Yesterday, in a news photo, Xiaoli, a sophomore girl from Hantai Middle School in Hanzhong, Shaanxi Province, was electrocuted by her left leg. From the thigh to the calf, looking around, it was covered with blood spots. Her mother, Ms. Yang, said that her daughter was bullied by the boy at the same table for a long time. She refused to pay back the money she borrowed and stabbed herself in the leg with a gel pen. In addition to the old and new overlapping wounds on her legs, Xiaoli also has several obvious bruises on her waist and abdomen, which was also caused by Xiao Qiang. In this regard, Han Yanqing, vice president of Hantai Middle School, said that after school investigation, Xiaoli and Xiao Qiang had a good relationship after they became deskmates. They agreed that whoever did not pay attention to the class would be beaten. Xiaoli's injury "can only be said to be a joke between classmates."
Just a few days ago, in a video circulating on the Internet, a girl in a middle school in Jiayu County, Hubei Province was slapped by several classmates in turn. Some of them laughed and said "hit hard", while others smoked nearby. The girl who was beaten blushed, but did not dare to move. In the face of doubts, the first reaction of the staff of the local education bureau office is that this is a "joke between classmates."
As onlookers thousands of miles away, these two jokes did not cause the author to smile. As an ordinary person with normal perception, there are hundreds of silent bleeding in the picture, and repeated burning insults in the video have caused the author's nerve pain. "Joke", this bloody and animal atmosphere, what kind of joke is it?
The headmaster and the staff of the Education Bureau, as parents, are definitely unable to look at such a picture calmly. Why do public officials dare to make a joke without changing their faces? Boldly speculate, because the official career should be smooth sailing and avoid turmoil, even if school bullying is serious, how can we make a fuss about it and drop the excuse of poor management? In the knee-jerk reaction, the official standard, the urgency of sweating on the back and the posture that must be stopped have produced a wonderful chemical reaction and become three words that despise the IQ of the world.
The "joke" theory, from the starting point, is not evil, but the interests of the perpetrators and some managers overlap. In fact, at the moment of "joking", they have become criminals in school bullying.
The perpetrator is the oldest but 17 years old, and the law is tolerant. But before the palm of your hand was raised and the hard pen was thrust out, these cruel children far beyond their age carefully read the legal provisions. Do they rely on it? The author believes that they are more sure that they are more cruel than minors, and adults seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Just like Xiaoli who was stabbed to pieces, she didn't want to take the initiative to ask the teacher for help in the end. Although she is weak, she foresees the ineffectiveness of asking for help in advance with the sensitivity of the weak. Before asking for help, I was tortured by my twisted peers for fun, losing my physical autonomy and mental health; After asking for help, everything is characterized as equal communication between classmates. Which is more painful, daily panic or the collapse of authority?
Criminals will be punished. The vice principal of Hantai Middle School, who loves to laugh, said that Xiao Qiang had been detained for examination before, and the school would study the punishment for him in the next step, but the purpose was to protect and save the children. I don't know if the headmaster has heard. Last month, the Ministry of Education and other departments (1 1) clearly stated that for serious bullying incidents that persist in teaching or have bad circumstances, bullying students can be transferred to special (work-study) schools for education if necessary. You see, the policy says that according to the situation, education and punishment; The countermeasure says, "joking", protecting and saving.
Protecting and saving bullies is indeed the greatness of teachers; If you stop with a black veil and step on the bullied person, and you keep saying forgiveness, then you are insignificant.