This question has been asked before, and I think it is constantly raised, which shows that the next generation of grandparents also attach great importance to the education of their grandchildren. At present, many old people have realized that children are raised by different generations. Unlike the old days when sons gave their children to the elderly, the elderly only needed to feed their children and wear warm clothes, so as not to climb high and low, which was dangerous. Because now everyone attaches great importance to children's education from childhood, not only parents want their children to succeed, but also grandparents.
It runs in the family, how should grandparents educate their grandchildren?
It is observed that many families in IT now run at home, and grandparents live directly with their children and help with their children. In other words, the elderly separated from the two places have become the main force with the baby. Because old people and young people have lived together for a long time, apart from the contradictions arising from different living habits, there are also many contradictions in raising grandchildren.
Generally speaking, the main reason for the contradiction in Separate child care is not only the difference in living habits, but also the contradiction caused by the different parenting concepts of the elderly and young people. The main source of contradictions is generally some experienced old man put people, who not only have to take care of their grandchildren's food and drink, but also guide their children.
You should know that parents are the best teachers in the process of children's growth, and parents are the protagonists in family education. As long as mom and dad are present, no matter what the children do wrong, they will be educated by their parents. Grandparents and grandparents must not command and interrupt. Some old people think that they have brought a few experienced children and are bossing around in educating their grandchildren. Obviously it is wrong, but I still don't like young people to educate their children, so intergenerational education is inevitably contradictory.
The society is progressing and the times are developing. Those so-called experiences of old people taking care of children have now become an old almanac. You know, the old almanac is no longer suitable for the new era. Educate children to keep pace with the times.
Family education is the key before children enter school. In family education, today's young people have high cultural quality and new educational concepts, and they know how to educate their children. In family education, the education of grandparents separated from each other to their grandchildren is only an aid and supplement to their parents. I hope that grandparents and grandparents will recognize their identity, find their own position, and actively cooperate with their parents to play a supporting role.
Every child is an individual, and every family has its own actual situation. As far as I know, some parents can't live with their children because of the nature of their work, and some are very close to their children, but they often go to work when their children are asleep and don't go home until their children are asleep at night. In other words, although parents live with their children, the time they really spend with them is very limited.
We should know that children's growth can't stop because their parents are busy, and there is no turning back in educating children. Especially before the age of 6, it is the most critical period for the formation of children's personality. The development of children's intelligence, the cultivation of various abilities, the cultivation of good habits and character, and so on. If children want to grow up healthily, family education can't be sloppy.
In the golden age of children's growth, parents' companionship and education cannot be in place, so grandparents of different generations should bravely shoulder the burden of family education.
As mentioned above, under special circumstances, grandparents can take on the heavy responsibility of educating their grandchildren, but it should be noted that times are different, and educating children can't just stay in the old way of educating their children, not only relying on their own so-called experience, but also not selling old qualifications and being self-righteous. I'm in charge.
Now is the information age, children have been well informed since childhood, and their education should keep pace with the times. Old people may have studied less before and had limited knowledge of parenting. Now they should learn from scratch. Learn more about parenting knowledge and new parenting experiences. In addition to mastering parenting knowledge and methods, we should also communicate with young people frequently and listen to their opinions and suggestions. Only when parents and the elderly are in the same boat can family education receive good results and children grow up healthily and happily.
In short, educate children not to sing their own songs and play their own trumpet. Parents and grandparents who educate their children must be unified. When encountering problems, you must never tear each other apart in front of the children, but communicate behind their backs. Because it's easy for the old people of every generation to spoil their grandchildren, when the young people wake up, the old people should accept it modestly. Old people have one thing in common, that is, they like to be opinionated. Maybe young people can be tolerant of the little things in life, but on the issue of educating children, after all, the protagonist of educating children is mom and dad, and grandparents should not be in power. On the issue of educating grandchildren, as long as mom and dad are here, grandparents will give in by three points. The best way is to be confused. Don't you think so?