First, the farce caused by the mother-in-law favoring her daughter. It should have been a happy family, because even during confinement, my mother-in-law went to wait on her daughter, and my daughter-in-law didn't say anything, indicating that my daughter-in-law is actually an acceptable daughter-in-law, but my mother-in-law can appreciate the value of her daughter-in-law.
Mother-in-law's daughter signed up for work in order to get back in shape after confinement. Who knows where the boss's eyes turned with the passage of time? Both of them have their own families and will not divorce for each other, so they become close and the boss even sends her home.
As a result, this move was also seen by the mother-in-law of her mother-in-law. When asked, her mother-in-law's daughter admitted it, so her mother-in-law was very angry and asked her for a divorce. But at this time, my daughter's mother actually asked her daughter-in-law to go to her husband's house and said that the boss was her daughter-in-law's lover. It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it?
Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs our maintenance, but the husband's intervention is also very important. At this time, the husband of the daughter-in-law also stood up and said what does it have to do with his wife? And seeing his mother holding his wife and insisting that she solve it, the man couldn't help hurting his sister again, trying to be nice to his mother. He told his sister directly, or went back to apologize or divorced.
Although her husband finally forgave her mother-in-law's daughter's behavior, she did not give up. Instead, I told my mother that I would never let my wife take the blame easily again. This time, the mother-in-law is much more honest. After all, her son has made it very clear that if she goes after her daughter-in-law, her son will only dislike her even more.
Although it is necessary to respect the mother-in-law, it is sometimes difficult to rely on the forbearance of the daughter-in-law, because some mothers-in-law are very good and some are really ridiculous, so it is also important for the husband to intervene in time, at least let those wonderful mothers-in-law know how to restrain themselves.
Third, it is also important for a man to know how to protect his wife in marriage, which is also the guarantee of marriage stability. Nowadays, many couples divorce because of the mother-in-law relationship. In fact, their mother-in-law is not good to them, and they can tolerate it. But what they really can't stand is that their husbands don't stand up and defend themselves, making them feel that such a man is not worth putting up with, so they will choose to divorce.
In other words, it is not the mother-in-law who really makes women feel chilling in marriage, but the husband who doesn't ask or even defend himself, so a man knows how to protect his wife in marriage, which is the guarantee of marital happiness.
Therefore, if a man knows how to protect his wife in marriage, then some mother-in-law will be restrained by her son's attitude even if she goes too far. After all, the mother-in-law doesn't want her son to hate herself. Although it won't be much better for the daughter-in-law, at least it won't be the same as before, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been temporarily solved.