There is an old saying that husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly separately. Actually, it's not. It's just that my feelings are not in place.
There are many people in life whose marriage is just a marriage relationship and has no substantive feelings. The actions between lovers who really love each other can be found at a glance.
Lao Zhang and his daughter-in-law are in their forties this year. Neighbors say that Lao Zhang and his daughter-in-law are model couples. It is said that since they got married, they have almost no contradiction and love each other.
So everyone summed up some characteristics between Lao Zhang and his wife. In life, the more "loving" couples are, the more they have three actions. I hope you have them, too.
1. The more loving couples are, the more they will cover up their faults for each other.
"People who really love each other will not only tolerate each other's shortcomings, but also regard each other's shortcomings as advantages." anonymous
The more loving people are, the more perfect they are in each other's eyes. Even they don't allow others to deny each other and are good at excusing each other's faults.
Earlier, Lao Zhang and his wife worked in the same factory. Because of a small accident, Lao Zhang's daughter-in-law was severely criticized by the leader. Lao Zhang got into a fight with the leader in a rage, and the final result was that Lao Zhang and his daughter-in-law left.
A friend around me said that it was inevitable to submit to humiliation for a living, but Lao Zhang said, "My daughter-in-law can't scold anyone. I'd rather let her do laundry and cook at home than let her go out and suffer indignities. "
Since then, Lao Zhang has never let his daughter-in-law work, which is the envy of every daughter-in-law.
2. The more loving couples are, the more they know how to protect each other's dreams.
"People who really understand you will be by your side when the whole world is against you." anonymous
The more loving couples are, the more they will know how to protect each other's dreams and support each other, even if others don't.
Lao Zhang has always been reluctant to work for others, always thinking about buying and selling small things, but at that time, food and clothing could not be solved, but Lao Zhang's daughter-in-law was really supportive. Under the opposition of the whole family, Lao Zhang quit his step-by-step job and started his own business.
Under the denial and questioning of family and friends, only Lao Zhang's daughter-in-law supports herself wholeheartedly. At that time, the couple were very bitter, but after more than ten years, Lao Zhang had his own stable storefront and became a small boss.
In fact, as long as you know that someone is with you, you will have great motivation.
3. The more loving couples are, the more they feel that they don't have enough love all their lives.
"True love cannot be separated." anonymous
Hearing this, I think Lao Zhang and his wife are very loving and enviable, but not enough.
The more loving couples are, the more inseparable they are.
Not long ago, Lao Zhang's daughter-in-law was ill and hospitalized. During that time, Lao Zhang's face was full of sadness, and it could be seen that he was very distressed. Fortunately, Lao Zhang's daughter-in-law has recovered now, saying that Lao Zhang took good care of him and was really lucky to find such a man all his life.
In fact, a couple who really love each other can't live without each other, no matter how duplicitous they are.
Summary:
Life is only a few decades, and it is a happy thing to have someone who loves himself and loves him.