One sold his concubine to send his mother away, and the other threatened Mrs. Yuan with several rooms. Only then can Hualan, who was tortured by her mother-in-law for ten years, be saved.